EP163 Rosanne, How Long Do I Have To Keep This Mindset Sh*t Up?

Fearlessly Fertile Podcast with Rosanne Austin

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In a culture of fast food, quick grocery delivery, and a penchant for instant gratification, it seems like everyone is looking for rapid relief on this journey. Let’s rap a taste about mindset TRUTHS, what it really takes to succeed on this journey, and why making FEARLESS your new way of life will make all […]

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Transcript:
Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 163. Rosanne, how long do I have to keep this mindset shit up? Hey loves, oh man, it is so good to be here with you this week and I am super excited about the topic we’re going to be taking up today.

In a culture of fast food, quick, almost effortless grocery delivery, and a penchant for instant gratification, we can get super addicted to the notion of quick fixes and temporary tenacity. I’m going to be completely honest. Getting things quick, quick, quick has been one of the most toxic introductions to culture.

Yeah, it’s fun. It’s convenient. But I believe that convenience has given us a warped sense of reality. And it really shows up in the way that we see ourselves in the context of this journey. I think it’s made our lives on this journey fucking miserable. But before we get to the meat of our discussion, I’m going to ask you to do me and my team a solid.

You see, we get emails and DMs daily from women around the world telling us how much this podcast has changed their lives, how it was there for them in moments when they really need it, and how in fact there are days when it saves their ass on this journey. So here’s the deal. I’m asking you to pause this episode right now and slide your thumb over to the tap to on your app where you’re listening to this.

And give us a fucking five star review. I’m speaking especially to those of you lurking in the orbit of this podcast. There are hundreds of thousands of downloads of this podcast. You know you’re doing it. Lurking, okay? Listening to it and taking all this goodness in? Give us a five star review. All the inspiration, all the victories, all of the delicious hell yes and the very necessary ass kickings that I lovingly dole out that keep you focused out of victimhood and ending the lame excuses that are creating these insane blocks between you and your baby.

Do us a solid. Just put your thumb over five stars and press it. You don’t have to write anything. Just hit five stars. And look, this isn’t about my ego. This is about helping other women who are struggling right now. It’s about helping them find this work. It’s how the algorithm works. So do us a solid and do it.

And besides, you know what? There’s good karma waiting for you when you give and don’t just sit back and take. And once you’re done, come back and listen to the goodness. That I’m about to give you a double scoop of. Okay, so hit pause right now. Hit pause. And go give us a five star review now. Okay, let’s get into the meat.

I get a funny question a lot from women and it’s this, how long do I have to keep this shit up? This whole mindset shit. How long do I have to keep up this mindset shit? My answer to that question is simple. If you are serious, About being successful. Err damn day. Err damn day, mama. Every. Damn. I have a shit ton of compassion for this question because of the society.

That most of us are raised in. We’re conditioned to believe that life is a destination. That one day I will do XYZ and I’ll be happy forever. And never have a care in the world. Once I make a million dollars, I won’t ever worry about money again. Once I have this partner, all will be awesome. Once I retire, I will enjoy my life.

Once I have my baby, I will feel whole. Once I get the dream job, I will be set. Once my partner stops being an asshole and loads of other fairytale nonsense that’s typically peddled by people who stand to gain from you buying that load of crap, okay? Indeed, when we reach certain milestones in our lives and on this journey, There is certainly joy, but the reality is life is constantly evolving a strong mindset and learning how to think is what keeps you moving forward is what helps you navigate the storms, the critical decisions and the sometimes jarring circumstances.

We encounter along the way. I’m speaking in very broad terms here about life. But when we zero in on this journey, it only proves my point more precisely. We make thousands of decisions on this journey, some big, some small, some so minuscule we don’t even really see them as decisions. It’s the yeses and nos we say.

It’s the calls or texts we return or don’t. It’s whether we follow our heart or not. It’s the leaps we take. What and how you think habitually is literally making millimeter shifts in the direction you are headed on this journey and cumulatively. What started as a millimeter adjustment can land you miles off course if you’re not careful.

Or it will deliver your ass squarely into the glide slope that lands your butt in mama town. This is why being vigilant about your mindset, committing to it daily and consciously choosing how you will show up is often the difference between success. Err damn day, mama. Err damn day. Does this mean you can’t have a passing negative thought?

That you can’t have a day where you hate everyone and wallow in my life sucks? Of course not. If your saboteurs are suggesting that’s what I’m saying, I invite you to consider that that is exactly how they’re plotting to sabotage you. That lame part of us. Loves to show us extremes to make reasonable things seem inaccessible.

Sabotage! Just as a side note. Watch for that pattern in yourself. If you’re sitting here thinking, Oh, Roseanne’s telling me I can’t have a negative thought. Then you’re clearly in that pattern because You know, and this is how it works. Someone makes a suggestion or hands you a truth, and you, you, supported by your saboteur, take it to an extreme in order to justify rejecting it.

