It‘s not enough to have your marriage survive. We want your marriage to thrive! Bringing unique perspectives from counseling individuals and couples in the church, the law, and the military, Bryon and Jennifer Harvey bring a wealth of experience and perspective to Operation: Thriving Marriage.
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Thriving Marriage with Mark and Bethany is a weekly discussion about marriage and family in the Christian life.
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Helping couples discover the why behind the what in their marriage with Chris and Beth Bruno and Tracy Johnson of ReStory Counseling.
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Thrive is the Marriage Ministry of Compass Bible Church in Aliso Viejo, CA.
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Welcome to Episode 63 of Operation: Thriving Marriage! In this episode, we delve into the delicate balance between criticism and growth within marriage. We explore the concept that holiness, not just happiness, is a key goal. First, we address the challenge posed by criticism, often a significant source of conflict in marriages. How can we navigate…
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How can we not let money become a source of contention in marriage? Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley discuss practical ways to help husband and wife avoid arguing about finances.Av Compass Bible Church
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Welcome to Operation: Thriving Marriage, where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships and provide actionable insights to help your marriage flourish. In this episode, we explore the concept of "Relationship Jet Lag."Host Bryon kicks off the conversation with his recent frequent travels, highlighting the stark differences in how couples …
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Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley discuss the topic of money and the anxiety that can often accompany it.Av Compass Bible Church
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Ep 61 - When Compromise is Not an Option
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Discover why compromise isn't always the answer in marriage, as we delve into the pitfalls of elevating compromise too high in marital discussions. Join us as we explore real-life examples, biblical perspectives, and practical solutions for resolving conflicts when compromise is not an option. Learn how to identify underlying values, seek guidance,…
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Episode 62 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage Podcast – exploring the dynamics of Healthy Competition in relationships. Discover the underlying problem as we explore how competition can lead to conflict in marriages. We discuss how competitive individuals often attach personal value to winning, revealing insecurities that breed negative feelings. …
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Welcome to Episode 59 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage podcast - "Chemistry Isn’t Real." No, we're not diving into conspiracy theories, but rather debunking the myth of instant chemistry in relationships. In this episode, we explore how our notions of love have been shaped by fairy tales and romantic comedies, highlighting that love at first sig…
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How to Deal With Stress As a Married Couple
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How can we leverage our relationship and companionship with our stress to navigate stressful situations?Av Compass Bible Church
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It's a question we need to ask ourselves every day. Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley offer insight on how long we should stay up before retiring to bed each night.Av Compass Bible Church
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Welcome to Episode 58 of Operation: Thriving Marriage, challenging the negativity surrounding marriages. In this episode, we delve into the abundance of negative articles on marriage, discussing what not to do and how to make things better. Break free from the cycle of negativity. Thriving marriages highlight the positive aspects, such as building …
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How to Get on the Same Page With Your Spouse
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What can you do if you and your spouse are not on the same page? Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley explain how married couples can link up and get unified!Av Compass Bible Church
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Whether they're big or small, problems in a marriage need to be fixed. Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany offer practical advice on how couples can practically solve their marriage issues.Av Compass Bible Church
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Ep 57 - When Intimacy Doesn’t Lead to Sex
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Welcome to Episode 57 of Operation: Thriving Marriage! In this episode, we explore the crucial distinction between intimacy and sex within a marriage. Join us as we delve into the challenges faced by couples who share deep connections but find passion missing in their relationship. Discover the biblical perspective on the importance of sexual expre…
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Marriage Beginner Mistakes (And How to Avoid Them)
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Join Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley as they discusses some common mistakes newlweds make, and how they can be avoided.Av Compass Bible Church
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Ep 56 - Listening During Tough Conversations
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Welcome to Episode 56 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage Podcast - "Listening During Tough Conversations." Join us as we explore the intricate dance of communication in marriage, focusing on the challenging yet crucial skill of effective listening. In our discussion, we address the common notion that listening is often more challenging than expres…
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Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley answer live audience questions during the Thrive Marriage Ministry gathering at Compass Bible Church.Av Compass Bible Church
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Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley answer live audience questions during the Thrive Marriage Ministry gathering at Compass Bible Church.Av Compass Bible Church
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Ep 55 - Validation Leads to Transformation!
