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Realitea is an lgbtq life affirming introspective podcast hosted by Jake Hughes and Jallen Messersmith. They serve the tea straight from the tea pot on every topic imaginable, while always mixing in a healthy dose of pop culture. Discussing everything from Drag to the Mormon church, sit down with Jake and Jallen as they explore the world, and join them in taking a sip of RealiTea.
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THAT'S A WRAP ON SEASON 1! Jake and Jallen look back on their first season of RealiTea and talk about some of their absolute fave mems and what their goals are for season 2! After this ep, they are taking a cute little baby break to grow and plan more podcast fun for the future. Sit down with them and taste the rest of S1 tea bb!…
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Work. Whether you love it or hate it, it pays the bills and provides you with opportunities you otherwise might not experience. While laying in bed and vegging out might seem ideal at times, getting on your grind and committing to getting the job done is a whole other level of rewarding! This week Jake and Jallen sit down to discuss all things job-…
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We Are Family w/ Cooper and Luca Coyle
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We are family! I’ve got all my sisters with me! Family can be tricky for anyone, but regardless of your relationship with yours, no one can deny that family plays a significant role in your life at some point. This week, the boys sit down with YouTubers Cooper and Luca Coyle (who are also twin brothers) and talk about the ins and outs of what famil…
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Extra extra hear all about it! Jake and Jallen have some news for you they can’t wait to spill the tea on. This week the boys are switching it up and bringing you a whole episode dedicated to hot topics! Join Jake and Jallen as they go through twitter and talk about all things trending and get the 411 on what even is going on in this crazy world.…
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If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else can we get an amen up in here?? RuPaul said it, and so it shall be done. We are loving ourselves babiezzzz! This week, the boys sit down to talk about the most important care in the world, SELF CARE. Get cozy and treat yo self to a warm little baby cup of tea as we dish ab…
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Workin 9 to 5 w/ No Name Outfitters
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Sorry Fifth Harmony, this week we ARE going to work (work work work work work work). Literally having a job is not always easy. The stress of working AND doing so successfully can get to anyone. BUT on top of dealing with the typical professional pressures, even more can be added when a person experiences inequality at their job. This week, the boy…
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In society today, people have like a MILLION contradicting opinions on the topic of gender. While it seems there are disagreements all across the board, the fact of the matter is that gender is not as black and white (or as blue and pink) as the world acts like it is. This week, the boys sit down with Alex Clark to talk about gender identity and ex…
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This Is America w/ Jordan Colovos
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In America, racial inequality and stereotypes are still deeply rooted throughout our society and culture. This week, Jake and Jallen sit down with NYC dancer Jordan Colovos to discuss the topic of race, the experiences of being a person of color while also belonging to the LGBTQ+ community, and how we can all progress together to gain a little bit …
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Get On Your Feet w/ Marti G Cummings
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In life, there are a lot of things to be passionate about. With everyone’s opinions constantly flying around us the list of things to get fired up about, truly goes on and on. But just as it’s important to have an opinion, it is also important to ACT on it. This week, the boys sit down with NYC drag queen Marti G Cummings and discuss the ins and ou…
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH SWEET ANGELS! If we have said it once we have said it a gay-zillion times, we are here, queer, severe, and PROUD of it. So to kick off Pride Month, Jake and Jallen are dedicating this episode to PRIDE! Join the boys as they talk about the history of pride, what pride means to them, and like, why we even NEED gay pride in the first…
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It’s no secret that Jake and Jallen love them some boyz. BUT there is nothing quite like the admiration and respect they have for all of the bad ass females out there. When it comes to being a woman, the challenges they face are far more complex than either Jake or Jallen can possibly comprehend in their little baby brains. On top of that, being a …
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Man, I Feel Like a Woman w/ Jan Sport
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If you’re interested in a “masc only” situation, tbh listen no further. This week, the boys sit down with NYC drag queen Jan Sport and the dolls dish on all things fem. Join Jake, Jallen, and Jan as they share stories on being a feminine man, expressing their femininity, and try to figure out what even is fem?…
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Club Can't Handle Me w/ Ruby Roo
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New York City during the day is literally crazy enough on its own, but once the sun goes down, mama, it’s a whole other animal. We’re known as the city that never sleeps, so what do we do instead? This week, the boys sit down with NYC Drag Queen and award winning bartender Ruby Roo to talk about New York City nightlife and share some of their happy…
