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How do you know when it’s time to make your next big career move? With International Women’s Day around the corner, we are excited to feature Avni Patel Thompson, Founder and CEO of Milo. Avni is building technology that directly supports the often overlooked emotional and logistical labor that falls on parents—especially women. Milo is an AI assistant designed to help families manage that invisible load more efficiently. In this episode, Avni shares her journey from studying chemistry to holding leadership roles at global brands like Adidas and Starbucks, to launching her own ventures. She discusses how she approaches career transitions, the importance of unpleasant experiences, and why she’s focused on making everyday life easier for parents. [01:26] Avni's University Days and Early Career [04:36] Non-Linear Career Paths [05:16] Pursuing Steep Learning Curves [11:51] Entrepreneurship and Safety Nets [15:22] Lived Experiences and Milo [19:55] Avni’s In Her Ellement Moment [20:03] Reflections Links: Avni Patel Thompson on LinkedIn Suchi Srinivasan on LinkedIn Kamila Rakhimova on LinkedIn Ipsos report on the future of parenting About In Her Ellement: In Her Ellement highlights the women and allies leading the charge in digital, business, and technology innovation. Through engaging conversations, the podcast explores their journeys—celebrating successes and acknowledging the balance between work and family. Most importantly, it asks: when was the moment you realized you hadn’t just arrived—you were truly in your element? About The Hosts: Suchi Srinivasan is an expert in AI and digital transformation. Originally from India, her career includes roles at trailblazing organizations like Bell Labs and Microsoft. In 2011, she co-founded the Cleanweb Hackathon, a global initiative driving IT-powered climate solutions with over 10,000 members across 25+ countries. She also advises Women in Cloud, aiming to create $1B in economic opportunities for women entrepreneurs by 2030. Kamila Rakhimova is a fintech leader whose journey took her from Tajikistan to the U.S., where she built a career on her own terms. Leveraging her English proficiency and international relations expertise, she discovered the power of microfinance and moved to the U.S., eventually leading Amazon's Alexa Fund to support underrepresented founders. Subscribe to In Her Ellement on your podcast app of choice to hear meaningful conversations with women in digital, business, and technology.…
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Hello and welcome to the Poly Pocket Podcast. A pocket sized podcast for your polyamorous, CNM, open relationship or swinging journey. In this show we will be discussing adult themes (just in case you weren’t sure) and it is intended for over 18’s. Each episode is meant to be pocket sized and fit in to your busy life whilst giving you the tools and information on our broader community. We are 'Hunter' & 'Butcher', a married UK based couple, with children and an ongoing interest in supporting and developing the 'Poly' community.
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Hello and welcome to the Poly Pocket Podcast. A pocket sized podcast for your polyamorous, CNM, open relationship or swinging journey. In this show we will be discussing adult themes (just in case you weren’t sure) and it is intended for over 18’s. Each episode is meant to be pocket sized and fit in to your busy life whilst giving you the tools and information on our broader community. We are 'Hunter' & 'Butcher', a married UK based couple, with children and an ongoing interest in supporting and developing the 'Poly' community.
