Relationship advice and exploration. Two experienced and passionate relationship therapists, Angela Dierks and Tom MacKay, talk about all aspects to do with building fulfilling relationships, dating and marriage advice. All successful relationships start with a good look at yourself. Learn more about your relationship style and what makes you tick in relationships - the good, the bad and the ugly. We explore challenges that you might face when dating or in your relationships such as argument ...
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Taming the Anger Beast: Managing Emotions in Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! Today, hosts Angela and Tom delve deep into the complex and often challenging emotion of anger, particularly within the context of relationships. They explore what anger is, when it can be healthy to express it, and strategies for managing it effectively. Whether you're th…
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The 3 Most Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! In today's episode, "Relationship Mistakes," hosts Tom and Angela dive into some of the most common pitfalls that couples face and provide insights on how to avoid them to create happier, more fulfilling relationships. Drawing from their extensive experience with couples t…
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The Relationship Maze: How to Improve Self Esteem and Enrich Your Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze! In this episode, hosts Angela and Tom dive deep into the complex topic of self-esteem. They explore the origins of self-esteem, including how early relational experiences shape our perception of ourselves. Angela and Tom discuss the impact of low self-esteem on different a…
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Coping with Loneliness: Strategies for Building Meaningful Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Do you sometimes find yourself feeling lonely or know someone who regularly experiences that deep, isolating feeling? Loneliness is a complex and challenging emotion that touches many of us at different points in life. Welcome back to The Relationship Maze, where we're here to untangle the intricate emotions in your relation…
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The Parent, Adult, Child, Model: Understanding Your Behaviour And Interactions
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to another engaging episode of "The Relationship Maze" podcast. In today’s discussion, Angela and Tom dive into the intriguing world of Transactional Analysis, particularly focusing on the Parent-Adult-Child model introduced by Eric Berne. This model helps us understand the dynamics of our communications and interact…
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Emotional Avoidance - How to Create More Connection With Others
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast. In this episode, we delve into the complexities of experiential avoidance, a common psychological phenomenon where individuals steer clear of situations that evoke negative emotions. Hosts Tom and Angela explore the underlying fears that drive this behaviour, such as the worry that a…
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The Inner Film: Exploring the Role of Projection in Shaping Relationship Experiences
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Send us a Text Message. In today's episode of The Relationship Maze, we explore the concept of projection and its impact on relationships. Join Tom and Angela as they delve into the fascinating topic of projection, shedding light on how our past experiences shape our perceptions of others. They discuss how projection can influence our attraction to…
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The Inner Critic: Understanding Its Influence and Developing a Kind and Supportive Inner Voice
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to a new episode of "The Relationship Maze" where we dive into the complexities of your critical, inner voice and the impact it has on our relationships. In this episode, Tom and Angela explore the role of the inner critic, discussing why it might have developed, its effects on your life and ways to manage it for a m…
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Which Developmental Stage Are You At In Your Relationship?
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "The Relationship Maze," Tom and Angela dive into the different developmental stages of relationships, exploring the model developed by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson from the Couples Institute. Drawing parallels with early childhood development, they discuss the stages of adult relationships: symbiosis, di…
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Navigating Dating Challenges: The Issue of Ghosting and Early Rejection in Online Dating
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to another insightful episode of The Relationship Maze. In today's episode Tom and Angela dive into the challenges of online dating, particularly the phenomenon of ghosting. They discuss the impact of being ghosted, potential reasons for ghosting, and offer valuable insights into maintaining a positive attitude and h…
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Navigating Relationship Warning Signs: Identifying Red Flags and Yellow Flags
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Send us a Text Message. In today's episode of The Relationship Maze, Tom and Angela delve into the world of warning signs in relationships, focusing on both early and later indicators of potential problems. They discuss the yellow flags that may indicate areas of concern in a relationship, such as inconsistent attention, dismissive behaviour, lack …
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Storm Forecasting: 8 Warning Signals in a New or Existing Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to today's episode of "The Relationship Maze." In this episode hosts Tom and Angela delve into the early warning indicators of potentially problematic relationships. They discuss warning signs such as physical and emotional abuse, gaslighting, love bombing, excessive jealousy, boundary violations, and substance abuse…
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The Anatomy of Love: How Do You Know If You Truly Love Someone
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "The Relationship Maze," hosts Tom and Angela dive into the complex question of how to know if you truly love someone. They explore the different stages and dynamics of love in relationships, including the early passionate phase, the role of attraction, the challenges of unconditional love, and the importa…
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Understanding and Overcoming Conflict in Relationships: Strategies for Deeper Connection
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "The Relationship Maze" podcast, Tom and Angela delve into the complex topic of arguments and conflict in relationships. They discuss the inevitability of disagreements between partners and emphasize the importance of understanding and effectively managing arguments. The hosts provide valuable insights int…
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Annoying Habits in Relationships: 10 Behaviours You Might Be Guilty Of
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast! Today, we're diving into the 10 most annoying habits that partners have, and exploring what it means for your relationship. Tom and Angela discuss common grievances that can become major frustrations and provide insights on how to address these annoyances and create a more harmonious…
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Love and Power Dynamics in ‘Succession's’ Dysfunctional Family Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast where we delve into the complexities of human relationships. In today's episode hosts Tom and Angela explore the intriguing characters and family dynamics in the popular series "Succession." They delve into the complexities of the relationships depicted in the show and draw parallels …
