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Larry Wilson is an Emmy nominated performer, producer, writer, and 2017 Comedy Magician of the Year, who synthesized his long history in show business into a powerful training system called The Wilson Method. As a successful TV Star and Communications Expert, Larry Wilson, shares his secrets to quality & clear communication. Every week a new episode takes the listener into another level of training where he/she can find success in business & relationships through better communication skills.

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Are you a male business leader who wants a hot and healthy marriage but feels consumed by the relentless demands of growing your company? Welcome! Make More Love is the podcast for high-performing male business leaders who want to achieve the business of their dreams—without losing the love of their life. Join host Ellen Dorian, veteran relationship expert and business coach, as she reveals practical strategies to maintain connection and intimate intensity in committed relationships. The show is a space for straight-up, judgment-free conversations about how listeners can be extraordinary in every way that matters—from handling the complexities of business to creating a deeply passionate relationship with their life partner without losing sight of what makes them uniquely themselves. Ellen brings her extensive expertise to challenge obsolete notions of masculinity, transactional thinking, false hierarchies, and the “work-life balance” myth—all of which can get in the way of building passionate, fulfilling life partnerships. This isn’t therapy. Traditional marriage counseling doesn’t resonate with everyone, so this show delivers practical, relatable advice that leverages the skills business leaders have already mastered in their work to strengthen their relationships. Tune in weekly for actionable ideas tailored to the unique relationship challenges male business leaders face. The segments are short, so you can listen whenever you have a few minutes—in the car, at the gym, or on the john. Ellen's insights and guest conversations with men who’ve been where you are will resonate and inspire. Plus, with captioned episodes, you can engage anytime, anywhere, with or without sound. Make More Love gives you a strategic advantage in cultivating a partnership built on mutual respect, appreciation, and true intimacy. Prepare to hear transformative ideas that deliver fast and lasting results. It’s time to focus on what matters most and Make More Love—in Your Life and With Your Wife. Notes: Intended for Adult Audiences: The Make More Love podcast is intended for adult audiences age 18+ only and contains content related to adult life issues. Some material may be considered "not safe for work." Please exercise discretion about where and with whom you listen to the show. Disclaimer: The Make More Love podcast is for informational purposes only. None of the information provided by the host or guests should be interpreted as a substitute for professional legal, financial, medical, or therapeutic advice or care. Always seek the guidance of a qualified professional with any questions or concerns about your specific situation. Rights and Permissions: By accessing this podcast, you acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of the Ellen Dorian Group/Passionate Partners Project (Ellen Dorian) or used by Ellen Dorian with permission and are protected under U.S. and international copyright laws.

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47: Stop Searching for Happiness & Start Making It: Five No-BS Strategies 22:21

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SUMMARY: In this final episode of the happiness series, Ellen Dorian brings everything together—why happiness matters, what gets in the way, and most importantly, how to actually build it. This episode is divided into three key parts: A review of the series—Happiness in relationships, the barriers men face, busting the Happy Wife, Happy Life myth, and introducing the Relationship Energy Spectrum An update on the Relationship Energy Spectrum .—How happiness, engagement, challenge and skills align, based on Jay Shetty’s insights on flow-state theory shared on the Diary of a CEO podcast. Five no-BS strategies to take control of your own happiness—without toxic positivity, gratitude journals, or generic self-help advice. Part 1: Why Happiness Matters & The Relationship Energy Spectrum Happiness isn’t a luxury—it directly impacts relationships and life satisfaction. The Happy Wife, Happy Life myth sets men up for failure by putting happiness outside their control. The Relationship Energy Spectrum (introduced in the last episode) helps men understand whether they’re engaged or disengaged in their relationship. Part 2: How Flow State Theory & Happiness Align Jay Shetty explained Flow State Theory on Diary of a CEO —happiness comes from being fully engaged in what you’re doing. He explained that the brain needs challenge and skill to be balanced—too much challenge creates stress, too little creates boredom. The Relationship Energy Spectrum aligns with Flow State Theory: Flow = Engaged & Positive → Challenge and skills are balanced. Battle Stations = Engaged & Negative → Too much challenge, not enough skill. Comfort Zone = Disengaged & Positive → Skills too high, challenge too low → leads to boredom. Loveless Limbo = Disengaged & Negative → No challenge, no skill → leads to emotional numbness. Key Reflection Question: Do you need to seek out new challenges or up-level your skills to improve your relationship? Part 3: 5 No-BS Strategies for Making More Happiness in Your Life 1. Shift from Goal-Driven to Impact-Driven Fulfillment Men often fall into the Achievement-Happiness Loop —chasing bigger goals but never feeling fulfilled. Hedonic Adaptation means every success quickly feels normal, leading to temporary highs and inevitable letdowns. Dr. Gad Saad explains that creativity is a major driver of happiness—people who build, innovate, and create experience deeper fulfillment than those chasing trophies. Legacy is more than money—the impact you create and the relationships you nurture are what truly matter. 2. Change Your Currency from Money to Time Once you quit seeking happiness through achievement, you need a new way to measure what truly matters. And if happiness is the goal, then the most valuable resource isn’t money, it’s time. A graph paper exercise helps visualize how many prime years of life are left—and how to use them wisely. The golf example: Golfers spend $10,000–$15,000 per year on the sport, but if they never have time to play, was that money (and time) well spent? Making decisions based on time gained, not money spent, leads to more freedom and happiness. 3. Cut the Bottom 10% Inspired by Ellen's mentor, Leo Casey, who is a fractional CFO. Every year, cut the least valuable 10% of expenses, time-wasters, and commitments. Apply the Four Rs: Remove, Reassign, Relegate, or Rehabilitate to free up mental bandwidth and time. If your relationship is in the bottom 10%, don’t dump it—put it in rehabilitate mode and invest in making it a top 10% relationship. 4. Reconnect with the Natural World The average man spends 93% of his life indoors—and it’s making them tired, stressed, and disconnected. Science-backed ways to reset: Grounding: Walking barefoot rebalances the body's electrical charge → reduces stress, inflammation, and improves sleep. Forest Bathing: Trees release compounds that lower stress hormones and improve mental clarity. Salt therapy: Negative ions in ocean air improve breathing, mood, and sleep quality. Indoor solutions: Himalayan salt lamps, grounding mats, and NASA-approved indoor plants can replicate some of these benefits. 5. Make Happiness a Daily Practice Happiness isn’t a feeling—it’s a skill. The One-Minute Happiness SITREP rewires the brain: What made me feel even a little bit happy today? What’s one thing I can do tomorrow to get more of that? Over time, recognizing and creating happiness becomes second nature. Key Takeaways: Many men get blindsided by their partner’s unhappiness because they mistake the Comfort Zone for a healthy relationship. Call to Action: Want personalized help applying these strategies? Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com . Join the conversation in the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook. Have thoughts on this episode? Email Ellen at ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com or connect with her on social media. Follow, Subscribe & Review to help more men access this content and strengthen their relationships. Closing Thoughts: This episode wraps up the series on happiness, but the work doesn’t stop here. What’s one step you can take today to start making happiness instead of waiting for it to appear? How can you apply these five strategies in your life and relationship? If you’re serious about transforming your relationship, a little bit of support and expertise can go a long way, so don't try to do it all alone. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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46: Happiness or Resentment: What’s Fueling Your Relationship? 16:00