Well... What a journey we've all been on for the past 100 episodes. In case you haven't listened to all of them, we've tried to sum up the core thinking behind this podcast into a single episode for you. (If you have listened to the previous 99, then this is just some light revision, GCSE style) Thank you as always for your support. We will be taking a few weeks off to plan for what we're euphemistically calling 'Season 2' and will be back in the summer. In the meantime, we'll be posting what we get up to via Instagram @poly_pocket_show and you can e-mail any ideas for the show to hunter@polypocketpodcast.com or ask Butcher on a date at butcher@polypocketpodcast.com For now though, keep us and your protection, in your pocket 💚 H & B x…
This weeks episode did not go to plan... So we've had to panic record a quick update (and an apology) and we'll be back on track for Episode 100 next week. As always, send us your feedback, ideas and advice to hunter@polypocketpodcast.com Link in bio 💚
This CNM journey can be a rocky one and in this episode we took a closer look at why people would pause from it. The focus was mainly supposed to be swinging but it’s us so there are natural intersections and free flowing conversations that goes across a spectrum of CNM practices! Link in the bio ❤️
There were a lot of feelings and emotions going around with this particular episode. Butcher got angry, Hunter talked her down 🤣 Guess when you’re debating feelings and their place within ENM, polyamory and swinging it really does get people going! Link in the bio! #feelings #feelingsquotes #feeling #emotions #emotionalintelligence #emotionsmatter #poly #polyamorous #polywise #polyamorousrelationship #polyamory #enm #cnm…
Going to put it out there - Butcher was not well when we recorded this so we hope it makes sense and somewhat entertaining. We will at some point dig deeper into this topic considering all types of partners but for now we wanted to focus on the anchor partner comms! Let us know your thoughts! Link in the bio ❤️…
In this episode we discuss the art of managing the de-escalation of relationships when you’re polyamorous and the potential reasons why you might do this. It still surprises us how difficult break-ups in changes to dynamics (especially if you’re effectively going back on something) can be. In this episode we try and unpick this whilst also asking for kindness and grace when dealing with others heads and hearts. Have a listen and as always, let us know what you think! Link in the bio ❤️…
An insightful conversation with the brains behind PolyamoryUK. This dream team - James and Jo are living their fullest, authentic poly lives and were absolutely here for it! We touched on so many things but fundamentally we discussed how Polyamory works here in Great Britain. The pros and cons. These two need to come back on again soon and we’re looking forward to future collaboration on a number of projects with these fabulous individuals!…
So here it is - the review of Le Boudoir. With two experiences of different nights under our belts (so to speak) we thought we’d do a little review. Find out more about our thoughts of the venue, the staff and more!
This one was a great topic to get our teeth into. Jealousy is such a hot topic in the circles we move in from poly connections through to monogamous people seeking to understand the dynamic. This was supported by a recent trip to LB last week and the events that unfolded (all good but because of the work and conversations we’ve had surrounding it!) Ultimately though, we wanted to get to the root cause. The THING that sets off this interesting and complex emotional state! There’s still so much left to say on this but it’s a good start (hopefully!) Listen to our latest episode to learn more! H&B 💚…
Myself and Ms Captain recorded this session aggggggggeeeeessss ago! She is the most wonderful, authentic, insightful soul and this is evident in the discussion around foods to use with sensual experiences… Be it with two, three, four or more! Thank you so much for your time Ms C and giving the listeners something “spicy” on Valentine’s Day! ❤️…
Episode 90 was a deep and meaningful discussion about the dark fears that come along for the ride when you’re on the journey from monogamy through to polyamory. What is it that truly scares you and why. Why is it that a lot of the time we don’t know what it truly is or we can’t say so we project our fears on to our anchor partners meaning that’s our fears inevitably “come true.” Finally what does this means for your existing relationship(s) and can there ever be a way out or forward from this?… Join us on the discussion… H & B 💚…
Is this lifestyle and our relationship constructs just one big fantasy? And is that OK? In this episode and debate this at length and for once POTENTIALLY land on some sort of resounding answer! It does happen every so often! 🤣
A deep and raw chat about if opening up is for everyone, who should possibly avoid it and if you really want it, what work needs to be done! We also discuss at length if there are different levels people can open to based on the conditioning and willingness to break out of these cycles. It’s an endless topic… possibly without any real answers but we hope you enjoy and take away as much from it as we gained by having this talk!…
This one was a toughie… A lot of our regrets come from not seizing the moment more than the fallout of situations because from these experiences we have grown… So join us on our meandering, heartfelt, conversation of living and life to the full!