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Welcome to Episode 55 of Operation Thriving Marriage! In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of validation in building a thriving marriage. From the importance of validating our spouses in various aspects of life to recognizing and overcoming the pitfalls of invalidation, we explore how positive reinforcement fosters oneness and sp…
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Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley answer live audience questions during the Thrive Marriage Ministry gathering at Compass Bible Church.Av Compass Bible Church
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Welcome to Episode 54 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Bryon and Jen delve into the heart of Christian prayer challenges. Many Christians grapple with guilt surrounding their prayer life, openly admitting to falling short. Bryon and Jen tackle this issue, emphasizing the transformative nature of prayer that extends beyo…
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How do you get through times of sickness in the home? Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley offer practical advice on how to deal with the inevitable in your home.Av Compass Bible Church
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How to Explore the Story of Sex in Your Marriage | Pre-marital Preparations Part 5
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In this episode, counselors Tracy Johnson and Chris Bruno discuss the importance of understanding and discussing sex in a marital relationship. They focus on how past experiences, cultural influences, body image, and personal stories can shape perceptions of sex. They recommend open dialogue within a relationship on these aspects to nurture a sex-p…
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Couples feel the weight regularly of financial issues. So, how can we as husbands and wives navigate the challenges associated with rising costs? Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley discuss.Av Compass Bible Church
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Ep 53 - Anniversary Edition! Questions from Listeners
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This is our 2 year anniversary episode! In this episode Bryon and Jennifer take listener questions. When is it ok to seek advice outside of the marriage? How do you raise kids when you have different backgrounds, opinions, and traditions? What is the best way to build trust after repeated infidelity? We seem to hear about husbands wanting sex more …
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How To Build Trust That Lasts | Pre-Marital Preparations Part 4
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Explore the importance of trust in marriage on this episode of Thrive Marriage Lab. Join Tracy Johnson and Chris Bruno as they delve into premarital conversations, building trust, and addressing betrayal in relationships. Discover valuable insights to strengthen the foundation of your marriage and navigate challenges with resilience. FREE 12 Months…
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How Strict Should I Be as a Christian Parent?
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As Christian parents, what are the things we should be strict about with our children? Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley discuss.Av Compass Bible Church
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Did You Marry Your In-Laws? | Pre-Marital Preparations Part 3
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In this interactive talk, Chris Bruno and Tracy Johnson, delve into the top conflicts in marriages, specifically focusing on the challenge of in-law relationships. They explore the often overlooked aspect of loyalty in marriages and discuss the importance of making intentional choices to prioritize the spouse over previous family loyalties. They al…
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What's Really Going On When You Fight | Pre-Marital Preparations Part 2
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Discover the real reasons couples fight as Tracy Johnson, a story work coach, and Chris Bruno, a licensed professional counselor, explore the emotions and fears behind conflicts, especially as the wedding day approaches. Uncover the "why" behind relationship issues and learn valuable insights on improving marriage communication. FREE 12 Months of D…
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Welcome to Episode 52 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage Podcast, "Happy!" While we often say marriage isn't about happiness, we delve into why it's crucial to prioritize happiness correctly. Unhappiness can lead to dissatisfaction, conflicts, and decreased problem-solving abilities in a marriage. We discuss the problem of declining happiness in t…
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The MOST Important Thing to Know Before You Walk Down the Aisle | Pre-Marital Preparations Part 1
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In this podcast episode, we explore the significance of individual narratives in a relationship and the importance of understanding your partner's story. Our marriage counselors, Chris Bruno and Tracy Johnson, share valuable insights on how these stories influence your connection and offer guidance for building a strong foundation before walking do…
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This is a time of year where many of us are running on fumes. So how can you help your spouse navigate busy, tiring times? Listen as Pastor Mark and Bethany Kelley discuss.Av Compass Bible Church
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What if it Doesn't Work? | Therapeutic Separation Part 7
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In this episode, Chris Bruno delves into the dynamics of therapeutic separation in marriages. He discusses the cases where couples find success and rekindle their relationships and the situations where separation might not work. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connection Subscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-dates 👉How health…
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When to End a Therapeutic Separation? | Therapeutic Separation Part 6
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In this episode of the Thrive Marriage Lab podcast, Chris Bruno delves into the crucial question of when and how to conclude a therapeutic separation in a marriage. Chris emphasizes the importance of having a clear, time-bound plan from the outset and outlines a six-month maximum duration guideline. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead…
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2 Essentials: Rupture and Repair | Therapeutic Separation Part 5
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In this episode, Chris Bruno discusses a surprising warning sign in marriages – the absence of conflicts. He highlights the importance of addressing ruptures in a relationship through the concept of rupture and repair. Chris emphasizes the value of therapeutic separation as a structured approach to addressing ruptures and facilitating repair for st…
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Is it biblical? | Therapeutic Separation Part 4
