A show where we discuss, debate, explore (and sometimes argue) topics on life, love, relationships, and family. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform! HAVE WORDS WITH US! Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveWordsMandy on IG: @havewordswithHERE on IG: @gonnahavewordsWANT ACCESS TO EXCLUSIVE CONTENT?? (like video and live streams) Join us in the conversation in our private Facebook Group! ht ...
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LIVE Episode: What Do You Bring to the Table in your relationship?
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In this episode we are discussing what "bringing something to the table." means and what it is that you bring to the relationship. Does it differ for men and women? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on YouTube, Facebook, In…
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LIVE Episode: Everything Isn't Always Something
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In this episode we are discussing how everything isn't always something, How past experiences, pains and traumas can effect our perceptions in certain situations. And we went and seen the comedian David Arnold! Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to as…
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We're Gonna Have Words LIVE: Sex/Life, Spicing Up Sex in Marriage
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In this episode we discuss the conclusion of Sex/Life series on Netflix, Spicing up sex in marriage, and do's and don'ts. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and (sometimes) Twitter @GonnaHaveW…
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MID-WK-LIVE Episode: Relationship Qualities
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In this episode we are discussing the qualities that attract you in beginning of the relationship vs the qualities that now sustain the relationship. How has it changed? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on YouTube, Faceboo…
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LIVE Episode: WGHW Podcast 1yr Anniversary & Sex/Life
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In this episode we discuss and reflect the 1 yr anniversary of WGHW podcast. What we have learned along way, what changed as well as what is to come, and some goals we have in mind. We also discuss the Sex/Life show on Netflix, what we agree/disagree with per our own experiences in marriage. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharin…
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LIVE Episode: Triggered by Words
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In this episode we are discussing Trigger Words. Are you knowingly using trigger words with your spouse? Are you triggered? How to identify and manage when you are triggered. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on YouTube, Fa…
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Father's Day- Underappreciated Dads/Work Life Balance/Stress LIVE Episode
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In this episode we are discussing Father's Day, The Role of Dad being under appreciated and balancing work/life and stress. (PLEASE NOTE: We were having some mic/sound issues in this episodes. We apologize. We'll do better next time. Thank you for your understanding!) Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjo…
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Vulnerability in Relationships- LIVE Episode
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In this episode we discuss what vulnerability is in a relationship. What it means for us, our errors/corrections, and how it benefits a relationship (or not.) Vulnerability: Men VS Women- is one likely to be more vulnerable than the other? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your …
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Reactions/Responses and Apologies:(LIVE) Episode
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We are discussing reactions and responding while communicating. What determines or triggers your responses and reactions. "Its too late to apologize." Is there such a thing? Apologizing vs Excuses. A multicultural married couple discuss, debate, and explore (and sometimes argue) topics on life, love, relationships, and family. Be sure to subscribe …
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"Spousal Support": Supporting your Spouse and their Ambitions, Dreams and Emotions.
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We are discussing support in relationships. Supporting your spouse's ambitions, dreams and emotions. The Kite & String/Rock Theory. Does your spouse saying " I feel this in my spirit" make you feel like you HAVE to support them even if you might not want to? Join us as we get the convo started! Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sha…
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INFIDELITY-(LIVE) EPISODE: Everybody cheats?
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In this episode we discuss: If all men/women cheat in some form? What is considered cheating? What aspects of infidelity makes it so egregious to you? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @Go…
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Ageism & Age Gaps in Relationships LIVE Epsisode
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In this episode we are discussing age gaps in relationships and ageism. Are men treated/judged differently as they age than women? Does the size of age gap matter in relationships? What are the challenges with age gaps? ****SPECIAL NOTE: We realize our audio from a few episodes are far from perfect. If you want an easier listen you can head over to…
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Interracial /Multicultural Relationship Challenges (LIVE) Episode
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In this episode we are discussing Interracial/ Multicultural Relationships: The challenges those relationships may face, Our ethnic backgrounds and challenges, Did you always date outside your ethnicity? and How does your family feel about your relationship? Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show…
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Pettiness in Relationships (LIVE) Episode: Who's the most petty in your relationship?
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In this episode we discuss pettiness in relationships. Who is the most petty in your relationship? Who is more petty, Men or Women? Does your pettiness have a limit? & more! Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT on your social media page! Need to ask a question? Find us on Facebook, In…
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BONUS (LIVE) EPISODE- VALENTINES SPECIAL- Is the romance/sex different?