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In this episode of Make More Love , Ellen Dorian introduces the Relationship Energy Spectrum and shows how your emotional state shapes the quality of your relationship. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel disconnected, this episode will help you identify the key obstacles to happiness and show you how to shift your energy to create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Part 1: Why Happiness is a Relationship Force The Relationship Multiplier Effect : Happiness isn’t just personal—it’s relational. Why men enter relationships seeking happiness, yet often feel unfulfilled. The Relationship Drive Matrix : Our core motivations for relationships—seeking pleasure, avoiding pain, wanting connection, and avoiding isolation. Part 2: Three Big Obstacles to Happiness for Men The Achievement Trap : Men are conditioned to believe success = happiness, but external success doesn’t automatically create internal fulfillment. Emotional Suppression: Many men are raised to suppress emotions, making it hard to even recognize happiness when it happens. Social Resistance: Expressing too much happiness can trigger negative reactions, reinforcing stoic or disengaged behaviors. Uncle Joe’s Story : A real-life example of how unchecked resentment and emotional suppression can impact a man’s life and relationships. Part 3: The Relationship Energy Spectrum – How Your Emotional State Shapes Your Relationship Flow State (Engaged Positive Energy): The ideal—high engagement, positive energy, deep connection. Battle Stations (Engaged Negative Energy): High engagement, but in constant conflict—resentment, arguing, keeping score. Comfort Zone (Disengaged Positive Energy): Coasting along, no real problems, but no spark or growth either. Loveless Limbo (Disengaged Negative Energy): No engagement, no positive energy—emotional disconnection and slow deterioration. Key Takeaways: Many men struggle with happiness because they've been conditioned to link it to external achievements. Success doesn’t automatically lead to fulfillment, and chasing goals without addressing internal happiness can leave you feeling empty. If you can’t identify happiness, you can’t cultivate it. Decades of emotional suppression and societal expectations can make it difficult for men to recognize, express, and sustain genuine happiness. Mapping where you stand in the Relationship Energy Spectrum is the first step to change. Once you know whether you’re in Flow State, Battle Stations, the Comfort Zone, or Loveless Limbo, you can take intentional steps toward shifting your energy and engagement in the relationship. Call to Action: Over the next few days, pay attention to how you’re showing up in your relationship: Are you engaged or disengaged? Are you bringing positive or negative energy? No judgment—just observe. Need support? Set up a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen at relationshipresetcall.com to get a clear path forward. Closing Thoughts: So far in this series on happiness, we’ve covered some big ideas. We started with how happiness affects relationships —how your personal fulfillment fuels connection, intimacy, and long-term passion. Today, we tackled what happiness actually is and how to identify it , breaking down the obstacles that make it hard for men to recognize, express, and experience happiness in their relationships. Next week, we’ll get into the practical side—how to cultivate happiness for yourself , so you’re not just waiting for it to happen, but actively creating a life that feels fulfilling and energizing. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. Is happiness an important topic for you? What questions do you have? What would you like to hear more about? Is there anything you agree or disagree with? I want you in on the conversation. Send me an email, drop into the P3 Insider’s Community , or set up a free Relationship Reset Call if you want to dig into your specific situation one-on-one. And don’t forget—if you’re enjoying the series, hit follow, leave a review, or share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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45: The Truth About Happiness in Relationships 12:37

