Ask a Sex Therapist is for you if you are ready to spice up your sex life. You are ready to learn all the things you were never taught about sex, intimacy and great communication in the bedroom. You are excited to explore your own body and feel more connected to your partner. You want to feel body confident, allow yourself to experience greater sexual pleasure and feel accepted for your fantasies and desires. If you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, get rid of the shame ...
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The University of Pleasure presents: ”Sex Therapists Shoot the Sh*t”. Dr. Tera Jansen, co-host of the University of Pleasure Podcast, is joined by fellow sex therapist and marriage and family therapist, Laura Rademacher to shoot the sh*t on topics related to sex, sexuality, relationships, and the general absurdities of life. This monthly podcast features a rotation of guest sex therapists and other sexual health professionals joining in to shoot the sh*t.
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Don’t forget to “Follow” the show 👉https://podfollow.com/askasextherapist. We have awesome episodes coming up on sexual fantasies, surrogate partner therapy and what it’s like being a porn star and you won’t want to miss them! In this week's solo episode, Heather breaks down the top 5 reasons your sex life might be feeling stagnant. Once you know w…
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Ep. 70 Debunking Dating Myths and Rewriting Relationship Rules with Damona Hoffman
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Have feedback on the show or want to ask a sex question for our next listener Q & A? Email Heather at AskASexTherapistPodcast@gmail.com. ⚡️ Sparks flying and magic in the air? Or just the sound of yet another dating myth fizzling out? 🐸💔 Join Heather and this week's guest expert, Damona Hoffman, as they smash the old fairy tale narratives and help …
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EP. 69: How To Seduce Your Partner—Initiating Sex Like A Pro
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Don’t forget to follow the show. We have some amazing guests you won’t want to miss including Damona Hoffman from The Drew Barrymore show, Kelly Casperson from the You Are Not Broken podcast and surrogate partner Katherine Yeagel. Reminder to you that the show notes are choc-ful of helpful links. You can submit your anonymous sex questions via our …
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068: Getting WILD with Sex Writer and Sex Worker GG Sauvage
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Submit your anonymous sex questions here! For our next Listener Q & A episode → https://heathershannon.co/ask-a-sex-question/ 🚀 Ready to liberate your inner WILD and explore the transformative power of sexuality? This episode of 'Ask A Sex Therapist' features the fierce and fabulous GG Sauvage, who shares her journey from trauma to triumph and how …
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🎙️ Get ready to embrace your vulnerability and emotional bravery in this week's episode of Ask A Sex Therapist! In this candid discussion, we explore the importance of being emotionally brave for intimacy, whether it's emotional closeness, authenticity, or passionate, connected sex. Host Heather encourages listeners to break free from self-censorsh…
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066: Living That “Cougar” Life with Rachel Burch
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Ever wondered how self-judgment and outdated stereotypes can throw a wrench in our love lives? Tune in to this fascinating episode with Rachel Burch, one of Heather’s besties, as we get real about cougaring, age differences, and what it takes to forge genuine connections at any stage of life. No “age is just a number” cliches—we promise—just raw, h…
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065: Listener Q & A: Kick Start Your Sex Life, Not Taking Erectile Dysfunction Personally & Dealing With Vanilla Partners When You're Kinky
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In this episode, our host–Certified Sex Therapist Heather Shannon–tackles listener responses to the question “What Do You Wish Was Better About Your Sex Life?” We had both a college student and a 70-something say their sex-life was non-existent. See what Heather has to say could be going on in that case. Then we have a partner who is having a hard …
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064: The Kinky, Shame-Free, Neurodivergent Episode with Alice Lovegood
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Join us for a fearless convo with kink-positive and shame-free content creator Alice Lovegood! She’s here to chat about the saucy side of cartoons (i.e. Princess Jasmine from Aladdin!), spill the tea on being neurodiverse and navigating love, and why those “oops!” moments in the sheets can actually be kinda hot. 💅🛌 Slide into a judgment free zone w…
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063: How to Communicate About Sex Openly and with Sensitivity
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*Don’t forget to hit “Follow” if you love the show! That helps us get seen by more people and appeal to amazing guests! Have you ever felt STUCK when it came to talking to your partner about sex? 🤔 Well, you’re not alone–Heather’s felt that way too! In this episode, she shares her own mishaps with sexual communication and how to make sure you look …
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062: Wild Nights with Dustin Rybka from Sex Party
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Get ready to unwrap the forbidden in this episode of 'Ask A Sex Therapist'! 🎁🚫 Join host Heather and the unapologetically candid guest Dustin Rybka as they tackle the titillating topic of censorship and its bedfellows: sex negativity and social media blocking. From algorithms policing pleasure to the clubbing stories, Dustin spills the tea (and may…
