Your source for all things Responsible & Ratchet! If you're not here for honest, candid conversations about sex, love, relationships, pop culture, feminism and a whole lot of other sh*t, then why are you here?! This is where we break. it. down. Join Boonie, with her friends and special guests, for real and off-the-cuff discussions on life's every day happenings. Listen, leave a comment, click a rating and write a review! Then tweet, snap, send a smoke signal or a carrier pigeon--but be sure ...
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255 - Elevating Intimacy with Nikk of Erotic Boudoir
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In the Season 13 finale, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with Nikk of Erotic Boudoir. Nikk delivers insights on maximizing pleasure through innovative use of sex toys, fostering open communication, and exploring new realms of sensuality. From the tantalizing potential of anal orgasms to the importance of consent and boundaries, Nikk shares a …
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254 - Exploring the Psychology of Kink with Goddess Rue
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In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Rue, a pro dominatrix. Delve deep into the psychological landscape of kink as Goddess Rue enlightens us on the intricate art of setting boundaries and honoring individual desires within the BDSM community. From the exhilarating highs to the nuanced challenges, she offers a candid portrayal of …
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253 - Empowering Reproductive Health: Navigating PCOS, Endometriosis, and Fertility with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack
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In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, a certified fertility awareness educator and holistic reproductive health practitioner. The discussion covers topics like PCOS, endometriosis, and the impact of diet on fertility, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's menstrual cycle for reproductive health advocacy.…
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252 - All the Men Ain't 6ft Sweetie
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In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We chatted about dating apps, and Boonie discussed the challenges and shared humorous anecdotes about men lying about their height. Boonie and Brian chat more about personal preferences in dating experiences. A transcript of the full episode is available here. Support for today’s…
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251 - Black Feminist Freak with Goddess Honey B
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In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Honey B, a proud Black feminist and dominant. We explore the world of Black feminism and kinks, including lactation and BDSM. Goddess Honey B shares her experiences as a sex worker and dominant, emphasizing the importance of communication and consent in knife play and all sexual activity. Addi…
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250 - Reject Your Pussy with Shika
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In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits differently, featuring the 2001 film "The Brothers." Is it overlooked in the conversation about black classic movies? We also touch on casual sex and the importance of trust and communication. Shika and Boonie chat further about how trust and communication emerge as…
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249 - Thriving After Beating Cancer's Ass with Erica Easter
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In this episode, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with breast cancer survivor Erica Easter. We chat about Erica maintaining sexual desires during treatment and the ways in which cancer has changed Erica's perspective on life. Erica discusses the importance of embracing desires, the pleasure of physical connections, and the need to prioritize o…
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248 - Sex Ed Refresher with Vanessa Geffrard
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In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Vanessa Geffrard of Vagesteem. The conversation starts with BV, also known as bacterial vaginosis, and stresses the importance of seeking medical treatment. We explore the morning-after pill for STIs and the need for comprehensive protection. The conversation then shifts to discussing the morning-afte…
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247 - Isn’t the Milk in a Container Already?