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In this episode of the Thrive Marriage Lab, Chris Bruno delves into the topic of therapeutic separation, particularly for Christian couples facing marital challenges. He explores whether therapeutic separation aligns with biblical principles and how it can be a hopeful and restorative process. Chris emphasizes the importance of taking a break to ca…
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What About the Kids? | Therapeutic Separation Part 3
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In this episode, Chris Bruno discusses the impact of children during a therapeutic separation. He emphasizes the importance of explaining the therapeutic separation to children, setting clear expectations, addressing their questions, and providing regular progress updates to alleviate their concerns and foster a sense of security. FREE 12 Months of…
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3 Elements of a Therapeutic Separation | Therapeutic Separation Part 2
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In this podcast episode, we explore the essential elements of therapeutic separation, emphasizing the importance of mutual agreement between partners. We delve into the significance of a well-defined separation document that clarifies expectations, logistics, and a defined timeframe, ensuring it's therapeutic rather than just a separation. FREE 12 …
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What is the Difference Between Therapeutic Separation and Separation? | Therapeutic Separation Part 1
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In this episode, we explore the concept of a "therapeutic separation" for couples facing challenges in their marriage. Chris Bruno highlights the key differences between a therapeutic separation and a regular separation. He emphasizes the importance of seeking professional guidance and the need to work towards healing the relationship rather than d…
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In episode 51 of the Operation: Thriving Marriage Podcast, Bryon and Jennifer shares thoughts on the tricky subject of prenuptial agreements. Prenuptial agreements have gotten a very bad wrap in the evangelical church. It’s often said that couples should not get them because they should not be planning for their divorce. Marriage is sacred to be en…
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The 20/24 Rule in Marriage Conflict | How to Improve Your Marriage Communication Part 4
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Discover the 20/24 Rule for effective conflict resolution in Marriage on the Thrive Marriage Lab Podcast. Join Chris Bruno as he guides couples through cooling down, healing, and reconnecting after intense conflicts. Learn how the 20-minute rule can help you maintain a deep and lasting marriage connection, even in challenging times. FREE 12 Months …
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4 Postures of Conflict in Marriage | How to Improve Your Marriage Communication Part 3
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In this podcast episode, we delve into the intriguing dynamics of marital communication and the four common postures that often emerge during conflicts in relationships. Chris Bruno enlightens us on the significance of recognizing these postures in our partners and ourselves to enhance understanding and improve communication in marriage. Discover h…
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4 Levels of Conflict in Marriage | How to Improve Your Marriage Communication Part 2
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Discover the four levels of communication and conflict in relationships with Chris Bruno. Learn how to navigate differences, disagreements, hurt feelings, conflicts, and fights in your marriage. Explore valuable insights to improve communication and strengthen your relationship. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connection Subscr…
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The Issue on the Table is NOT the Issue on the Table | How to Improve Your Marriage Communication Part 1
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In this eye-opening episode, join Chris Bruno as he shares a real-life marriage counseling experience. Discover how communication issues often stem from deeper emotional stories and how exploring your narratives can enhance your marital connection. Tune in for valuable insights into the 'why' behind communication challenges in relationships. FREE 1…
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Practical Questions about Biblical Submission
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How does a wife submit when she doesn't agree with her husband?Av Compass Bible Church
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Explore the essence of rebuilding relationships and emotional connection as Chris Bruno delves into the importance of risk, authenticity, and vulnerability in fostering intimacy. Discover how kindness can transform and heal emotional unavailability in this insightful episode from Thrive Marriage Lab. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lea…
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Emotional Unavailability is a Trauma Response
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In this podcast episode, Chris Bruno explores the underlying stories and traumas that contribute to emotional unavailability in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of curiosity as a means to better understand and bridge the gap between partners, shedding light on the origins of emotional unavailability and its impact on adult relationships.…
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In this episode, Chris Bruno delves into the challenging experience of emotional unavailability in relationships. He describes the feeling of trying to connect with a partner who seems distant and explains how this can erode the connection between couples. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connection Subscribe here: www.restory.l…
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What if your spouse is Emotionally Unavailable?
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In this episode, join Chris Bruno as he delves into the importance of curiosity in understanding the emotional unavailability of your partner. By exploring your spouse's past and showing empathy for their childhood experiences, you can foster a deeper connection and create a new narrative of emotional safety in your relationship. FREE 12 Months of …
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What if you are the one who is Emotionally Unavailable?
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Explore the roots of emotional unavailability and its impact on your relationships in this episode with licensed professional counselor Chris Bruno. Learn how past experiences shape your emotional responses and how to navigate healing for a deeper, more connected partnership. FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connection Subscribe…
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How Kindness Invites Emotional Availability
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In this episode, we explore the crucial distinction between tragedy and trauma. Tragedy, often unavoidable, represents external challenges we face in life, while trauma, the internal response to a lack of kindness during tragic moments, can shape our beliefs about ourselves and the world. Discover how introducing kindness into your relationships ca…
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