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In this episode of Make More Love , Ellen kicks off a new series on happiness —what it actually is, why it matters, and how it plays into having a fulfilling, passionate relationship. She tackles one of the biggest myths in relationships: "Happy Wife, Happy Life." What’s the real truth about happiness in relationships? Ellen introduces the Relationship Multiplier Effect , explaining why happier men tend to have happier wives. She shares client stories, expert insights, and real strategies for building happiness that fuels passion, connection, and fulfillment in relationships. Part 1: The Myth of “Happy Wife, Happy Life” Many men believe their role is to make their wife happy —and that doing so will result in a happy marriage. A 2014 study found that a wife’s unhappiness is more likely to lead to divorce, but a husband’s unhappiness doesn’t have the same impact. This leads to the wrong conclusion —that a man’s happiness doesn’t matter in a relationship. The truth: Men and women experience happiness differently. Men tend to compartmentalize and shift focus to work or hobbies when unhappy, while women connect their emotional well-being directly to the relationship. This misunderstanding is why so many men get blindsided by divorce. Part 2: The Cost of Living by This Myth (JQ’s Story) Ellen shares a real-life example from a client, JQ, who followed the "Happy Wife, Happy Life" model. He built the life his wife wanted , assuming that her happiness would bring them both fulfillment. The reality? He lost sight of what made him happy , working long hours to maintain a lifestyle that didn’t bring him joy. When he finally faced a personal crisis , he realized he no longer knew what happiness even looked like. Part 3: The Relationship Multiplier Effect Happier men tend to have happier wives. When you focus on your own fulfillment , you create a positive feedback loop in your relationship. Happiness spreads. Misery spreads. Which do you want in your relationship? A fulfilled man is more attractive , emotionally strong , and less demanding of validation. Happiness creates more presence, passion, and engagement , leading to stronger intimacy and connection. Key Takeaways: You can’t delegate happiness. You’re responsible for your own. Sacrificing your happiness doesn’t create a happy relationship —it creates burnout, resentment, and disconnection. Happiness in relationships is a multiplier —when you invest in your own fulfillment, it naturally strengthens your connection with your partner. Call to Action: What makes you happy? If you don’t know the answer, you won't want to miss the next episode. If you’re ready to take action in your relationship, book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen. Let’s get you moving in the right direction. Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content and resources. All links can be found below. "What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife." — Ellen Dorian Closing Thoughts: Happiness isn’t a luxury— it’s the foundation of every thriving, passionate relationship. Your personal fulfillment is directly tied to the strength of your relationship. When you feel energized, when you feel engaged, when you feel alive—your relationship reflects that back to you. If you’ve spent years focused on making everyone else happy while ignoring your own needs, then your relationship is going to feel the weight of that. And at some point, your partner will, too. When was the last time you thought about what actually makes you happy? If you don’t know, that’s okay. That’s exactly what we’re tackling next time. Because before you can build a fulfilling life and relationship, you need to reconnect with yourself. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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44: Date Nights: Understanding the Assignment! 16:20

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Date night should be something you both look forward to—not a routine obligation that fizzles out over time. In this episode, we revisit the best strategies for making date night exciting, meaningful, and passion-fueled. Learn how to break out of the "dinner and a movie" rut, create unforgettable experiences, and make date nights work for your relationship dynamic. If you’re ready to level up your date nights and reignite that spark, this episode is for you! Part 1: Why Most Date Nights Fail Many couples fall into a predictable routine that makes date nights feel like just another task. The biggest mistakes include: Repeating the same experiences without variety. Making date night feel like an obligation instead of an opportunity. Treating it as a bid for sex rather than a time for deepening connection. Solution: The key to better date nights isn’t just spontaneity—it’s thoughtful planning with the right emotional elements. Part 2: The Master Date Night Framework Three phases: Anticipation – Build excitement beforehand with playful teasing, surprises, and shared expectations. Experience – Stay present, minimize distractions, and focus on your partner’s enjoyment. Afterglow – Keep the emotional connection going beyond the night itself. The 5 Emotional Elements That Elevate Date Night: Fire – Create sexual tension and attraction. Intensity – Deepen emotional and physical connection. Immersion – Build a private "love bubble" where only the two of you exist. Resonance – Show your partner they are seen, heard, and understood. Harmony – Sync up with each other’s energy to create a natural flow. Part 3: The 7 Types of Dates & How to Plan Them Avoid the same-old routine by mixing up date types: Romantic Date – Classic candlelit dinners, dancing, and celebrations. Relaxed Date – Low-key nights at home, movie marathons, cooking together. Reminiscing Date – Recreate your first date or revisit meaningful places. Recreational Date – Physical activity like hiking, biking, or dancing. Reaching Out Date – Volunteering or working on a cause together. Risk-Taking Date – Trying something new or adventurous. Reconciliation Date – Strategic dates to rebuild connection after conflict. Key Takeaways: Date nights don’t have to be extravagant—but they do need to be intentional. Vary your date types to keep the spark alive. Use emotional elements to elevate the experience and make your partner feel truly connected to you. Call to Action: Book a Free Relationship Reset Call – Need help improving your relationship? Grab a 15-minute strategy call at relationshipresetcall.com . Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community – Get exclusive content, resources, and support from like-minded individuals. Follow & Subscribe – Never miss an episode! Hit follow on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help spread the word. Closing Thoughts: Date nights can be a game-changer in your relationship—when done right. By incorporating these strategies, you can create dates that fuel connection, passion, and intimacy, bringing you and your partner closer than ever. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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43: Seriously? How to Bring Back the Fun in Your Relationship 18:43

