Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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(Rewind): 5 Valentine's Day Mistakes You Need to AVOID This Year
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7:16Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day? Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th: There’s too much pressure to be romantic. It’s all about money and gifts. Single people are made to feel like failures. It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s is…
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(Matt Monday): Don’t Do These 4 Things After a Breakup…
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31:25When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel li…
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(Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG
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17:53It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like…
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282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life
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26:04In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew al…
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(Matt Monday): Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship
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20:44Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool th…
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(Rewind): 5 First Date Tips That Make Them Want You More
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6:54What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug? Nope. While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presen…
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281: 5 Small Habits to Change Your Love Life TODAY
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1:13:37In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Pow…
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(Matt Monday): 5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing)
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28:47Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanti…
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(Rewind): They’re "Not Sure" They Can Commit to You? These Words Put YOU in Control
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5:32"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .” Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about. Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term. It leaves you wishing they could just get over their inde…
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280: "Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
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42:06In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals witho…
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(Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut
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23:57“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all…
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(Rewind): What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like
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19:26Can you relate to this? You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example). But here’s the catch: they’re …
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279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
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44:31In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you…
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(Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...
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21:37After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re tr…
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(Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart
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10:18I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because …
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278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki
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1:06:44In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one…
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(Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps
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24:45Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to: • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way). • Increase your love…
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(Rewind): Don't Even Think About Rekindling With Your Ex Until You Watch This...
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7:04Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if…
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277: The #1 Tool to Reduce Anxiety in Your Relationships w/ Mel Robbins
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1:02:46Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins, that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her grou…
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(Matt Monday): The 3 Biggest Money RED FLAGS in Relationships…
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1:43:07A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money. Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? Wha…
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(Rewind): Top 5 Dating Myths Holding You Back in Love
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7:31You know what drives me soooo crazy? Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again. And I don’t blame anyone for believing them. The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true. So today, I …
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(Matt Monday): 10 Ways to Get Over “Dating Disappointment”
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25:25Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t t…
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(Rewind): When You Feel Alone After Heartbreak (3 Secrets To Moving On)
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8:16When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice? Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain? All of this may help. Maybe. It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following th…
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276: The Subtle Signs You're Forcing a Relationship With the Wrong Person
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27:00In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http:/…
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(Matt Monday): 7 Crucial Steps to LET GO and MOVE ON From Someone
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25:34What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if …
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