I missed you so much. What to expect in this episodes: Updates on me and how I pulled through from a deep depressive episode that took place a few days ago.

Long time no new podcast episodes from me. I've been going through many changes in my life. Stay tuned for more.

Has social media and texting made some of us lose the skill of talking on the phone? I wonder about this whenever a guy is hesitant after I suggest a phone call first before meeting in person. I would think it's more nerve wracking to meet someone in person because it's up close and personal. If you have food stuck in your teeth, they will see it a…

You would think this is a close ended question; it isn't!! I assume people were to going to say "no" to this podcast question, but never assume because people will always surprise you. What do you think and what are your reasons?

To be clear, I did not sleep with a millionaire, but my guest did. Also, I ask what it's like dating in college while so many dating apps exist. When I was in college, dating apps weren't a thing. I relied on the student body as my resource for dates. Things have changed with dating apps and social media rampant in everyone's phones. Ellie and I ta…

Let's not be afraid of failure or rejection. We should embrace them because they're part of life's growing pains. When we embrace them, we can push ourselves to take risks. This goes for dating as well as other endeavors. Take a listen and hope you apply some, if not, all of my tips to your dating life.…

Lurking in the midst of dick pic senders, shy guys and the occasional genuine men, there are the desperate ones whom I call the rush hour daters. Who are they? If I told you now, you wouldn't listen to this episode. Duh?! I bet you came across these people from time to time. They are harmless, but they may ask you some intrusive questions. EEK!…

Before you went out with a "friend" or "co-worker" for coffee or dinner, have you wonder if this was more than just a get-together like a D-A-T-E? Does this so-called coffee have to be considered a date or a hangout? Sometimes it's good to know and sometimes its best to leave it up in the air. I'm joined with my friend, Luna to tackle such conundru…

I'm not assuming that any of you don't know these terms. Everyone's sex knowledge will vary from person to person. For those, who stick to the old school method of missionary, and never heard of anything else, well, what I'm about to tell you will shock you. I guess people do these. Honestly, I don't know if they exist. Enjoy the show. Love, LJ…

Happy New Year! It's that time of year where people make resolutions and then fail miserably in just a few weeks. But this year, that's all going to change. I have some tips and tricks to achieve your new year's resolutions. Don't let them intimidate you this year. You will accomplish your resolution in 2019.…

Lately, I pay attention to a man's ring finger to see if there's ring on it. If they're cute and attractive, I ask myself, "Can I not only hit that, and marry him too?" HAHA. The thirst is real. I don't just mean that in a horny way, but in a I-Want-To-Have-Kids and Be-Married kind of way.

To all the men who think crying is for women, it's not. It's a natural human reaction. When you feel like crying just let it go, it's okay. If people think of less of you, then they're insecure and shit. I think a man, who can cry in front of people, is hot. Holla at ya girl. LOL :)

As you know, I don't use real names. This particular person's name is Neal, wink, wink. I have decided to stop online dating. Neal is one of out of three dudes I last met there. Sigh...well, it takes two to tango. I'm not blaming him. I don't like people who can't or won't initiate a conversation. What's also featured here are your answers to "What…

I went to the Foster the People concert on Monday. It was an awesome show. It's a standing room only venue, which sucks because there's no assign seating. I'm a shawty so that's my disadvantage. Oh well. Regardless, I was able to enjoy Mark Foster perform, but didn't see the rest of band since I was standing along the side. Check out what happened …

Last few days have been entertaining from a dude I met at the gym. His approach was successful and earned my phone number. Though he could have done better, it was enough to give my digits to him. What do you think? How would you approach someone at the gym? Later on, I discovered he's a meathead. Oh boy... (Created on 8/30/18. Release Date: 9/4/18…

Fortunately, I don't think I'm fat nor do I hate myself. It all started in my pre-teens. Growing up is hard in general. Thinking about my weight was not fun. I'm still a little conscious, but in a healthy way where I keep myself in check to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Some of that negative thinking creeps up once in awhile and I have to find ways…

Human beings have many sides to them. We're funny, serious, creative sexual, etc. I have all those sides. I have dedicated IG for Lady Jig that celebrates my sensual side. People who are open to that kind of thing like my IG or don't mind it. Unfortunately, there are those who think my pictures are "dirty" and think I "pose like a prostitute." HAHA…

This episodes focuses on two different attempts of men approaching me: one successful, one failed. This was fun dissecting their every move.I'm not going to describe them here because it's best to listen to my sweet voice as a I reiterate. LOL.Let me know on how you would correct their approaches. Text me via Google Voice number at (415) 320-8375. …

Dear Wonderful Listeners, If you love my podcast, you can now support me by contributing a small, monthly donation. Your contribution will sustain my podcast and will enable me to create more episodes. To start, go to anchor.fm/ladyjig/support. It's quick and easy. You can cancel any time. Thank you for tuning in and for sharing your stories with m…

As I'm working on two major upcoming episodes, I decided to create and release a less daunting segment on my Solo Night Out (7th Time): How to NOT Approach a Cutie/ Parking Lot Hollerer. What is a parking lot hollerer? It's a nickname I've given to a dude, who try to holler at me at the parking lot of a bar. He failed. This episode can go hand-in-h…

I'm not talking about the hair on their head. I'm speaking of the lower regions because that's what we really care about. Am I right, people? A lot of folks I conversed with wanted their partner to maintain the clean look, which I get because no one wants a mouthful of pubes. "Not I," said the pussy eater. "Not I," said the dick sucker. This episod…

I LOVE TO DANCE, but I don't guys wanting to take me home. I guess that's what's expected in the club culture. It's a meat market. Next time, I should bring a date or a friend so no one hassles me. In this episode, I feature four dudes. Three were trying to holler at me. One was almost victorious because I was falling for his charm, not because was…

Talking to cute strangers is scary. Why would you put yourself in that situation? Because you're bold and don't give a shit. But still it's nerve wracking. This person could reject you. That's always a possibility. You go out there swinging and you might hit a home run.