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Embracing Emotional Healing: Understanding Wounds and Rebuilding Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of The Relationship Maze, Tom and Angela delve into the topic of healing from emotional wounds. They draw parallels between the physiological process of healing a wound and the emotional healing process. They emphasize the importance of awareness and understanding the cause of emotional wounds as the first st…
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Setbacks and Growth: How to Overcome Adversity and Thrive in the Face of Challenges
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "The Relationship Maze," hosts Tom and Angela delve into the topic of setbacks. They explore the different types of setbacks, how they affect us emotionally, and the importance of learning from them. By sharing personal experiences and examples, they discuss the impact of setbacks on various aspects of lif…
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Christmas Without the Klaus: Navigating Family Dynamics and Managing Stress During the Holidays
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "The Relationship Maze," Tom and Angela delve into the complexities of Christmas celebrations and the strains it can place on our relationships. From managing family dynamics to handling the chaos of parenting during the festive season, they discuss the various stressors that can lead to arguments and disa…
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Honesty Matters: Navigating Truth in Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze, where we navigate the complexities of human connection. In today's episode, titled "Being honest in relationship," hosts Tom and Angela delve into the vital role of honesty and open communication in fostering healthy and authentic relationships. They discuss the implications of setting clear…
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The Challenges of Honest Emotional Expression in Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze, the podcast that helps you navigate the twists and turns of love and connection. In today's episode, "Expressing Emotions," hosts Tom and Angela delve into the intricacies of communicating feelings in relationships. Do you frequently express anger but struggle with letting your partner know …
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Unveiling the Hidden: Understanding the Impact of the Shadow in Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where we delve into the intriguing concept of the shadow. Join Tom and Angela as they explore how our hidden, repressed aspects known as the shadow can impact our relationships. Drawing from the teachings of Carl Jung, they discuss how the persona we present to the world h…
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From Swiping to Soulmates: The Potential and Pitfalls of Dating Apps in Today's Society
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! In today's episode Tom and Angela discuss the ever-popular world of dating apps and how attitudes towards them have evolved over the years. They de…
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The Impact of Perspectives: How to Gain Insight and Improve Communication in Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to The Relationship Maze podcast. In this episode, Tom and Angela explore the importance of acknowledging different perspectives in relationships. We discuss the challenges of taking on someon…
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Beyond Gut Feelings: Discovering the Power of Interoception to Understand Yourself Better
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze! In today's exploration, we delve into the concept of interoception and its impact on our lives. Hosted by Tom and Angela, this episode explores our experiences of the world through our internal (biological) sensations and how these can affect us profoundly psychologically,…
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Limerence: When Fantasy Takes Over Reality in Matters of the Heart
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to a new episode of The Relationship Maze, where we delve into the complexities of human relationships. In this episode, we tackle the intriguing concept of limerence. We explore the intense a…
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How Anxiety Can Sabotage Relationships: Not Being Able To Assert Yourself
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze, the podcast where we navigate the complexities of relationships. In today's episode, titled "Anxiety and Communication," our hosts, Tom and Angela, delve into the impact of anxiety on effective communication and the potential barriers it can create in building meaningful connections. We disc…
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The Tensions and Triumphs of Couples Therapy: The Good, the Bad, and the Watchable
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to The Relationship Maze, the podcast that explores the intricacies of navigating relationships. In today's episode your hosts Tom and Angela discuss the appeal of the popular TV show Couples Therapy which is currently in its third season and available for viewing on BBC iPlayer in the UK. In the show highly experien…
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How Parenting Styles Affects You and Your Children
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of The Relationship Maze, hosts Tom and Angela delve into the topic of parenting styles. They discuss the consequences and effects of overly permissive or rigid parenting, drawing from their own experiences and the challenges faced by couples in therapy. Tom and Angela explore the importance of finding a bala…
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Building Trust: Recognizing the Signs of Commitment
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to today's episode of The Relationship Maze, where Tom and Angela dive deep into the concept of trust. In this episode, they discuss the challenges of establishing trust in the early stages of…
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The Key to Emotional and Psychological Well-being
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze. In today's episode, Tom and Angela delve into the topic of emotional and psychological health. They explore what it means to be emotionally and psy…
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7 Ways to Not Communicate With Each Other
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to another episode of The Relationship Maze with your hosts, Tom and Angela! We're excited to bring you insights and helpful tips on navigating the complex world of relationships. In this epis…
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. In today’s episode we discuss the indicators that show you that you are in a relationship with a partner who you can build a mature and healthy relationship with. Struggling with a lot of conflict and…
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When Your Partner’s Parents Are Too Present In Your Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the challenges you might be presented with if you experienc…
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Dealing With Your Inner Critic - Interview with Julia Bueno
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Today we are speaking with psychotherapist and author Julia Bueno. We will be discussing the important and challenging area of dealing with your inner critic. Julia Bueno is a qualified, experienced, …
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Why do you get attracted to the wrong people?
