Language of Love is a weekly podcast where Dr. Berman shares her compassionate, humorous, and no-nonsense advice: answering listener questions and interviewing thought leaders and experts on relevant topics. Dr. Berman is ready to help you create the fulfilling and passionate love life you deserve, regardless of your relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Are you ready to get started?
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Welcome to Language of Love with Pastor Selasi, hosted by Pastor Selasi Agbobli. This podcast is dedicated to exploring the transformative power of God's love and how it can shape every aspect of your life. Join me as we delve into the Bible, share personal insights, and discuss practical ways to embrace and express the language of love in your daily walk with God. Each episode is crafted to inspire, uplift, and help you understand the depth of God’s love for you and how you can share it wit ...
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The Wisdom of Jacob’s Ladder with Jacob Cooper
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59:51What if our worst moments are actually an opportunity to shift into a deeper connection with ourselves and everyone and everything around us? In this episode of Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Jacob Cooper—author, therapist, and someone who’s experienced a life-changing near-death experience (NDE)—to explore how we can maintain this …
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Are you seeking to increase your spiritual fervor, obtain certain major breakthroughs and advancement? In this episode the key of fasting and prayer are expounded with scriptures as tools to experiencing your desires as God wills for you. Fasting and prayer are Christian disciplines and exercises every believer is expected to partake often. It’s a …
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Did you know that most arguments in relationships aren’t really about what they seem? That fight about the trash? The dishes? Being late? It’s rarely about the actual issue—it’s about something deeper. Feeling unheard. Feeling unappreciated. Feeling disconnected. In this Language of Love Session, we continue to follow Brian and Stacey as they navig…
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Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal? Here’s How to Make Sure It Does
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7:41The headlines are buzzing, and let’s face it, Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s story feels like a drama we didn’t ask for. Relationships in the spotlight are hard enough, but throw an affair into the mix, and it’s like watching a reality show unfold in real time. And then there’s Ethan’s wife—cue her powerful essay in The Cut, where, as a therapist…
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From Grief to Healing: Staying Connected with Those We’ve Lost with Meghan Riordan Jarvis
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1:02:48What if grief isn’t just about loss, but about staying connected to those who’ve passed on? Have you ever wondered if your loved ones are still with you after they’ve gone? What if there’s a way to feel their presence and find healing through that connection? Grief can be a painful, overwhelming journey, but it’s also one that can offer profound mo…
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Caught in the Act: What to Do When Your Kids Walk In on You
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15:03What do you do when your child accidentally walks in on you and your spouse during an intimate moment? It’s one of those unexpected situations that can leave you feeling flustered and unsure of how to respond. In this Language of Love session, a listener, Kim, reaches out to me after experiencing one of those “mortifying parenting moments” when her…
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How to Last Longer in Bed: The Guys Edition
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13:28Let’s be honest—everyone wants to last longer in bed, right? So, what’s the secret to going the distance and keeping your partner satisfied? Can you really improve your stamina, or is it all just wishful thinking? The truth is, there are some simple tips and tricks you can apply to not just last longer, but also make sure your partner is definitely…
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Seeing the Signs From Our Loved Ones with Elizabeth Boisson
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47:24Losing a child is an unimaginable pain—one that breaks you open in ways you never thought possible. When I lost my son Sammy, my world shifted in an instant. Sammy was my light, my joy, and his absence left a void that words can’t capture. Yet, in the depths of that sorrow, I began to uncover something profound: a path not just to survive the loss …
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Conscious Loving: How to Break the Cycle of Resentment and Build Connection
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40:45In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I continue to guide Bryan and Stacey through the ups and downs of their relationship, tackling key issues like communication, trust, and appreciation. If you haven’t tuned into their journey yet, be sure to catch up on our previous sessions—it’s a story you won’t want to miss. This week, things got a…
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The Kissing Game: How to Fine-Tune Your Techniques Together
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8:33When was the last time you had a kiss that truly took your breath away? Not just a peck on the cheek or a quick smooch in passing, but a kiss so meaningful it sparked something deep inside? If it’s been a while, you’re not alone. For many couples, kissing tends to fade into the background of a long-term relationship. But here’s the good news—it doe…
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In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Martha Beck—bestselling author, life coach, and one of the smartest women Oprah Winfrey knows (I agree!). Martha holds three Harvard degrees and her latest book, Beyond Anxiety: Curiosity, Creativity, and Finding Your Life’s Purpose, is a powerful guide to moving past anxiety. In…
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What’s the Secret to Overcoming Trauma in Love?