If I'm interested in a guy, I don't mind calling him. If he doesn't answer, or calls back, we'll too bad for him. LOL. Although I'm brave to give a guy a ring, I'm not going to continuously call or text him until he picks up. I do have a life and so does he. Dating is a small part of my life, not my whole life.…

Instead of talking about something light and fun, I share about something my mom told me and it shook me a bit.

I guess this is becoming a regular segment where I club by myself. Independence is wondrous. Also, this segment is coming out a week late. Oh well...life happens and episodes are produced later.

Dating is so complicated. What complicates things are people's varying definitions on what dating entails. Listen to my podcast if you agree or disagree with my own definition.

Your significant other says to you on a Friday night, "Babe I'm going out with the homies/homegirls out to the club." You say, "Have fun, be safe." Congratulations, y'all don't have to be with each 24/7. You can be each other's person. LOL. But how would you feel about your partner grinding on someone on the dance floor? Would you be jelly or would…

Need to talk about relationship issues? Need advice on dating? Call me or text me. It's a google number. I may respond to you and add you to my podcast segment. If you want to keep it private, let me know.

Here's another segment on solo night out. I had fun, for sure. My favorite part is chatting it up with fellow club goer who is pursuing her certification in Medical Assistant. I love meeting people and learning what their about. It's important to connect with another in that level. And also I met I dude that I end spending my whole night with...…

Hitting on someone takes a lot of guts. Hitting on someone in front of your parents takes a lot of guts plus cajones. "A" for effort on this guy that hollared at your girl, quite literally. Sigh. Hey, how else are you gonna meet ppl?

I'm ready to be single, seriously, I mean it. I did say that before, but this time I mean business. I want to be by myself. I actually don't have this need to text a dude or start swiping on my dating app. I deleted dating apps from my smartphone, y'all!!!

...know what you want and how much effort you're willing to put in. If you can't put in any effort, why date in the first place?

Here's another one to add to my collection of episodes dedicated to my solo nights out. No shame, y'all. This particular features: The Students, The Chiropractors and the Confident Guy. Bonus: I'll talk about the latest trend in how men "stealthy" get into the position of freaking a girl in dance floor. Ridiculous. I don't know where guys get this …

Oooh...this is a hot topic. I hate when people group me into a category, in this case, ethnicity, of they know nothing about. Who the fuck are you to place me as Pacific Islander? This person is not even Asian, Pacific Islander or Filipino. It's fine if other Filipino want to identify as that, but I identify myself as Asian.…

Upon reading the title of this segment, y'all probably think I mean ass biatch. What's wrong asking that? I don't blame you for thinking that. This person has succumb to ask the other person whether he or she has questions. I only hear when a potential employer is interviewing me.

Does this person have kids? This may sound too personal, but suppose you don't want kids and you continue to develop a relationship with this person. What are their interests? Can you support them? In loving relationship, you want to support your partner's goals. If it turns this person likes to hunt for sport, are you able to get behind that?…

Congrats you achieved a first date. For some people, scoring a first date can be hard. All that subtle flirting have come into fruition for fuck sakes. So remember: Don't talk about your exes and sex. Geez. Tune in to hear other advice from my friends.

Exploring sex/gender identities

Sometimes I reveal to the men I'm going on a date with that I have podcast on love, sex and dating, but I don't tell them how they can access to it. I don't want them to get to know me through my podcast. I rather have them get to know me in person.

I did not deserve to be deleted. I have seen other people's profiles that are worse than mine with nude pictures. My pics are sexually playful, not overtly sexual. Whatever. First world problem.

I love dancing so much that I've gone to the club by myself. I feel so cool doing it. But it's always nice to have a good group of friends to be with as well. Anyway, here are some tips from yours truly.

One of online dating benefits is also a negative: having an almost infinite number of single people at the palm of your hand. It's good because we get to interact and sometimes meet individuals we would never have come across, but at the same time we may not take the time to get to know someone because we think someone better is on our dating app.…

This is no joke. Someone emailed me and asked if I would sell my worn panties. I was grossed out, but this wasn't the first time I heard of selling used women's underwear. Ebay has an adult marketplace and yes they sell worn underwear and socks. Gross.

This is sort of a follow up from a previous episode titled "Going to a Club By Myself Signifies Independence." I actually did it. I went with me, myself and I and I had a great time dancing with strangers. I would do it again. Stay tune on tips on how to stay safe when clubbing alone. Also, I learned I attract 23 years olds. Yay me. Thumbs up. Haha…

Enjoying my day off and not rushing to work. Feels good to chill. Also, I love to go to the movies by myself. I know random. But hey, single life plus at least to me, not having to plan with someone.

I don't want to rely on having a date to take me to the club. I'll take myself, thank you. To me being independent means not relying on other people. I'm not saying we can't ask for help or hang out with friends, but there are times we need to discover how we can help ourselves. If I have the urge to go dancing, I just want to take myself.…

I Like This Guy, But I'm About to End It For This Reason

Procrastination Is Not A Good Reason He's Not Texting You • Procrastination Is Not A Good Reason He's Not Texting You

Actions do speak louder than words when there's meaning behind them. Some actions don't mean anything unless you define them.