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Marriage is already an absurd idea when you think about it—so why do we get so serious about keeping it running smoothly? In this episode, Ellen introduces the Absurdity Principle of Relationship Growth and dives into three ways to inject more fun into your relationship. If your relationship feels routine, predictable, or just too serious, these approaches will break you out of your comfort zone, increase connection, and make your relationship more exciting again. Part 1: The Absurdity of Relationships & Why Fun Disappears Why long-term relationships naturally become too serious —and how that kills connection. The big mistake couples make when they try to fix a stale relationship with logic. The Absurdity Principle: Why embracing the ridiculousness of lifelong commitment is the key to making it work. Rate your relationship’s fun level —if it’s below a 7, you need this episode. Part 2: 3 Ways to Bring Back Fun & Playfulness 1. The Surrender Date – Letting go of control leads to the best experiences. One partner plans everything —location, outfits, food, activities. The other just goes along for the ride. Why it works: Builds trust, creates surprise and excitement, and shakes up the usual relationship dynamic. Ideas to try: Blindfolded Outfit Challenge, Trying a Completely New Activity, or Over-the-Top Themed Date Night. 2. Whose Line Couples Edition – Improv your way to better connection. Inspired by Whose Line Is It Anyway? , this game-based approach adds humor, novelty, and unpredictability into your relationship. Game options: Questions Only – Every response must be a question! Scenes From a Hat – Act out funny, flirty, or ridiculous scenarios. Props – Grab an object and invent as many crazy uses for it as possible. Want more scenes? Download the free list of 25 Couples Scenes From a Hat! [https://passionatepartnersproject.com/25-scenes-from-a-hat/] 3. Try Something Physical – Movement boosts connection, attraction, and chemistry. Ideas include: Couples dance classes, roller skating, sexy partner workouts, or even body painting. Why it works: Moving together builds chemistry in ways that words can’t. Key Takeaways: People may not stop loving each other—but they often stop having fun together. You don’t just fall into playfulness—you have to create it. Trying something new together shakes up routines and reintroduces attraction. Call to Action: Pick one approach and try it this week. DM Ellen or tag her in the P3 Insider's Community with your best moment! Want more fun ideas? Grab the free Scenes From a Hat download at [YourLandingPage.com]! Need help making this work? Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen at relationshipresetcall.com Closing Thoughts: "We all want fun, exciting, and playful relationships, but fun doesn’t just happen. You have to make space for it. You have to create it. And yeah, sometimes that takes effort. But wasn’t planning fun dates exciting when you first started dating? It was work, but it was high-reward work." Start small – Pick just one playful thing this week. Schedule it if you have to – Spontaneity is a myth; even early dating was planned. Push through the awkwardness – Fun feels weird at first, but it gets easier the more you do it. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Download 25 Scenes from a Hat for Couples Here: https://passionatepartnersproject.com/25-scenes-from-a-hat/ Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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42: Stuck in the Doghouse? Here’s How to Get Out—and Stay Out 16:51

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SUMMARY: If you didn't listen to last week's Valentine’s Day Special—or you listened but didn’t take action—there’s a chance you’re going to be in the doghouse. And if that’s the case, you’re going to need a plan to get out. In this episode, Ellen breaks down what the doghouse really is (hint: it’s not just about being in trouble), why it happens, how to recognize the warning signs, and, most importantly, how to get out and stay out—for good. You’ll meet Bill, a VIP client who found himself in the doghouse without a clue. And, you’ll learn how to prevent disconnection, build stronger communication, so you can retire the doghouse dynamic from your relationship permanently. Part 1: What Is the Doghouse and Why Does It Happen? The doghouse isn’t just about being in trouble—it’s an emotional space where one partner withdraws due to unmet expectations, unresolved frustrations, or a perceived lack of priority. How disconnection builds over time and why it can sneak up on high-performing men who are laser-focused on their careers. The "Friend Test" analogy: How relationship withdrawal mirrors friendships that fade when effort isn’t reciprocated. Part 2: Case Study—Bill’s Story Bill, a VIP Client, shares his frustration about constantly ending up in the doghouse without knowing why. A deep dive into Bill’s missed bids for connection: an overlooked vacation plan and neglected smoke detector batteries—small actions that sent unintended messages to his wife. The realization: It’s often not about what you did , but what you didn’t do. Part 3: How to Get Out—and Stay Out—of the Doghouse Ellen helps Bill align his actions with his intentions, track his commitments, and initiate a direct conversation to eliminate the doghouse dynamic. She lays out five actionable strategies to avoid disconnection and build a stronger relationship: 1) Recognize and respond to bids for connection. 2) Acknowledge and fulfilled promises. 3) Take immediate action on something small. 4) Open the conversation about the doghouse. 5) Establish regular check-ins. Key Takeaways: The doghouse isn’t a punishment—it’s a sign of disconnection. Small, repeated disappointments add up and push your partner to withdraw. The way out isn’t grand gestures—it’s consistent, meaningful action and open communication. You can’t fix what you don’t see, so learning to recognize your partner’s needs and following through is key to keeping your relationship strong. Closing Thoughts: So, as we wrap up this episode, ask yourself: What’s one small thing I can do today to reconnect with my partner? Where have I been missing bids for connection—and how can I start noticing them? How can I be more intentional about following through on my commitments? The doghouse isn’t just about being "in trouble"—it’s about disconnection. It happens when small disappointments, forgotten promises, and missed bids for connection pile up over time. If you’re in the doghouse, it probably didn’t happen overnight, and it won’t go away on its own. But you have the power to change it. You can’t read your partner’s mind, but you can show up consistently, pay attention, and follow through on the things that matter to them. Relationships aren’t about perfection—they’re about making each other feel seen, heard, valued and loved. Call to Action: If you're stuck the doghouse, you don’t have to stay there. Book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen at relationshipresetcall.com . In just 15 minutes, you’ll get clear on what’s going on in your relationship and walk away with one or two actionable steps to start making real progress. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. And if you found this episode helpful, help us spread the word—hit subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who might need it. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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41: Valentine’s Day—Hallmark Holiday or Passionate Power Play 15:33

