Join spiritual teacher and author Scott Kiloby as he offers unique insights on a variety of topics (consciousness, inquiry, trauma, emotional repression, ending suffering, extra-terrestrial/dimensional phenomena, culture, politics, and LGBTQIA issues). This podcast will bust myths, shatter illusions, and welcome a greater depth of understanding and heart-centered wisdom around consciousness and this absolutely crazy, profoundly beautiful unfolding we call life! Take this free repression test ...
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Selling out on the spiritual path is like selling out as an artist, but the stakes are so much higher. Scott explains. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.
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Scott shares intimately about intimacy. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott
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You’ll Discover Real Authenticity and Vulnerability in KI
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In this episode, Scott explores the impact of repressing emotions, questioning whether those who suppress their feelings turn into rage-filled individuals or become engulfed in sadness and grief. He emphasizes that true self-discovery comes from addressing the root causes of our suffering. By examining how repressed anger, along with buried feeling…
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FROZEN PRESENCE - When You Can’t Feel What You Are
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Scott gets down to the secret sauce of KI - the direct discovery of the core frozen fears hidden in the body that create suffering and separation. To work directly with Scott, visit. https://kiloby.com/scott.
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The Narcissism of Emotional Repression
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In the podcast, Scott responds to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasizes that selfishness or narcissism stems from holding back emotions, which leads to the creation of false identities and strategies for…
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In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create suffering in our relationships. Many people tend to seek external solutions—like practices or other individu…
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The Needs You Ignore Become the Suffering You Abhor
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In this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing disconnection and prompting us to seek relief through various practices. However, because of buried e…
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In this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to recover or help others recover are coming from buried rage. Scott shares his personal experience o…
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In this episode of Scott's podcast, he delves into the nuances of emotional release on the spiritual healing journey. Scott discusses how, in our quest for spiritual experiences, we may inadvertently focus on releasing emotions that feel safer, rather than addressing the deeper, buried emotions that truly drive our suffering. This emotional repress…
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Authentic Listening and the Feeling of Not Being Heard
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In this podcast, Scott explores authentic listening and its connection to emotional repression - especially buried anger. He explains that when emotions are buried, it's challenging to listen authentically, as people often freeze, shut down, or flee during difficult conversations. Scott reveals that the common feeling of not being heard actually st…
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A Death Sentence of “Acceptance” [Trigger Warning]
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In this episode, Scott shares his journey as a non-dual teacher who bypassed buried anger, leading to chronic nerve pain that almost became a "death sentence." He and other teachers have inadvertently encouraged this bypass in millions of people. Scott reveals how he dissolved the pain by making unconscious anger conscious. He explains why simply r…
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In this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and then teaches others to maintain repression by labeling less empathetic people as narcissists, rein…
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We Need Addiction (Until We Don’t Anymore)
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In this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these suppressed emotions. Traditional recovery programs and Eastern practices often fail to address thi…
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How to Tell Someone to F*ck Off (Gracefully)
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Scott is in rare form, clarifying the difference between before and after emotional repression with regard to the timeless human experience of telling others to fu*k off. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott
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Angry Monks and Vulnerable Dictators - Where Are They?
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Scott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic mirrors. Listen to this light-hearted, impactful talk on true freedom. If you are interested in working wi…
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Our main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and others don’t. The answer lies below the surface. To speak to Scott about the 90-day program he ment…
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Want to manifest success, love, good health, or freedom? The unconscious seeks only safety and love thereby thwarting our efforts. Your unrealized potential is waiting for you in the one place you l’re afraid to look. Scott shares the solution. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.…
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Scott points to how both our suffering and our efforts to alleviate it often come from the same hidden source. Discover his solution to this seemingly insurmountable doublebind! To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/Scott.