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1:00:37What do you do when your relationship feels stuck in a cycle of disconnection? Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you and your partner just can’t sync up? Perhaps past trauma is creating invisible walls, or the pressures of daily life are slowly pulling you apart. How can you break through and rebuild trust and intimacy when life kee…
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Why Every Couple Needs Sex Toys in Their Bedroom Arsenal
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10:10Did you know only 30% of women reach orgasm through intercourse alone? For women over 40, changes in nerve function, sensation and arousal sexual aids and devices are even more valuable for enhancing pleasure and connection. Have you ever felt unsure about how to introduce the idea of using a sex toy in your relationship? Or maybe you're curious ab…
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Are you giving up on God’s promise to you? Listen prayerfully to this message as it builds faith, patience and confidence in God and what He has promised you. Thank you for listening to Language of Love with Pastor Selasi. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review. Connect with us for more insights, and remember, together, we’re growing …
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A Course in Miracles: Staying Connected to Loved Ones After Loss with Pam Grout
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56:19In this powerful episode, I sit down with best-selling author, Pam Grout, to explore the profound journey of healing, love, and loss—and to discuss how, even in the darkest times, we can discover light and meaning. Pam and I share a bond beyond our love for quantum physics and a belief in manifestation. We've both faced unimaginable losses: We both…
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When a Narcissist Wants Back In: What to Consider
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11:17They swept you off your feet, showered you with affection, and made you feel like the center of their world—until they didn’t. Now, just when you thought you were done, they’re back, promising that they’ve changed and insisting that this time will be different. But can someone who left you feeling confused and used really transform that quickly? Th…
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Why, in a world full of endless choices, do so many of us search for that one person to share a life with? Is it loyalty, comfort, a desire for deep connection—or maybe the thrill of choosing one person out of billions, saying, “You’re my person,” and truly meaning it? But here’s the real question: can one person meet all your needs? Or maybe you'v…
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Before We Go: Redefining End-of-Life Connections with Dr. Shoshana Ungerleider
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48:50Talking about the end of life isn’t exactly everyone’s favorite topic, but it’s one of the most important conversations we can have. Not only does it give our loved ones clarity and peace, but it also creates a pathway to stay connected—even after they’ve crossed over. Caregivers know this better than anyone; they lean into these talks because they…
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You shall have whatever you confess according to Mark 11:23-24. This episode reveals the wonders of confession. Be blessed as you listen prayerfully. Thank you for listening to Language of Love with Pastor Selasi. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review. Connect with us for more insights, and remember, together, we’re growing in love a…
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Blessings are God’s reward system and currency. The believer does not walk in the blessing because they desire it but because of their obedience. In this episode we see what we must obey and the rewards we gain through obedience. Enjoy and be blessed. Thank you for listening to Language of Love with Pastor Selasi. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, …
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Are You and Your Partner Out of Sync in the Bedroom?
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49:21So, what do you do when your sexual energy levels just don’t match up? One partner might be feeling a bit neglected or even a little angry, which can create some serious tension in the relationship. In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I’m bringing you an intimate counseling session with a brave duo, Brian and Stacey. They’re tackling s…
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Why Sex is the Best Medicine for Body, Mind & Soul
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6:24Did you grow up feeling like sex was a taboo topic to discuss—something mysterious, maybe even a little forbidden? Most of us did, which can make it easy to see sex as a "guilty pleasure" rather than what it really can be—a natural, healthy and beautiful part of life. But here’s where things get interesting: turns out, a satisfying sex life does a …
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The Reinvention Formula with Craig Siegel
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57:43Is your inner critic throwing a party, and you’re not invited? We’ve all been there! It’s easy to get caught in a loop of limiting beliefs that keep you from living your best life. But what if I told you that the key to breaking free is simply a mindset shift away? In this Language of Love Conversation, I have an amazing conversation with Craig Sie…
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Do You Just Need to “Relax” or is Something Else Making Sex Hurt?