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In this episode we will discuss Valentines Day- To celebrate or NOT to celebrate. Our stance on this. Questions for our audience: Is the romance/sex different for Valentines Day/ Expectations? We also cover the Topic Suggestion: How to respond when someone flirts with your spouse? Physical altercations and why E can't go to jail. ;P Be sure to subs…
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BONUS (LIVE) EPISODE- Money Matters & Sexual Dealings
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In this bonus live stream episode we discussed how to get your spouse to buy in on money matters and sexual dealings. Managing expectations, dealing with rejections and respecting each others boundaries. E asks for Gold Stars and a stripper pole? *slight audio difficulties- we are still ironing out the live stream wrinkles* Be sure to subscribe so …
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Expectations of Reciprocity in Relationships
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In this episode we discuss expectations of reciprocity in relationships. Should one just know to reciprocate what is given or does there need to be a conversation about expectations of the relationship. Do the expectations of reciprocity differ for other relationships compared to marriage/committed relationships? What happens when a relationship is…
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New Year Mindset & Mental Health (Don't Shake the Strawberries)
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In this episode we discuss new year mindsets. 2021 outlook, expectations and New Year Resolutions.. Mental health and our differing perspectives on counseling/therapy. -Choosing thoughts and feelings and Self-care Communicating your feelings while managing your response expectations. How to LUV. "Don't Shake the Strawberries!" and E sings. Be sure …
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Stay at Home Parent vs Provider - Who has the toughest job?
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In this episode we discuss societal perspectives, stigmas for stay at home parents vs the provider. Who has the toughest job? We share our experience with reversal of the roles. How do you show appreciation to the bread winner? How do you show appreciation to the stay at home parent? Gift giving and appreciation and the holidays. Be sure to subscri…
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In this episode we discuss, explore (and argue a little) about Privacy, Secrets and Lies in marriage. What is privacy in marriage. Is it privacy or is it secrecy? Secrets VS lies, Digital Device/ Cell Phone Privacy, E gets controversial. Mandy gets annoyed. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show,…
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Lost In Emotion - When talking is a challenge and listening is absent.
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In this episode we discuss: How emotions challenge communication. Being lost in emotions- Emotional Baggage both inside and outside the relationship. Triggers and blaming. Communication languages. Putting divorce on the table and Vulnerability. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WIT…
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Let's Talk About Sex: Battle of the Sexes- Sex on The Brain
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In this extension of L.T.A.S.: Battle of the Sexes- Sex on the Brain; we open up the discussion of how men and women think differently and how this process effects how we think about sex. We explore emotions, communication, and how the way a woman feels can can impact her sexuality. E gives advice. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode.…
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Let's Talk About Sex: Frequency- Why it changes after marriage.
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L.T.A.S. (Let's Talk About Sex); Frequency- Why it changes after marriage. In this episode we discuss the Taboo topic of how sex changes after marriage. The common reasons why a wife might look at sex with her husband as a chore. The different perspectives of men and women when it comes to sex frequency in a committed relationship and why it's impo…
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At Your Service: How do you serve your spouse?
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In this episode we discuss what it means to serve your spouse. How you serve your spouse. Do you feel appreciated or underappreciated how? How to tell your spouse how they can serve you. And as usual random karaoke. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS! Wanna have wo…
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In this episode we discuss; Anniversary Special: What is Marriage? Is it what you thought it would be? Familial and social influences on spousal roles. Our journey thus far. Advice for ourselves and others. Our motivation for the podcast. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Sharing is Caring! If you enjoy the show, SHARE IT WITH YOUR…
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What About Your Friends?: In this episode we discuss: What is a friend. If men or women make better friends. Does it matter if your spouse likes your friend(s). And some (no so) random karaoke. Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform! Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GonnaHa…
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Friendship in Marriage: Is your spouse your friend? Is it important to be friends in marriage?
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Friendship in Marriage: In this episode we discuss whether or not friendship is important in marriage. What if you realize you don't like your spouse? Can you build a friendship with your partner?Av Mandy and E-Dub
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In this episode we discuss a man's point of view of infidelity. What factors come into play when a man is processing. How men view emotional vs physical infidelity. Reasons why men cheat. Online feedback from the topic question for this episode, "Would you want to know the truth if your partner cheated if you otherwise wouldn't have suspected? Or w…
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Infidelity: What counts as cheating? Can a relationship Survive it?
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We discuss and explore some processes when dealing with infidelity. If/How a relationship might survive it. E checks me on "holding back" and we talk of a part II on the topic.Av Mandy and E-Dub
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Physical Upkeep and Appearance - We discuss the importance of keeping up with physical appearance in a relationship. Will you leave me, still love me if I gain weight? Is it a deal breaker?Av Mandy and E-Dub
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He Said, She Said - Communication Breakdown
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He Said She Said: What's said, what's heard, what's meant. We discuss common breakdowns in communication. How emotions effect how we listen and communicate effectively... or don't.Av Mandy and Edub
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