It’s a sneaky form of self sabotage that I love to call out. I love to call it out. And maybe you can name that saboteur if that came up for you while you’re listening to this, your inner dramatic girl. But I digress. Err damn day, mama. You have to keep this mindset shit up. When you’re committed to success, you keep the number of days you get sloppy with your thinking to an absolute minimum.

I’m not preaching perfection here. I am also not saying that you don’t have down days. Okay. From a practical standpoint, there truly are no days off when you’re serious because the minute you give self pity, victimhood, lack and scarcity, Anger, rage, blame, or excuses an inch, those motherfuckers are gonna take a mile.

Do you have to obsess about this? Do you have to take the joy out of your life? No! Do you have to live like a monk? No! You just have to be smart and fucking intentional, alright? When you’re recovering from a mindset that keeps you trapped in lack and scarcity and telling yourself that you receiving Or, being in your feminine, or getting the things that you want is somehow bad, you’re literally cre just creating a path out of, you know, in a lot of ways, habitual or addictive thinking.

Okay? It is Err Damn Day! I can hear the incredulous fatigue in women’s sighs when they hear me say that. So, I immediately follow that up with a question of my own, k? Somebody at this point has asked me, you know, how long do I have to keep this shit up? I give the answer of air down day. Uh, somebody sighs and, you know, acts like that’s a huge fucking burden.

And I respond with this, how bad do you want it? How bad do you want it? Because if you want something bad enough, you’re going to do whatever the shit it takes. Mind and body. What you think and believe is literally creating your experience. So be a smart cookie and decide to keep your mindset shit up.

And you know what? You may as well get used to it now. Particularly on this journey. Cause lean in real quick. Lean in real close so you can hear this. Because once you get that positive pregnancy test, you’ve never needed mindset more. Don’t fool yourself. When you have been on this journey long enough, or have suffered losses, or have been through crazy shit that you can’t even talk about with other people, that positive test may feel amazeballs for about 24 hours.

And then, you, supported by your saboteurs, will go into freakout over whether you will take this pregnancy to term. And so on, and so on. Then you will move the goalpost to your baby getting to 12 weeks, getting to the anatomical scan, getting to 24 weeks of viability, 32 weeks for lung formation, and so on, and so on.

Then you’ll just make yourself miserable after the baby’s born, freaking out over SIDS, life threatening falls, kidnappings, nuclear war, teenage car accidents, and the list goes on and on. Alien invasion, maybe? Err, damn day, mama. If you want to be the mom you say you want to be, you want to enjoy your pregnancy, you want to be a wonderful partner, you want to call in a wonderful partner, a mom does better than just worry her ass off at everything.

For the woman who can have it all, an amazing career, thriving family, and a loving partnership, The only answer to, Rosanne, how long do I have to keep this mindset shit up, is Err, damn day. Can’t say I didn’t warn you. So here’s an exercise, my loves, to take what I have shared here with you to the next level.

Practice err, damn day. Step one. Take note of how you are starting your day. Do you go immediately into I’ve gotta make some coffee mode? Or are you consciously choosing to be in charge of your thoughts for the day? Just notice and remember what I told you about how your saboteurs are just looking for and salivating over a way to get a hold of your ass.

Take note. Step two. Use this mantra for the next seven days. I choose to be fearless. Air damn day. Every damn day. You can say it like that if you want to. I’m just making myself laugh, but you do you. But try this mantra. I choose to be fearless every damn day. And just notice how this feels in your body and what it does for you over the course of the next week.

Can’t say mama doesn’t love you. And step three, just in case you need a reminder, text a link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot the episode, put it in your Facebook or Insta story, tag me, share the shit out of this. And don’t forget, give us a five star review.

It’s one of the best ways that you can say thank you for all of the hard work that my team puts into producing this every single week. If you are serious about success on this journey and you refuse to be a poser, this shit is er damn day. At the time of this recording, 27 women in the Fearlessly Fertile Method community have gotten pregnant in the past 96 days.

That level. And pace of success is a testament to the women that make my method their new way of life. They say hell yeses. They get out of their own way. They allow themselves to receive. They aren’t constantly exhausted. They make leaps. They live authentically. And they find a path to a level of success in this journey they did not always believe was possible.

They make every damn day full of richness, joy, and fearlessness. They’re not under the yoke of perfection anymore. If you want that goodness in your life too, join us. Because success like this tends to be, shall we say, the best kind of contagious. Success leaves clues, mama. And if your way isn’t working, you might want to try mine.

My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months, and say hell yes to covering their bases, mind, and body so you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret, thinking of all the things you coulda, woulda, shoulda done. I work with women who are committed to success.

To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodologies help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. 27 in the past 96 days. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you got a gaping hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up for success till next time. Change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you when it comes to your dreams.

Keep saying hell yes.