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In this Valentine’s Day special episode, Ellen Dorian dives into the history, meaning, and modern-day pressures of the holiday. Whether listeners are diehard romantics or Valentine’s Day cynics, Ellen provides practical advice and creative ideas to help them plan a day that fits their relationship. From understanding their partner’s expectations to avoiding last-minute stress, this episode is packed with insights to make Valentine's Day a meaningful and stress-free experience. Part 1: Understanding Valentine's Day A look at the origins of the holiday, including its rebellious roots in ancient Rome. Why Valentine’s Day can feel commercialized and how shifting perspectives can help. The significance of aligning with or acknowledging a partner's attachment to the day. Part 2: Meeting Relationship Expectations The importance of understanding a partner’s expectations for Valentine's Day. The consequences of ignoring the holiday if it's important to one partner. Two options: setting clear boundaries or using the holiday to strengthen the relationship. Part 3: Planning a Personalized Valentine’s Day Strategies for different types of relationships: Partners who are indifferent to the holiday. Partners who want something special but aren’t tied to traditions. Traditionalists who expect classic Valentine’s Day elements (roses, chocolates, fancy dinner). Key Takeaways: Understanding how a partner feels about romantic gestures can prevent miscommunication and disappointment. Thoughtful, personalized efforts go a long way in building a stronger, more affectionate relationship. Planning ahead ensures less stress, fewer mistakes, and a better overall experience. Call to Action: Listeners can download the Ultimate Valentine’s Day Planning Kit to get a head start on their planning. The kit includes a timeline, curated gift ideas, and a planner to keep everything organized. Get our Ultimate Valentine's Day Planning Kit: Download it now Closing Thoughts: Ellen encourages listeners to take one small step to elevate their next Valentine’s Day, whether this year’s celebration is a hit or a lesson learned. Showing a partner that they are understood and appreciated strengthens intimacy, affection, and resilience in the relationship. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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40: Can a Couple Stay Together When They Want Different Things Out of Life? 21:04

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In the final episode of our Avoiding Divorce series, Ellen explores what happens when couples no longer want the same things in life. She breaks down the three main reasons this misalignment occurs, the emotional dynamics that make it worse, and the three principles to help get your relationship back on track. This is about rediscovering or even defining, for the first time, a shared vision for your future—one that keeps you and your partner aligned, connected, and moving forward together. Part 1: Why Couples Lose Their Shared Vision Ellen explains how many divorces are driven by couples who say, "We just didn’t want the same things anymore." 3 Reasons for misalignment: Goals and priorities diverge over time. There was never a shared vision to begin with. One partner drastically changes the trajectory of the relationship . Part 2: Emotional Dynamics That Worsen the Problem Loss of respect undermines trust and collaboration. Loss of confidence in the plan can lead to pretending and disengagement. Emotional withdrawal (discussed in Episode 26, Dead Quiet: Is Stonewalling Killing Your Relationship? ) creates distance that grows over time. Part 3: The Three Principles to Get Back in Sync Principle 1: Switch off Autopilot and Re-Engage Let go of magical thinking—your relationship won’t fix itself. Reflect on this question: What will my relationship look like in 10 years if nothing changes? Take control of your future and create the relationship you want. Principle 2: Create a Vision You Can Believe In If you're uncertain about your relationship's future, progress will be hard. Paint a picture of a realistic future you and your partner would want to stay in. This vision needs to reflect both your dreams and your partner's. Principle 3: Co-Create a Shared Vision Once you have clarity, collaborate with your partner to merge your visions. Sit on the same side of the table, working as a team to tackle alignment. You don’t need to agree on everything—find common ground and create a future you both feel excited about. Key Takeaways: You can reconnect with your partner if you’ve lost your shared vision. Start by taking action on your own—get clear on your own vision before involving your partner. Build a shared vision that balances both partners' dreams and goals, so you can work toward a future you both want to stay in. Call to Action: Book a Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com . Follow or subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes. Leave a review to help others find the show. Share this episode with someone who might need it. Closing Thoughts: Ellen reminds listeners that divorce season can become recommitment season —an opportunity to realign and rebuild a stronger, more connected relationship. Relationships aren’t bulletproof, but by cultivating passion, presence, and purpose, you can weather life’s challenges together. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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39: The SHI*T Model: A Plan for Moving Beyond Betrayal 18:42