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It's the first solo episode of the season! I had to do a Boonie 5 Spot! We dive into the world of vision boards and offer an alternative approach. We discuss organizational content on social media and why Boonie hates it so much! Like, we are really watching people transfer groceries into multiple containers and wonder if there's a hidden meaning b…
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246 - Stop Leading People On with Brian
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In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We start the conversation by drawing comparisons between Baltimore and Houston and discussing how people in Houston have a better understanding of where to go for fun. We both believe Baltimore has the potential for a vibrant nightlife scene that black Baltimoreans deserve. Shift…
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In this episode, Boonie and guest KG discuss their favorite albums of 2023. This was a tough year for narrowing down favorite albums, especially in the hip-hop genre. We chat about our favorite songs from the year, including Tyrese's "Don't Think You Ever Loved Me," SZA's "Snooze," and Justin Bieber's "Moments." We also discuss Anais Cardot's "Colo…
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244 - Refining Your Personal Style with Sam Smith
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In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Sam Smith of New Vintage By Sam. We discuss various aspects of style, including personal style development and the significance of clothing as a form of self-expression. Sam explains the importance of staying true to one's style and not conforming to societal expectations. Sam even shares how to regul…
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243 - It's Sag Season Bitches with Mecca Woods
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In this episode, Boonie is joined by the podcast's favorite astrologer, Mecca Woods, who has been featured in Bustle, Essence, xoNecole, PopSugar, and Fusion. Happy birthday to all Sagittarius listeners! The conversation then moves into discussing Venus's movement through different signs and how it relates to romance and finances. Mecca advises lis…
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242 - Bellybuttons are Sexy Too! with Brian
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In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic fav Brian. We dive into an interesting listener letter about a rather unusual fetish for belly buttons. Moving on, we explore some misconceptions about sex that are prevalent in our society. We address the infamous topic of penis size and discuss the importance of open communication to ensure tha…
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241 - Black Women PrEP Too with Ashley Cobb
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On this episode, Boonie is joined by a special guest, Ashley Cobb. Ashley is an Atlanta-based sex educator, writer, and HIV activist. She's our favorite friend who loves talking about all things related to sex and is passionate about raising awareness about HIV. With World Aid Day approaching, we discuss important topics regarding black women, unpr…
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240 - My Body, My Choice, My Pleasure with Dr. Clarissa Francis
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In this episode, Boonie speaks with Dr. Clarissa Francis about the importance of unlearning shame, having open discussions about sexual health, pleasure, and consent, and taking responsibility for our actions. We also delve into the politics surrounding women's bodies and reproductive justice. Dr. Francis emphasizes the need for representation of s…
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239 - Love Jones, Nope! with Shika
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In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits different episode featuring the classic Love Jones. We express our disappointment with the movie, discussing how it lacks the drama we were hoping for. We even mention the poetry snap era and how we're glad we didn't experience it. Later in the discussion, we explai…
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238 - Whips, Tassels, and Paint! Oh My! with The Sweet Spot
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In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Ainsley Burrows and Laurielle Noel, the dynamic duo behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque. The conversation delves into the growth of the show, with Ainsley's booking skills and Laurielle's business acumen playing a key role. Sweet Spot Nation now has over 30 shows in different cities and a diverse audience mad…
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In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Jax, a pleasure facilitator. Jax is here to talk about exploring pleasure, connection, and consent. We explore the world of professional cuddling, an unconventional way to connect with others. Jax shares their experiences and the importance of creating a safe and trusting environment for these connections…
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236 - Creating Black Erotica with BlkTouch
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In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Brian Dwayne of BlkTouch. Brian discusses the creation of BlkTouch, explaining how it evolved from sensual photography to a separate space for explicit content that couldn't be posted on social media. The conversation touches on Brian's role in creating all the content and his efforts to be inclusive in t…
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235 - Hobbies & Heauxfax with Brian
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In this episode, Boonie is joined with our Problematic Fav Brian! We chat about Homecoming season, why its important to have a hobby when dating, and dating with kids. Check it out! The hashtag for the podcast #TheBoonieBreakdown. Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Join Boonie over on Patreon for exclusive content and events here: Patreon.…
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All new episodes start in just one week - Monday, October 16th. Get ready for season 13! The hashtag for the podcast #TheBoonieBreakdown. Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Join Boonie over on Patreon for exclusive content and events here: Patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown Have something to say? You can ask your questions, send comments via e…
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234 - Valentine's Day Protocol with Brian
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It's Valentine's Day! Boonie is joined by our problematic fav Brian! We answer your Valentine's Day questions and chat about flowers, how far is too far, and kinks. *NSFW* Grab your head phones immediately and listen now! Support for today’s episode comes from Dame Products - a brand is that its mission was to help close the pleasure gap for people…
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233 - Clean Ya F*cking House! with Brian
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In this episode, Boonie is joined with our Problematic Fav Brian. We chat about clean house ettiquette when it comes to smashing! Also, Brian and I answer a listener questions -- twitter, onlyfans, and boos, OH MY! Support for today’s episode comes from Goli ACV Gummies - a delicious and easy to discover health from within. Receive 10% off your pur…
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232 - Two Can Play That Game with Shika
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In this episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika. We do another round of Sh*t That Hits Different. We chat about how the Black film from the early 2000s - Two Can Play That Game. We also chat about twitter porn and finding pleasant surprises on OnlyFans. Support for today’s episode comes from Lorals - the world's first oral sex undies. Receive …
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