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061: Keeping It Spicy with Sexting Skills
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Tune in to the latest episode of "Ask a Sex Therapist Podcast" where we're getting down and dirty with a fun and spicy topic—sexting! Host Heather brings the raw truth and tackles the underrated world of sexting, exploring its potential to spice up long-distance relationships, try out new fantasies, and even dip your toes into non-monogamous experi…
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060: Navigating Sexual Relationships Post-Trauma with Jackie Tempera
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🌟 Are the stars aligning in your bedroom? Get ready for an illuminating journey through astrology and healing on this episode of Ask A Sex Therapist. Join us as we sit down with Jackie Tempera, the wordsmith renowned for her celestial insights on sexual health and more, and uncover the cosmic connections to intimacy. But there's more beneath the co…
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059: Listener Q & A: Navigating Consent, Boundaries, and Intrusive Sexual Thoughts
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Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. - 🎙️ Ready to find out how to spice things up in your love life? In this listener Q and A e…
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058: Tantra and Exploring Masculine Feminine Polarities with Magda Kay
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Ready to light the spark in your intimate life? Listen to our special guest Magda Kay as she uncovers the mysteries of Tantra and tackles the hot topic of mismatched libidos in relationships. Feeling like your bedroom dynamics could use a tune-up? Whether you're solo or partnered up, this episode has a lot of insights on sexual energy flow and prac…
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🔥 Ready to unlock the hidden chambers of intimacy with your partner? Episode 057 of Ask A Sex Therapist turns up the heat as Heather spills the sultry secrets of dom/sub dynamics and how they can electrify your connection. Forget the taboo; it's time to talk about the tantalizing world of kink with clarity and confidence. Whether you're curious abo…
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056: Female Arousal with Susan Bratton
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🔥 Get ready to turn up the heat with an exclusive chat with intimacy expert, Susan Bratton! Susan spills the beans, sharing everything from her personal pleasure routines to the revolutionary techniques that could shift the landscape of your love life. 🌶️ Tune in to discover how to take your pleasure potential to infinity and beyond. What you'll le…
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055: Dealing With Rejection, Disappointment and Receiving a No
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Ready to handle rejection, disappointment, and "no"s like a pro? In this week's episode, join Heather as she shares her personal experience with rejection and how she's using it to empower herself and others. From navigating romantic encounters to dealing with boundaries, she reveals practical tips to transform emotional setbacks into opportunities…
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054: Curious Girl Diaries with Layla London
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Ever wondered what it's like to flip the switch and explore your deepest desires? 💋 In Episode of "Ask A Sex Therapist", we get up close and personal with Layla London, the woman behind the curiousgirldiaries.com. After years of putting her sexuality on the backburner to focus on other areas of life, Layla decided to fan the flames of her sexual sp…
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053: Listener Q & A: Sensuality, Husband's Fantasies, and Foot Fetishes
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Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. - In this episode, Heather Shannon tackles a variety of questions submitted by listeners. F…
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Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. - Ever wondered how setting up boundaries can enrich your relationships and add an extra la…
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051: Choose Your Own Adventure with Amy and April from Shameless Sex
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Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. - Ready to spice up your sex life? In this episode, we've got the secrets to seriously expa…
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🔥 Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. ~~~ On this episode of Ask a Sex Therapist, we dive into the topic of orgasms. Join us as…
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049: From Porn Addiction to Personal Empowerment
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🔥 Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. ~~~ Coming up on this episode, we dive into the complex world of addiction and compulsive…
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048: The Magic of Masturbation: More Presence, More Pleasure
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🔥 Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. ~~~ Today we're diving into a topic that may have some blushing, but is oh-so-important t…
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047: Bottom Shame & Being A “Side” With Dr Joe Kort
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🔥 Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You’ll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected. ~~~ In this episode of "Ask A Sex Therapist," our guest, Dr. Joe Kort, shares his experti…