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In this episode of Make More Love , Ellen Dorian explores the impact of betrayal on relationships and how it undermines trust, presence, and purpose—the key drivers of a passionate partnership. Ellen introduces the S*H*I*T Model, a practical framework designed to help listeners process betrayal, rebuild trust, and move forward, whether that means repairing the relationship or deciding to let it go. Part 1: Betrayals vs. Disappointments The difference between disappointments and betrayals: Disappointments don’t usually erode trust, but a pattern of consistent letdowns can lead to betrayal. Betrayals involve forethought and perception, making them uniquely damaging to trust and connection. Part 2: The S*H*I*T Model Phase 1: Crap or Get Off the Pot – Decide if you’re ready to rebuild trust or if it’s time to let go. Phase 2: Climb Off the Crap Pile – Let go of resentment and unrealistic expectations that keep you stuck. Phase 3: Compost That Crap – Turn lessons from betrayal into personal and relational growth through actionable steps. Part 3: Practical Advice Learn how to let go of the “resentment story” and societal fairy tales about relationships. Focus on personal growth, rebuilding trust incrementally, and creating a shared relationship model. When necessary, seek guidance from a coach or counselor to work through unresolved issues. Key Takeaways: Not all letdowns are betrayals. Disappointments hurt but don’t usually erode trust, while betrayals strike at the foundation of the relationship. The S*H*I*T Model helps you decide if you’re ready to rebuild trust. It walks you through a process to determine whether you’re prepared to do the work. Decisiveness and letting go come first. Commit to staying or leaving, and release resentment before addressing the betrayal itself. Call to Action: Ellen created a free downloadable worksheet to guide you through the S*H*I*T Model. Use it to figure out where you stand and the steps you can take to move forward. If you need personalized support, book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen at relationshipresetcall.com . Closing Thoughts: Next week, Ellen will wrap up the Avoiding Divorce series with a discussion on regaining alignment in your relationship and how to create a shared vision for the future. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. S*H*I*T Model Worksheet: https://drive.google.com/file/d/12u7PnW5OSu-ac28ckuoDCoryDW-Zl-vv/view?usp=sharing "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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38: The Other Four Horsemen: Hidden Relationship Dynamics That Kill Desire (Avoiding Divorce Series, Part 2 of 4) 23:08

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Summary: Welcome to part two of our series on Divorce Season and how to avoid it. January is often called "divorce season," and we’re dedicating this month to helping you avoid becoming a statistic. In this episode, we tackle a crucial aspect of maintaining a thriving relationship: passion. We’ll explore the "Other Four Horsemen" that quietly erode intimacy and connection in relationships and, most importantly, how to overcome them. These hidden dynamics—Neediness, Childlike Behavior, Apathy, and Transactionalism—may be undermining your relationship more than you realize. Learn to identify these behaviors and take actionable steps to build a deeper, more meaningful connection with your partner. Part 1: Understanding the Other Four Horsemen Overview of "The Other Four Horsemen": Neediness, Childlike Behavior, Apathy, and Transactionalism. Why these unconscious behaviors erode intimacy and create distance in relationships. Part 2: Breaking Down Each Horseman Neediness: Seeking constant validation and reassurance, which can exhaust your partner and kill attraction. Examples: Constant reassurance, clinginess, and overreacting to mistakes. Solution: Notice when you’re doing it, pause, and focus on meeting your own needs. Childlike Behavior: Failing to live up to the expectations of adult partnership. Examples: Leaving messes, weaponized helplessness, and acting immaturely. Solution: Read the room, take responsibility for key tasks, and emulate adult role models. Apathy: Neglecting to put effort into the relationship. Examples: Not being present, retiring romance, and losing empathy. Solution: Reconnect with gratitude, act with intention, and shift your perspective. Transactionalism: Treating the relationship as a series of quid pro quo exchanges. Examples: Conditional love, keeping score, and using gifts as leverage. Solution: Shift your focus from what you’re getting to what you’re giving, and communicate intentions openly. Part 3: Tools for Transformation Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change. Small, intentional actions can have a big impact on reigniting passion and connection. Recommendations for additional insights: Episode 7: Master Date Nights to Refuel Your Relationship. Episode 23: Build A Bonfire: Steps to Reignite Your Relationship. Episode 24: A Modern Hero’s Guide to Making More Love. Episode 25: How to Make Your Partner Feel Loved and Get More Love in Return. Key Takeaways: The "Other Four Horsemen" are subtle but powerful barriers to intimacy. Identifying and addressing these behaviors can transform your relationship. Reigniting passion doesn’t require grand gestures—small, consistent actions matter most. Call to Action: If you’re ready to dive deeper, book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com . Whether it’s a minor tune-up or a major overhaul, we’ll create a plan to help you move forward. Closing Thoughts: The foundation of a strong relationship is recognizing patterns that no longer serve you and committing to change. These small adjustments can pave the way for a more passionate and fulfilling connection with your partner. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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37: Will January Be Your Relationship Wake-Up Call? 14:01