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Okay so bullying is NOT cute. But it IS something that we have all had experiences with at one time or another. Whether you’ve been the bully or bullied (or tbh both) we can all say that we’ve experienced a bit of shade thrown our way that may have just been a little too shady. This week, join the boys as they dissect the topic of bullying and get …
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Potential Breakup Song w/ Joshua Pauley
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Literally relationships are HARD WORK. But what seems to be even harder is when one comes to an end. Whether it’s ghosting, through a text, or just flat out being DUMPED, we can all agree that this shit ain’t easy. This week, the boys sit down with Josh and share their thoughts on relationships ending, spill tea on their own experiences, and break …
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Growing up as two little baby gay boys, Jake and Jallen have a lot in common when it comes to their childhoods. However, one aspect of their lives is vastly different from one another, in that Jallen actually grew up in the Mormon Church. This week, the boys sit down with NYC Drag Queen Jacklynn Hyde (who also grew up Mormon) to discuss what it was…
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Flying first class (tbh actually coach) up in the sky! Honestly, whether you are from a small town, a big city, or anywhere in between, traveling is literally VITAL for all of us to experience if we can. This week, Jake and Jallen put their tea in a to go mug because they are on the MOVE, honey. Take a little trip with them as they discuss just wha…
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This week, Jake and Jallen sit down with Justin Russo to discuss suicide; an important topic that effects millions of people across the world every day. While the topic of suicide may be difficult to grapple with, it is something Jake, Jallen, and Justin have all had personal experiences with and find important to process alongside of you, and the …
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Empire State of Mind w/ Brian Robotham
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Literally New York is coo coo bananas. There are people everywhere, there are sometimes rats bopping around, and like also things smell just genuinely icky sometimes. But if we’re being all the way honest NYC is also randomly the best city in the world. But like, why? And why did Jake and Jallen even end up here? This week Jake and Jallen sit down …
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So we’ve def already established that Jake and Jallen are Gay with a capital G, but now we need to dive into HOW they knew they were here, queer, and severe. This week, Jake, Jallen, and special guest Eddie are jumping into their bedazzled time machine and reflecting on the moments in their lives they KNEW they were gay. Listen to stories from thei…
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Blame It On the Alcohol w/ Abby Scofield
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Bottoms up! (and we’re not talking about Jake). This week, Jake, Jallen, and special guest Abby are putting a splash of vodka in their tea to discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly of their favorite type of juice: alcohol. Listen to Jake, Jallen, and Abby share embarrassing drunk stories, talk about their favorite drinks, and maybe even get a litt…
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If you know anything about Jake and Jallen at all, you know that they are OBSESSED with drag. But there is a lot about drag their little baby brains have yet to learn. Like how do you glue down a wig? What’s the hardest part about drag? And how bad DOES tucking actually hurt? More importantly though, what are all of the beautiful things drag does f…
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A lot of people have passions. Maybe it’s a sport. Maybe it’s a hobby. Maybe it’s like, performing brain surgery or something. For Jake and Jallen, one of their main passions in life is, and always has been, Reality TV (No like seriously, they love it). But how “real” IS “reality” TV? And what about it is SO addicting? This week, Jake and Jallen ta…
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Unlike Ariana, we actually DO have some tears left to cry. In life, we all get a little emo. And sometimes it’s okay to just let some tears fall. But like, why do we even? What do we get out of it? And also, where tf did the idea that “boy’s don’t cry” even COME from? This week, Jake and Jallen put the TEA in TEArs and discuss the concept of crying…
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Social Media has LITERALLY taken over. Whether you are an insta-addict or an off the grid queen, chances are, at some point, the various forms of social media have found a way to sneak their way into your life. This week, Jake and Jallen take you from Xanga to Instagram as they explore the world of social media and how it’s shaped our culture.…
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Boys. They are literally everywhere. Sometimes when we meet a nice one, our little hormones get the best of us and we end up DATING them. But why? And what does dating even look like in 2019? Jake and Jallen are on the case and ready to dish on the ins and outs of dating, boys, and maybe even spill some tea on their own love lives as well.…
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Come out, come out, wherever you are (only if you’re ready though). Hey, did you know that Jake and Jallen are gay? Well, for their premiere episode they are taking a deep dive OUT of their closets and dissecting like, what even IS coming out?Av Jallen Messersmith
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What are you even listening to? Find out via this little intro that’s not a full gulp of tea, but a cute sip. Get acquainted with Jake and Jallen as they introduce you to RealiTea and tell you what to expect from this cute a** podcast.Av Jallen Messersmith
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