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046: Body Count, Slut-Shaming & Good Girl Syndrome
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Apply for a no-pressure "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough call with Heather to get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life - https://heathershannon.co/video-page/ You'll also learn about her "Intimacy Infusion" transformational coaching program. ~ In this episode of Ask A Sex Therapist, host Heather Shannon explores the topics of body …
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045: Adventures In Sex with Dr. Heidi Sauder
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Apply for a no-pressure "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough call with Heather to get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life - https://heathershannon.co/video-page/ You'll also learn about her "Intimacy Infusion" transformational coaching program. ~ In this episode, join Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist, Dr. Heidi …
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Welcome to the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, where we delve into the raw truth about pleasure, intimacy, and relationships, helping you change the way you look at sex. In this episode, titled "Healing Sexual Trauma Together," we address a tough topic: sexual trauma. Our host discusses the spectrum of sexual trauma, from assault to more extreme cases…
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043 Exploring Findom Kinks with Dr Kate Balestrieri
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Welcome back to another episode of "Ask A Sex Therapist"! In today's episode, we have the incredible Dr. Kate joining us as our expert guest. Get ready to dive into the fascinating world of kink, gender exploration, and financial domination. Dr. Kate delves into the importance of challenging traditional gender roles and scripts, celebrating those w…
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Welcome back to the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, where we dive into the taboo topics and provide you with the raw truth about pleasure and intimacy. I'm your host, Heather Shannon, and today we have a captivating and enlightening episode lined up for you. Get ready, because today we're talking about anal sex. In this episode, we'll address common m…
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041 Futurist Joel Comm on AI, Metaverse, and the Future of Sex Tech
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APPLY FOR A FREE 45-minute Intimacy Insight Session with Heather to learn the top 3 things you need to work on to get the sex life you want → https://calendly.com/hshann1/insight IN THIS EPISODE OF ASK A SEX THERAPIST . . . We dive into the fascinating intersection of AI, the metaverse, and the future of sex tech. Heather shares her intrigue with a…
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040 Listener Q & A: Panty Fetish, Spicing it Up, Bi Or Gay & Penis Size
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Welcome to another exciting episode of Ask a Sex Therapist, the podcast that's here to change the way you look at sex. I'm your host, Heather Shannon, and I am thrilled to dive into another Q&A session with all of you amazing listeners. Today, we have some intriguing questions to explore, covering topics like fetishes, self-discovery, and embracing…
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039 Male Bisexuality and Being a Boyslut with Zachary Zane
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💥Are you ready for an eye-opening conversation about male bisexuality and owning your relationship with sex? Join us on this episode where our host Heather and special guest Zachary Zane dive deep into the world of male bisexuality, exploring topics such as emotional intimacy, sexual exploration, and finding community. Get ready to challenge stereo…
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038 Authenticity, People Pleasing & True Intimacy!
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We all want connection, but sometimes our defense mechanisms—or “parts”—get in the way. Some of the most common culprits are the People Pleaser Part and the Obligated Part. We may think there’s no other way than to do things we don’t actually want to do and to put others’ needs first at our own expense, but there absolutely is. In fact, tamping dow…
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037 Modern Gender Roles with Dating Coach & "Love U" Host Evan Marc Katz
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BEDUCATED: Free 24-Hour Trial & 40% Off Annual Subscription - https://beducate.me/pd2331-ask Evan Marc Katz became the world’s first dating coach in 2003, specializing in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has over 2 million downloads and he has been featured in hundreds of media …
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036 Sexually Awakened: Self Energy & Becoming More Conscious - Part 2
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BEDUCATED: Free 24-Hour Trial & 40% Off Annual Subscription - https://beducate.me/pd2330-ask In these episodes (part 1 & part 2), Heather explores consciousness through the lens of the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness by David Hawkins as well as through the Internal Family Systems (IFS) concept of Self Energy. Find out what the scale of consciousness…
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035 Sexually Awakened: Self Energy & Becoming More Conscious - Part 1
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BEDUCATED: Free 24-Hour Trial & 40% Off Annual Subscription - https://beducate.me/pd2330-ask In these episodes (part 1 & part 2), Heather explores consciousness through the lens of the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness by David Hawkins as well as through the Internal Family Systems (IFS) concept of Self Energy. Find out what the scale of consciousness…