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Scott discusses how the fundamental need to know ourselves as awareness and to allow it all doesn’t get met and we don’t want it to be met because we’re driven by an unconscious need to stay safe and get love. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott
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Something IS Missing on the Avoidant Spiritual Path
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Find the missing key to freedom but also why sabotage is just safer, frankly. Work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott
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[Revised] The Future of K.I. - Unmet Needs
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Scott shares the future of K.I. and how unmet needs become unconscious demands. We create our own suffering. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott
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Scott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of us have to hide it. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course whi…
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Covert Agendas in Spirituality - 30 min podcast episode
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Scott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing any unconsciousness that drives us. If we fail to do that, we enable the continuation of the very s…
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Scott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/men…
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Somatic Testing - The Simplest Way to Spot Emotional Repression In Your Body.
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Scott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's ourseven day Mentorship Discove…
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SICK GOOD BOY - How Being Good Was Bad For My Physical, Mental, & Emotional Health
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Scott shares about Goodism and tells his own story of being a good boy and holding anger back which led to a lifetime of falseness and suffering. All the bad parts come out in this episode where Scott pulls no punches to help those who can’t yet see that the social and relational rewards of being good, peaceful, nice, or perfect carry a massive dar…
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Troy Didn’t Trust Himself - A Story of Avoidance and Betrayal
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Scott tells the short story of Troy and Sarah who both cheated on each other for the same reason but neither one could see the real reason. This special episode brings to light the issues discussed in Scott’s recent episode “The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality.” To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course…
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The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality
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Scott takes you first through a somatic test to reveal the avoidant programming in your body. He then shows how avoidance, avoidant attachment style, and avoidant personality disorder point to these core programs in the body for purposes of a practice. Scott then explains his guide to authenticity by inviting listeners to journal each day what is a…
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Scott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/. The characters in this podcast epis…
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Dom & Sub - A Story of Love & Unconscious Power Dynamics
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You’ve never heard a love story like this before. Listen to this hour and a half unique episode where Scott explains very common unconscious emotional power dynamics through a simple story of two people who love each other as best as they can from the trauma that drives them. In this story, Scott takes us through a fictitious story about transforma…
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Did you know that there’s a secret behind the secret? When it comes to manifesting what you want or living in flow or abundance, we absolutely block ourselves from the level of emotional repression. Because repression is buried, we have no idea that that’s where our blocks are coming from. Listen as Scott illuminates the secret behind the secret, w…
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Emotional Repression - We Buried the Real Story of Our Lives (Special Episode)
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Listen to an intimate and human account of how emotional repression runs our lives. Scott Kiloby is teaching in a new way, telling the hidden narrative of our lives from the unconscious level. Jack and Jill didn’t run up the hill. Jack went to rehab while Jill bamboozled herself by never getting to the root of her suffering. Listen for the first ti…
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The Origin of Control - You Can’t Squeeze Blood from a Turnip
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Welcome to season two of Scott Kiloby’s podcast. A lot of unique and controversial topics are coming. In this episode, Scott takes us on a wild ride through all the intricacies of control and where it comes from in relationship. Weaving in stories of how he groomed people as a non-dual teacher, Scott gets really personal on the topic of how do peop…
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Free Nonduality - #9 - Treasures and Traps of Spiritual Practice
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In this special bonus episode, Scott bridges his teaching here on podcast with his recent free non-duality teaching on YouTube. Scott goes into great detail on how and why people pick up practices that give them benefit while also solidifying a deeply unconscious fear-based habit of avoidance. Proposing a practice that doesn’t send us on a bypass, …
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I’m Teaching Nonduality for Free on YouTube Now (Special Podcast Episode)
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While Scott is on hiatus from podcasting, he wanted to do this special bonus season-end episode to announce his return to teaching on YouTube (Sundays at 5pm pacific - sometimes live)). In this episode, Scott shares intimately about his own personal process with KI 3-D repression inquiry, which led to his return recently on Youtube to being a non-d…
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Scott sums it all up in this episode. Listen to his final rant of the season. This podcast will resume in the summer of 2024 after a special season bonus coming soon. To get started on the path that Scott discusses on podcast (KI 3D repression inquiry), take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.…
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Healing Doesn’t Happen In a Straight Line
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Scott shares personal details mixed with the reality of the process of healing trauma. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.