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the topic of getting attracted to the wrong people. Have yo…
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When Dividing Chores Becomes the Biggest Chore in Your Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the important topic of dividing chores in your relationship…
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Are You And Your Partner Too Enmeshed With Each Other?
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of the Relationship Maze podcast, we'll be exploring the topic of enmeshment in relationships. Enmeshment is a common dynamic in relationships where individuals become overly involved in each other's lives, to the point where they lose their individual identities and personal boundaries. This can lead to a ra…
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Interview with Dr Steven C. Hayes - Developing More Psychological Flexibility
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Send us a Text Message. Find out about our comprehensive course to help you create fulfilling relationships on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we are talking with Dr Steven C. Hayes, the originator of Acceptance and…
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Whose Disorder Is It Anyway? - The Merits and Pitfalls of Having a Mental Health Diagnosis
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of the human experience. In today's episode we talk about the advantages and disadvantages of having a mental health diagnosis. In daily language many people refer to themselves or others as having a personality disorder - often very serious presenta…
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of the human experience. In today's episode, we'll be discussing the topic of loneliness, a universal human experience that affects millions of people around the world. Loneliness is one of the hardest experiences one can have; as human beings we are…
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7 Signs Your Relationship Is Working Well
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Send us a Text Message. Find out about our comprehensive course to help you create fulfilling relationships on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing seven signs that your relationship is working. Relat…
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7 Warning Signs to Look Out For In Your Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we navigate the twists and turns of modern relationships. In today's episode, we'll be discussing seven signs that your relationship may be in difficulty. Relationships are at times complex and challenging, and it's not always easy to notice when troublesome patterns set in and…
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Clap Along If You Feel Like Happiness Is The Truth - The Fallacy Of Happiness
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Send us a Text Message. Find out about our comprehensive course to help you create fulfilling relationships on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the many facets of human emotion. In today's episode, we'll be exploring the elusive concept of happiness. Everyone wants it but what …
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Social Anxiety And How To Stop Avoiding It
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we delve into the complexities of the human experience. In today's episode, we'll be exploring the topic of social anxiety, a condition that affects mil…
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Jealousy - How To Deal With The Green Eyed Monster
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Send us a Text Message. What is your argument style? Find out in our short quiz. You can find a link on our website: https://therelationshipmaze.com. Welcome to the Relationship Maze podcast, where we explore the complexities of human relationships. In today's episode, we'll be diving into the topic of jealousy and how it affects relationships. Jea…
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There's No Shame in Feeling Shame - Healthy and Toxic Shame
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Send us a Text Message. In today's episode we talk about shame. Shame can be one of the most difficult feelings we can experience as it goes to the core of our notion of self. Talking about something that we experience as shameful makes us feel intensely vulnerable and exposed. We can experience shame as an attack on our core self. We distinguish b…
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What A Feeling - Managing Troublesome Emotions
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Send us a Text Message. In today's episode we talk about feelings and emotions. As therapists we always encourage our clients to express their feelings and emotions. We discuss why it matters to get in touch with your feelings and emotions. Our emotions represent our lived experience and they are personal to us. Getting in touch with our feelings a…
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The Most Common Dating Mistakes - In Conversation with Dr Katherine Bejanyan
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Send us a Text Message. In today's episode we are in conversation with dating and relationship expert Dr Kathrine Bejanyan. According to research, nearly half of US adults say dating has gotten harder for most people in the last 10 years. This has caused more than half of young people in America not to have a romantic partner, and the majority of t…
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Bullying - Why People Bully, How It Impacts and How to Manage It
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Send us a Text Message. If you have ever experienced bullying, at school, in your workplace or in your relationship(s), you know how devastating it can be. Bulling is often defined as one person intentionally and consistently causing emotional or physical harm to another person. We would like to expand this definition by also including behaviour th…
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