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034 Getting “Beducated” with Mariah Freya: Naked Models, Orgasm Class & Sex-Positive Parenting
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Mariah Freya is the co-founder of Beducated, an online platform for sex education, where she offers a vast library of resources for inclusive, comprehensive, medically accurate and pleasure-based sex education for adults. This episode explores the importance of sex education and creating a low-stakes environment for exploring and experimenting with…
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033 Listener Sex Questions: Unwanted Sexual Attention, Mid-Life Virginity and Sexual Avoidance
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Heather answers questions from both listeners and colleagues on how to handle sexual situations. She also comments on the recent debacle with Keke Palmer and her boyfriend: Keke’s outfit at the Usher conference, her boyfriend’s comments and why they were out of line. The situation depicts not only patriarchal overtones, but also the madonna whore c…
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032 Nice Guys Don't Finish Last with Matt Artisan
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After hearing from a few men “Nice guys finish last–maybe I should start being a dick and women will like me!” Heather decided it was time to set the record straight. Join Heather and her guest Matt Artisan for this discussion on reframing the way we think about approaching other people, flirting and being confident. Matt is an award-winning dating…
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031 Scheduling Sex? What To Do When You Can’t Find Time To Get It On
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This episode was prompted by a recent audience question, but it’s an age-old debate in the sex therapy realm. Is it lame to schedule sex? If you don’t schedule it, do you wind up just being in a permanent sex rut? Of course spontaneous sex can feel extra hot and intense . . . and no one wants sex to feel like another appointment on their calendar. …
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030 Air Sex Championships and Improv for Flirting with Comedian Chris Trew
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Heather’s guest this episode is Chris Trew. Chris is a comedian and improv coach living in New Orleans. He's been featured at over 75 comedy festivals in North America and seen on MTV, America's Got Talent, and GQ Magazine. He runs Comedy House New Orleans, Hell Yes Fest, and teaches improv comedy all over the world. Plus President Barack Obama fol…
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In celebration of Pride month, let's explore the concepts of queerness and questioning. In this episode, Heather questions the usefulness of labels and expertly navigates the topic of "Am I Queer?" Through personal anecdotes, Heather explores how sexuality can be fluid and how cultural biases can impact one's sexual identity. Whether identifying as…
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028 BDSM, Play Parties & Queer Sexuality with Kesiena Boom
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Join host Heather Shannon and guest Kesiena Boom in an engaging and enlightening conversation as they explore the captivating world of queerness, kink, and fearless communication. Unravel the meaning of "femme" within the queer community as they provide insights for queer women on confidently approaching and asking out their crushes. Discover the a…
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027 Listener Sex Questions: Differing Kink Levels, Vaginal Prolapse, Nipple Orgasms and Rimming!
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In this episode, Heather answers listener questions on kink differences, rimming, nipple play and sex with vaginal prolapse. She also addresses how our thoughts (not our partner and not our circumstances) create our turn-on and how our conditioning might make us feel like certain sexual activities are “good” or “bad,” when that is not actually the …
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026 Religion, Sexual Shame & Tantric Teachings with Tilly Storm
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Register for Heather’s free “Get Your Sexy Spark Back” Workshop taking place on Tuesday, May 30th @ 7pm: https://askasextherapist.clickfunnels.com/optin1683846259317 "Don't let fear, guilt, or shame keep you from connecting with your original sexual essence and experiencing more pleasure." ~Tilly Storm TILLY’S BIO: This week's guest, Tilly Storm, i…
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025 Sex & The Single Life: Dating, Vulnerability & Freedom
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How much do you really need to have your shit together to date? Should you work on yourself first or just go out there and date exactly as you are? Listen in for Heather’s advice on how to handle insecurities while putting yourself out there in the dating world. Heather discusses the importance of authenticity, consent, communication and boundaries…
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024 The Horny Housewife–on Going For It In Life, Dating Your Spouse and Keeping it Sexy in A Long-Term Relationship
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Join Heather and hilarious guest Jordyn Hakes for a truly unfiltered chat about about owning your sexuality and how mental health is the sexiest thing of all. Jordyn is the host of the wildly successful podcast “The Horny Housewife,” which focuses on dating your spouse and locker room talk for couples. In today’s episode, Jordyn shares her journey …
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