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11:41That’s one of the questions we explore in this Language of Love Session, as I dive into a letter from a listener, Veera, who’s grappling with some common and tricky troubles with intimacy, body image, and self-worth. Veera’s been feeling discomfort and even bleeding during sex with her new partner. She’s wondering, “Is this just because I’m getting…
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Long-term relationships can feel a bit routine at one point, and a craving for an extra spark often arises in most couples. In this episode of Language of Love Bite, I’m thrilled to take you on a journey into the captivating realm of tantric sex. This practice is all about harmonizing body, mind, and spirit to forge a sacred bond with your partner …
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The Awakened Way with Medium Suzanne Giesemann
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1:04:40Losing someone we love is a heartbreak like no other. When I lost my son Sammy, it felt like a piece of me went missing, but that wasn’t the end of our connection. In fact, since he crossed over, I’ve felt his presence in the most unexpected ways. Turns out, love has a way of sticking around—even when we are no longer here in physical form. In this…
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Even when we love our in laws, we all also love our space, right? But what do you do when your mother-in-law starts showing up unannounced like she’s got her own set of keys? In this Language of Love session, I dive into a challenge so many couples face: how to set healthy boundaries with in-laws. Shannon, one of my listeners, writes in to share he…
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Why Is Sex Painful? Let’s Talk About It
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15:23Have you ever wondered why something meant to be pleasurable can sometimes feel uncomfortable or even painful? In this Language of Love Bite, I tackle an important issue we don’t discuss nearly enough—pain during sex. This common experience affects up to 75% of women at some point in their lives, but the good news is that you don’t have to just liv…
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Creating and Cultivating True Soul Friendships with Sah D’Simone
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1:11:23Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them forever? Isn’t it amazing how some people seem to resonate with your very soul? That magical feeling isn’t just coincidence; it’s what we call a “soul friend,” and trust me, it’s more enchanting than you might think! In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation…
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Postpartum sexuality—how often do we actually talk about it? Probably not enough. You’re healing, emotions are high, and intimacy might feel like a distant thought. Meanwhile, your partner might be quietly wondering how to approach it too. So, how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without making it feel like walking on eggshells? And how do yo…
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We’ve all been there—life throws us a curveball, and we’re left dealing with trauma. And as much as we’d love just to hit the "ignore" button, trauma has this sneaky way of creeping into our relationships. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into the deep end of trauma. We're talking all kinds here—sexual, physical, emotional, rejection, humiliat…
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Confessions of a Midlife Muse with Dr. Amanda Hanson
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51:00A lot of people, especially women, still freak out about a few gray hairs or a new wrinkle. So, why not flip the script? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the "Midlife Muse," clinical psychologist, speaker, and author Dr. Amanda Hanson, to dive into the tricky subject of aging—especially for women. Society pushes…
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Confessions of the Heart: How to Share Your Past Without Fear
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12:16Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re unsure how to come clean with your partner about something from your past? It’s uncomfortable, right? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, one of my listeners, Sasha, finds herself in a tough spot—she’s not sure how to come clean to her partner after being less than honest about …
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What it Takes to Build and Maintain Trust in Relationships
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8:16Trust issues are the sneaky villains behind many relationship troubles. Those past betrayals and broken promises make it hard to open up again. But here’s the bright side: rebuilding trust isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about turning old wounds into a fresh start. In this Language of Love Bite, I give my advice on how to build trust in…
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Finding Meaning After Loss with David Kessler
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59:57Are you grappling with the profound weight of grief and wondering if you'll ever find your way through? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the idea that healing from loss should follow a straightforward path, only to be met with the unpredictable twists and turns of your emotions? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m chatting wi…
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How to Approach “The Talk” with Your Growing Kids
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17:34Many parents feel uneasy when it comes to talking to their kids about sex—it’s a tricky subject, and you’re not alone if it makes you uncomfortable. But the question is: when’s the right time to start? Should you bring it up before they hit adolescence or wait until they’re teenagers? In this Language of Love Session, I’m chatting with Linda, a lis…
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We’ve all heard debates about what really excites a woman intimately — whether it’s the clitoris, kisses, nipples, or other sensations. But what if I told you the real secret might surprise you? In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into how to excite the vagina and keep the passion alive in ways you might not expect. I explore some of the best exe…