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Scott explains why he sees himself more as a mentor than a teacher now. He’s interested in empowering people to take responsibility for their own suffering so that they can end it. In the days when he was a teacher, and it was about pointing to presence, the focus was not on the root of suffering. People could not end their suffering and neither co…
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Dissolving the Sense of Disconnection in Relationship, Spirituality & Life
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Scott shares how disconnection was a way of life for him for many years and even how he used spirituality and the talk of separation to hide the actual programming of trauma and repression in his body producing the disconnection. In the last segment, Scott shares a solution for any and all experiencing disconnection. To get started on this path, ta…
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Scott points to how Being and processing the main driver of suffering - emotional repression - come together to reveal our authentic self. This episode also illuminates how we easily get sucked into a vortex of bypassing where we believe falsely that we can just be with what is and truly embody freedom without discovering that we’ve been creating o…
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My Vulnerability - Settling for Safety and Superficiality
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Scott shares intimate details of his life to answer the question, what is real vulnerability? This is a depthful conversation that doesn't settle for superficial. Here, Scott gets to the root of why vulnerability was a trauma response for him in many ways until we cleared the anger repression. To get started on this path, take our free repression t…
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All Your Suffering Is Connected to One Thing
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Scott breaks realization down very simply to the network of programs that creates the suffering according to science. This is perhaps Scott’s most direct and simplest explanation of how repression drives suffering and how we get free using these tools. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first …
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Scott is releasing this special episode as a precursor to the episode “All Your Suffering is Connected to One Thing” coming out Monday, April 1st. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: https://nrfs.co/49f5.
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Creativity Repression and the Plight of the Suffering Artist
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Scott shares how the creative impulse in humans is tied to the wiring of emotional repression and how our unrealized potential awaits us, while we toil and spin in stories of being artists who must suffer in order to create. To get started on this path take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj. Join our first online retreat in May 2024: h…
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Approval Seeking - Recovering from the Ultimate Human Addiction
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Scott explores approval seeking in all its forms, including how it has infused his life from addiction to recovery to teaching. The very act of holding back, or repressing, emotion is synonymous with the seeking of something outside ourselves, often approval. These two things cannot be separated because they are the same mechanism. Scott makes the …
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How Do You Know If You’re Really Free?
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Listen if you are serious about ending suffering. A new path has been created. This may be Scott’s most direct message yet about this new work - Natural Recovery from Suffering. Learn about our first online retreat here: https://nrfs.co/fc2g. Take our free repression test here: https://nrfs.co/znnj
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A Trillion Distractions from the SOURCE
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With references to Led Zeppelin, the Absolute, and the true source of suffering, Scott returns to pointing to awareness and to how the trillion distractions aren’t just coming and going to awareness. We are unconsciously creating it all. To allow what we create as it comes into awareness keeps us stuck unless we get to the source of the suffering. …
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Despite the title, this episode isn’t just Scott promoting “all the rage” around the work. In this episode, Scott transparently discusses all the rage that was within him and that is unknowingly driving the suffering of many people. Scott explains how his buried anger - before this work - came out in the strangest of ways to blind him into continue…
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Making Self-Realization Authentic - A New Nondual Path
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Using a simple and practical context, Scott Kiloby explains Natural Recovery from Suffering and how the work can lead to self-realization. Although that may sound lofty, the realization - when embodied - ends up being simply an authentic human who no longer suffers. Take this free repression test to get started on this path: https://nrfs.co/znnj…
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Love Repression - you can’t be what you’ve buried
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Who wants to talk about hurt or anger if it’s buried and we are scared of it? However, in this work, it’s seen that fear is running it all and that includes fear of emotions. We hold ourselves back in relationship in all sorts of ways that have more to do with safety than love. The answer is not to try and be loving but rather to process the fear h…
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