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S7 Ep 12: The Minwalla Model of Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment
Manage episode 451875763 series 2317068
Innhold levert av OurPath, Inc. and Kristin Kalbli. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av OurPath, Inc. and Kristin Kalbli eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.
Today's episode features a presentation of the Minwalla Model of Deceptive Sexuality and Complex Trauma Treatment. In 2006, Dr. Omar Minwalla began to study the signs of Complex Trauma related stress in people whose spouses had committed infidelity. Minwalla’s powerful educational metaphor, the “Secret Sexual Basement”, has made the personal, relational, and sociological abuses that comprise deceptive sexuality accessible to everyone.
By putting the spotlight on the harms of “deceptive sexuality,” Minwalla shows how clinically significant deficits in integrity enable infidelity and can rise to the level of an Integrity Abuse Disorder, which he categorizes as a form of intimate partner abuse.
From here we take Minwalla's model a step further and posit that closeted LGBT+ spouses in mixed orientation marriages have a Secret Sexual Basement of their own. This compartmentalized secret sexual reality not only contains secret sexual behaviors that may or may not be going on, but also contains their hidden or obscured sexual orientation or gender identity. It’s not just that deception is employed to cover infidelity, it’s that, intentional or not, deception may be deployed to cover sexuality itself.
In the case of marriage closets, as with infidelity, concealment behaviors, manipulation and deceptive management of straight spouses constitutes patterns of emotional, psychological and relational harm that may give rise to symptoms of complex trauma in straight spouses.
DR. OMAR MINWALLA WEBSITE: https://minwallamodel.com
DR. OMAR MINWALLA PODCAST INTERVIEWS
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 1
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000465644823
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 2
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000469245574
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 3
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000472914618
Real Talk About Cheating (Tell Me How You’re Mighty with Chump Lady Tracy Shorn)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-me-how-youre-mighty-real-talk-about-cheating/id1703987977
OURVOICES PODCAST EPISODES:
Michelle Mays
https://bit.ly/S6Ep13OPOV_YT
Debi Silber
https://bit.ly/S4Ep2OPOV_YT
Tracy Shorn
https://bit.ly/S6Ep1OPOV_YT
Ryan King
https://bit.ly/S4Ep3OPOV_YT
William Dameron
https://bit.ly/S2Ep15OPOV_YT
Helen Fitzgibbons
https://bit.ly/S2Ep11OPOV_YT
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Manage episode 451875763 series 2317068
Innhold levert av OurPath, Inc. and Kristin Kalbli. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av OurPath, Inc. and Kristin Kalbli eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.
Today's episode features a presentation of the Minwalla Model of Deceptive Sexuality and Complex Trauma Treatment. In 2006, Dr. Omar Minwalla began to study the signs of Complex Trauma related stress in people whose spouses had committed infidelity. Minwalla’s powerful educational metaphor, the “Secret Sexual Basement”, has made the personal, relational, and sociological abuses that comprise deceptive sexuality accessible to everyone.
By putting the spotlight on the harms of “deceptive sexuality,” Minwalla shows how clinically significant deficits in integrity enable infidelity and can rise to the level of an Integrity Abuse Disorder, which he categorizes as a form of intimate partner abuse.
From here we take Minwalla's model a step further and posit that closeted LGBT+ spouses in mixed orientation marriages have a Secret Sexual Basement of their own. This compartmentalized secret sexual reality not only contains secret sexual behaviors that may or may not be going on, but also contains their hidden or obscured sexual orientation or gender identity. It’s not just that deception is employed to cover infidelity, it’s that, intentional or not, deception may be deployed to cover sexuality itself.
In the case of marriage closets, as with infidelity, concealment behaviors, manipulation and deceptive management of straight spouses constitutes patterns of emotional, psychological and relational harm that may give rise to symptoms of complex trauma in straight spouses.
DR. OMAR MINWALLA WEBSITE: https://minwallamodel.com
DR. OMAR MINWALLA PODCAST INTERVIEWS
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 1
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000465644823
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 2
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000469245574
Understanding Betrayal with Dr. Omar Minwalla. Part 3
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-couples-heal-podcast/id1462962051?i=1000472914618
Real Talk About Cheating (Tell Me How You’re Mighty with Chump Lady Tracy Shorn)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-me-how-youre-mighty-real-talk-about-cheating/id1703987977
OURVOICES PODCAST EPISODES:
Michelle Mays
https://bit.ly/S6Ep13OPOV_YT
Debi Silber
https://bit.ly/S4Ep2OPOV_YT
Tracy Shorn
https://bit.ly/S6Ep1OPOV_YT
Ryan King
https://bit.ly/S4Ep3OPOV_YT
William Dameron
https://bit.ly/S2Ep15OPOV_YT
Helen Fitzgibbons
https://bit.ly/S2Ep11OPOV_YT
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I’ve spent over 20 years studying the emotions and experiences that bring meaning and purpose to our lives, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s this: we are hardwired for connection, and connecting requires courage, vulnerability, and conversation. I want this to be a podcast that’s real, unpolished, honest, and reflects both the magic and the messiness of what it means to be human. Episodes will include conversations with the people who are teaching me, challenging me, confusing me, ...
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As seen in the New York Times, on NPR, and the TODAY Show, Man of the Year is the #1 friendship podcast in the country! Comedians and friendship experts Matt Ritter and Aaron Karo will help you make new friends, reconnect with old ones, and build lifelong social fitness. Each November they award a gigantic Man of the Year trophy to one of their childhood friends – a tradition that has kept their crew going strong since the '80s. But the country is currently facing a friendship recession – 15 ...
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Since 2014 this longstanding podcast favourite has been creating hard-hitting cinematic stories about love, bodies and all of the things between humans that we don’t know how to name. Creator Kaitlin Prest works with her friends, idols and all kinds of loved ones to bring you into an expansive sonic universe that challenges what we think we know about relationships.
…
continue reading
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“LA Made” is a series exploring stories of bold Californian innovators and how they forever changed the lives of millions all over the world. Each season will unpack the untold and surprising stories behind some of the most exciting innovations that continue to influence our lives today. Season 2, “LA Made: The Barbie Tapes,” tells the backstory of the world’s most popular doll, Barbie. Barbie is a cultural icon but what do you really know about her? Hear Barbie's origin story from the peopl ...
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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
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Welcome to The Viall Files, your go-to podcast for all things dating, relationships, pop culture, and Reality Television! Join Nick Viall, Natalie Joy, and the Household as they dive into the intricacies of love and life, all while keeping you updated on the latest in reality TV and celebrity news. Tune in almost every day of the week with four exciting episodes! On Mondays, you’ll hear heartfelt advice as listeners call in to “Ask Nick” about everything from dating dilemmas to life challeng ...
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A hybrid of online radio, podcast and YouTube – live from 06h00 to 08h00 – Gareth and his team bring you ‘unradio’ – unscripted, uncensored, real conversations about everything that happens in our world, everything we all experience every day, what makes us think… makes us laugh… makes us cry… makes us angry… inspires us… and makes us human. It’s about the stuff that connects us on this journey called LIFE. Welcome to it!
…
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Shark Attacks in Paradise is part of The Binge - subscribe to listen to all episodes, all at once, ad-free right now. From serial killer nurses to psychic scammers – The Binge is your home for true crime stories that pull you in and never let go. Follow The Binge Crimes and The Binge Cases wherever you get your podcasts to get new stories on the first of the month, every month. Hit ‘Subscribe’ at the top of the Shark Attacks in Paradise show page on Apple Podcasts or visit GetTheBinge.com. T ...
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