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In this episode of The Make More Love Show , Ellen explores why January is often called "Divorce Season" and reframes it as the perfect time for a Relationship Wake-Up Call . She introduces the concept of the "Recommitment Season" and explores the reasons why this time of year is critical for relationships. Ellen discusses the warning signs of relationship trouble, the costs of divorce, and how gaining clarity can empower you to take control of your future. Part 1: Why January Is Known as Divorce Season Ellen outlines the four key reasons January is known for a spike in divorces: the holiday letdown, business stress, financial reviews, and resolutions for fresh starts. These factors combine to make January a turning point for many couples. Part 2: Assessing Your Relationship Using the analogy of wine, vodka, or fish, Ellen helps listeners evaluate their relationship's current state. Is it improving, stagnant, or deteriorating? She explains how each state ties to the risks of divorce and what action steps might be appropriate. Part 3: The Emotional, Social, and Financial Costs of Divorce Ellen emphasizes the devastating impact divorce can have emotionally, socially, and financially, particularly for business owners. She explains how the financial toll often starts years before divorce papers are filed, with overspending, poor financial decisions, and the stress of a deteriorating relationship. Key Takeaways: January is a pivotal month—use it to reflect on your relationship. Assess whether your relationship is like wine, vodka, or fish to understand where you stand. Gaining clarity about your options can help you make better decisions and take control of your future. Call to Action: If you’re considering divorce or feeling stuck in your relationship, take advantage of Ellen’s free Relationship Reset Call . This 15–20 minute session gives you a chance to brainstorm options and gain a fresh perspective. Schedule your call at relationshipresetcall.com . Closing Thoughts: "January doesn’t have to be Divorce Season—it can be your Recommitment Season. Whether you’re ready to rebuild your relationship or simply gain clarity about your options, I’m here to help you take the next step." Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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36: Holiday Episode: The Spirit of Generosity in Relationships 14:46

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In this special holiday episode, Ellen Dorian reflects on the Spirit of Generosity, a concept she learned from her father and continues to embody in her coaching. Through heartfelt storytelling, she introduces the five aspects of generosity—emotional, relational, philosophical, action-oriented, and legacy-focused—and shares actionable ways to bring these into your relationships. This episode is a guide to creating deeper connections, fostering trust, and leaving a meaningful legacy for your loved ones. Part 1: A Holiday Story About Generosity Ellen shares a moving story about her father’s approach to Christmas and the lessons he imparted through the concept of Santa Claus as the embodiment of generosity. She recounts her dad’s final gift to her, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry, and how it symbolizes selflessness, love, and sacrifice in relationships. Part 2: The Five Aspects of Generosity Emotional Generosity : Giving time, attention, and love freely without expecting anything in return. Includes practical tips like using a “root cause analysis” approach to stay present during emotional conversations. Relational Generosity : Paying attention to your partner’s needs and stepping in to share the mental load. Features the “By The Clock” exercise to anticipate and address tasks proactively. Philosophical Generosity : Cultivating a mindset of abundance by focusing on gratitude and appreciation rather than scarcity or criticism. Action-Oriented Generosity : Doing what you say you’ll do, being reliable, and supporting your partner when it matters most, even when it’s inconvenient. Legacy of Generosity : Building a lasting impact through selflessness in relationships, modeled after her father’s example. Part 3: Holiday Reflections Ellen encourages listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity during the holiday season and to pass it forward in their own lives. She reminds listeners that the greatest gift they can give their children is the example of a passionate and connected partnership. Key Takeaways: Generosity is More Than Money. True generosity lies in how you give your time, attention, and care to those you love. It’s about showing up fully and selflessly in ways that matter most. Emotional and Relational Generosity Build Connection.Trust and connection grow when you’re emotionally present and proactive in supporting your partner’s needs—whether by sharing the mental load or simply listening with focus and care. Your Legacy Begins in Your Relationships.The most impactful legacy you leave isn’t material; it’s the example you set in your relationships. Cultivating a passionate and connected partnership shapes how your children and loved ones approach their own connections. Call to Action: Feeling stuck in your relationship? Schedule a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to identify key challenges and create a plan to move forward. Visit relationshipresetcall.com to book your spot. Closing Thoughts: Ellen closes with a heartfelt wish for joy, peace, and love during the holiday season. She invites listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity and leave a legacy their loved ones will treasure. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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35: How to Give Your Partner a Gift Card Without Hurting Your Relationship 14:47