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Briefly Perfectly Human with Alua Arthur
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1:01:56One of the few absolute truths for every one of us is that death is inevitable, yet it’s a taboo topic that many of us avoid discussing. But can planning for your own death actually bring peace of mind and even make you live a more fulfilling life? In this eye-opening episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Alua Arthur—a New Y…
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Unpacking the Love Map: How Childhood Experiences Influence Adult Desires
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20:34Ever felt like your past is casting a shadow over your love life? Childhood experiences, including trauma, are intricately woven into the nature and the challenges we face in relationships. In this Language of Love Session, I delve into a heartfelt email from Muhammad, a courageous 21-year-old man from Iran. He’s grappling with his sexual orientati…
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The Surprising Benefits of Scheduling Sex
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13:11What if we’ve got it all wrong that the best sex is spontaneous? Could planning for intimacy actually light up a new spark in your relationship? With work stress, bills, and endless errands already filling our calendars, isn’t it worth a shot to see if scheduling sex might just be the secret to keeping the flame burning bright? In this Language of …
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Living a More Connected Life with Radha Agrawal
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1:04:25I think we can all agree we are in an epidemic of loneliness. Most of us are craving deeper relationships, a genuine sense of belonging, and a community that feels like home. In this episode of "The Language of Love Conversation," I sit down with Radha Agrawal, a nine-figure entrepreneur and community-building expert. Together, we delve into the ar…
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In this Language of Love Session, I’m excited to catch up with Marla and Ken, a couple who turned their love story around and are now absolutely glowing. Having embraced Quantum Love, they’re reaching new heights in intimacy. They both share how the guidance and homework I gave them helped create a nurturing, affectionate space between them, and de…
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The Most Powerful Skill You Can Learn For Your Relationship
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7:20There’s an art to listening to your partner in a way that will change everything in the energy between you. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into why listening matters so much in relationships. Truly listening—without interrupting or planning your next witty comeback— can work wonders for intimacy and trust. In addition to advice and guidance …
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Shadow Work: How Facing Your Inner Demons Can Set You Free with Kristan Sargeant
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1:12:59Have you ever felt shocked at how strongly you react to something? Feeling stuck in the same patterns you know don’t serve you? Well it may be your Shadow at work. And understanding your shadows leads to transformation and sets you free. The path to that freedom lies in the parts of yourself you've been ignoring. Joining me in this Language of Love…
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Unmasking Your Inner Child: The Key to Authentic Living
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39:16They say the secret to deeper, more authentic relationships might be hidden in your childhood. What if the love languages you speak today are echoes from a younger version of yourself? In this Language of Love session, I’m reconnecting with Carmen, a caller I advised on the show nearly two years! Time really does fly, doesn’t it? Carmen has been on…
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Let's be real—every couple has their moments. Fights are just part of the deal in relationships. Having healthy disagreements and working through them in a respectful way can actually make your bond stronger. In this Language of Love Bite, I bust the myth that happy couples never fight. I'm all about how fighting can be good—if you do it right. I s…
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The New Rules of Attachment with Dr. Judy Ho
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49:13Did you know that your self-talk could be the sneaky culprit affecting your relationships more than you think? Maybe you've found yourself stuck in a relationship rut, scratching your head, wondering why things just aren't clicking with your partner. What if the secret to unlocking those mysteries might just lie within you and your partner's attach…
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Is Stress Taking a Toll on Your Relationship?
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51:47Ever felt like stress could be the invisible third wheel in your relationship? It's not just you. Stress has this uncanny ability to seep into our lives like an uninvited guest at a party—especially when it comes to relationships. In this Language of Love Session, we catch up with Marla and Ken. Since our last chat they have been on quite a journey…
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Why does it seem like the nice guys finish last? Women say they want one, but they always seem to go for the bad boy in the end. In this Language of Love Bite, I uncover the truth about why women often find themselves captivated by the so-called "jerks," leaving nice guys in the dust and overlooked in favor of these "bad boys." It's not about advoc…
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Parenting a Struggling Child with Kristina Kuzmic
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43:49The saying goes, “A parent is only as happy as their least happy child.” While this may be a bit of a codependent edict, it’s true that when your child is struggling with anxiety, depression or in any other way it takes a deep toll on the family system. And as parents we try everything we can think of to help, but often those efforts don’t create a…
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