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[SUMMARY] Gift-giving during the holidays or special occasions can be a minefield, especially when it comes to significant others. This week, Ellen dives into a common mistake many partners make: giving a gift card without much thought—and how it can unintentionally hurt your relationship. She shares a real-life story from a client and offers practical, step-by-step advice on how to turn even a gift card into a meaningful experience that shows your partner how much you care. Part 1: Why Gift-Giving Feels So Hard Ellen breaks down the common frustrations and challenges of holiday gift-giving: Why partners with “everything” are difficult to shop for. How big-ticket items and personal preferences make gift-giving feel impossible. Why a gift card might seem practical but can come across as thoughtless. She also unpacks what the phrase “It’s the thought that counts” really means—and how partners interpret effort differently. Part 2: A Client’s Gift-Giving Dilemma Ellen shares the story of her client, JT, who struggled to find a gift for his wife after past failures—including a gift card disaster that caused resentment. She explores why this scenario is so common and how frustration can lead to gift-giving procrastination or avoidance altogether. Part 3: The Solution—Make It an Experience Ellen lays out a step-by-step plan for turning a gift card or shopping budget into a meaningful and personal experience: Create a beautifully wrapped certificate for a shopping day together. Plan ahead by contacting stores and arranging a curated selection within budget. Elevate the experience with lunch, dinner, or thoughtful details that show care and effort.She also provides ideas for scaling the experience to different preferences, budgets, and logistics. Key Takeaways: A great gift isn’t about the price—it’s about the thought and effort behind it. Focusing on an experience over a “thing” creates connection and shows your partner you value them. Planning even simple details, like arranging a private shopping experience, can make all the difference. Call to Action: If you’ve ever struggled with gift-giving, this episode is your chance to rethink your approach and create a meaningful moment with your partner. For more personalized advice, schedule a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen or join the conversation in the P3 Insider’s Community. Links are below! Closing Thoughts: Ellen reminds listeners that putting thought into a gift is about more than avoiding conflict—it’s about deepening your connection and showing your partner they matter. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. PS: custom jewelry design info: https://www.instagram.com/dorianjewelers/ "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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34: How to Handle When Things Go South 15:03

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[In this off-the-cuff episode, Ellen Dorian shares candid thoughts on handling frustrations and setbacks when things don’t go as planned. Using her own tech issues as an example, Ellen explores how to manage stress and prevent it from negatively impacting your relationships. She dives into three common problems and offers five actionable principles for maintaining emotional control and resilience during challenging times. Part 1: Understanding the Impact of Frustration How work frustrations can spill over into your relationship, even when your partner isn’t involved. The importance of recognizing how stress affects your behavior and the energy you bring home. Part 2: Identifying Common Challenges Losing perspective under stress and why small glitches can feel enormous. Neglecting self-care and how it creates a vicious cycle, making stress harder to handle. Part 3: Five Principles for Managing Frustration Pause Before Reacting – Take a deep breath and respond intentionally instead of emotionally. Name It to Tame It – Identify and articulate what you’re feeling to regain control. Communicate Constructively – Share your frustrations with your partner in a way that fosters understanding, not conflict. Prioritize Self-Care – Small, intentional actions can build resilience and restore your emotional balance. Engage the Gratitude Factor – Reflect on what’s going well to reframe your mindset and counter negativity. Key Takeaways: Frustrations are inevitable, but they don’t have to damage your relationship. Emotional control during challenging times is a cornerstone of living an honorable life. Practicing self-care and gratitude can help you manage stress and show up as your best self. Call to Action: Ellen shares her personal commitment to these principles and encourages listeners to take a proactive approach to maintaining balance in their lives. Whether it’s a deep breath, a moment of gratitude, or reaching out for support, small steps can make a big difference in preserving both your peace of mind and the strength of your relationships. Closing Thoughts: Ellen reflects on the importance of handling frustrations with intention, especially when life doesn’t go as planned. She emphasizes that these moments, though temporary, can leave lasting impacts if we let them spill over into our relationships. By practicing emotional control, prioritizing self-care, and staying mindful of how stress affects those around us, we can navigate challenges more gracefully. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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33: Silence, Anger & Desire: Emotional Patterns that Can Undermine Your Relationship—With Performance Coach Kylie Ryan 28:35

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In this episode, Ellen sits down with the dynamic Kylie Ryan, a performance coach specializing in helping entrepreneurs unlock their potential by tackling emotional and mental roadblocks. Together, they dive into a range of provocative topics, from emotional intelligence and societal conditioning to rage and relationships. This conversation is packed with insights on how to better understand and express emotions, fostering stronger connections in both personal and professional spheres. Part 1: Understanding Emotional Conditioning Ellen and Kylie discuss how upbringing, societal norms, and biological differences shape the way men and women process emotions. They delve into why many men struggle with articulating emotions and how partners can work together to create a safe space for emotional expression. Part 2: Rage, Relationships, and Society The conversation shifts to the increasing rage and anger seen in society, particularly in men, stemming from isolation, lack of appreciation, and unmet emotional needs. Kylie explores the impact of suppressed emotions and the role of societal structures in perpetuating dysfunctional coping mechanisms. Part 3: The Path to Emotional Mastery Kylie outlines practical strategies for managing and expressing emotions constructively. Ellen and Kylie share personal anecdotes to illustrate how addressing emotional triggers and embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy and fulfillment. Key Takeaways: Managing and expressing emotions is a sign of strength and essential for building meaningful connections. Societal norms and upbringing shape emotional habits, but you can break free from these patterns through awareness and intention. Authentic connection and intimacy arise when you let go of pretenses and embrace vulnerability with your partner. Call to Action: Ready to take control of your emotions and enhance your relationships? Join Ellen’s private Facebook community, visit her website for more resources, or schedule a free Relationship Reset Call today at relationshipresetcall.com . Closing Thoughts: Ellen encourages listeners to reflect on how managing emotions can positively impact their lives and relationships. She emphasizes that taking small steps toward emotional mastery can lead to extraordinary changes in connection and intimacy. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company: The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Or set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me here: relationshipresetcall.com…

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