This was an interesting conversation where by we discussed how many new to poly, swing, CNM, ENM all go through this to some level. It easily done and who doesn’t love the feeling of being a kid in a sweet shop? 🍬 But we’re all adults and we all know that we can all have too much of a good thing before it becomes bad for us… that said we all have different levels of tolerance before it all becomes too much so hats off to those who can catch ‘em all without collateral damage… what’s your secret? 🤫 H & B…
This week Butcher returns from France, Hunter eats some food and we review the Channel 4 series ' The Couple Next Door ' and discuss whether the experience of the participants in this drama is relatable to the community (whilst keeping a straight face). We also spend some time talking about how the English language has insufficient words for us to express how we feel and that the conflation of feelings around the word 'Jealousy' can be misunderstood. As we wrap up we talk about the importance of arse holes and how they relate to motivational speaking - Watch the Tim Minchin video here Finally we bring the latest on the David Haye throuple which seems to be irritating Hunter with its salacious coverage here…
Hope you've had a great holiday break... We are back with the sparkle of holiday cheer still lingering, spinning tales of sneaky gift-giving and sharing how our extended love networks bolster our spirits. And in this sprit we are making plans for 2024 and establishing what our new years resolutions are. Navigating our unique landscapes, we've learned the art of balancing the day-to-day vanilla with the spice of our lifestyle—valuing heartfelt communication and solid boundaries. In moments of vulnerability, we've stumbled upon strength, transforming jealousy and fear into deeper intimacy and faster resilience. We've seen growth, both in ourselves and in our relationships, and with the new year on the horizon, we're setting structured goals, seeking equilibrium, and exploring the potential of coaching others along their non-traditional paths. Delving into therapy with a poly-friendly therapist, we're embracing the lessons these experiences have brought us. Lots to unpack (along with an unhealthy amount of Harry Potter) so join us as we kick off 2024 in the most appropriately inappropriate way we can! H & B x…
Ever found yourself floating on cloud nine after a date that just clicked? That's where our journey begins this episode, as we recount a year swept up in the highs of connection and the lows of navigating the intricate dance of polyamorous relationships. We talk about a year crammed with personal breakthroughs, from the electric spark of a first KK party anniversary to intimate ventures abroad that tested our independence and resolve. Imagine stepping off a plane in France, heart pounding with the thrill of solo travel, or the quiet pride of shaping a birthday bash into a celebration of lifestyle friendships. That's the stuff of our real, lived experiences this year. Hunter shares the depths of his romantic evening with Lady V, a testament to the emotional bonds that can bloom in the world of non-monogamy. We pull back the curtain on our adventures and misadventures, revealing the flesh-and-blood moments that have stretched and strengthened us, from navigating club dynamics without an anchor partner to the misunderstandings that can turn into belly laughs—or lessons learned. With the map of our journey unfurled, we look back at the encounters and milestones that have marked our podcasting (real life) voyage. We acknowledge our listeners across 69 countries who've joined us in the revealing dance of polyamory. As we cast our eyes to the horizon, considering the year ahead, we invite you to lend your voice, sharing your experiences and ideas as we continue to craft a narrative that's as complex, joyful, and authentic as the lives we lead. Also, Merry Christmas 😁 H & B x…
Imagine opening your heart and life to more than one person — sounds exciting, right? As thrilling as it might be, polyamory is a complex lifestyle that often requires navigating uncharted waters. Join us, Hunter and Butcher, on the Poly Pocket Podcast, as we unpack our experiences and lessons learned in polyamorous relationships, beginning with a candid chat about our recent date with a like-minded couple. We use this experience to explore how open communication is instrumental in recognising gut feelings and red flags, not just within the swinging community but in polyamory as a whole. Now, think about how much does one share in a poly relationship? We bring in our thoughts on sharing information, where we vouch for transparency that provides general details without oversharing. As we walk you through a situation where a coffee date turned unexpectedly intimate, we underscore the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining communication, which are the bedrock of trust in a polyamorous setup. Pivoting to rules and boundaries, we delve into our personal experiences to highlight how these guide our relationships. But what's the difference between rules and boundaries? We (fail to) clarify this often confusing aspect, whilst trying to emphasise the value of consent when sharing personal information. As we conclude this conversation, we take a moment to reflect on the purpose of our podcast, hoping to serve as a beacon for those navigating similar paths. In the end, whether it's discussing STIs and pregnancies or seeking approval from involved parties, everything loops back to the most crucial component — effective communication. So, whether you're already in a polyamorous relationship or contemplating it, let's learn, grow, and navigate together! H&B x…
Have you ever felt the sting of disappointment in a sexual encounter? Did you feel that it was up to you to make the other person feel better? Definitely tricky ground and women are often expected to play carer in this situation. We discuss the impact this can have and what can be done to reduce the impact on someones confidence both in themselves and in their sexual counterparts. With a pinch of humor and a dose of reality, we chat about the roller-coaster ride that is the world of relationships. From the intricacies of male sexual performance and its impact on women to the tricky navigation of guilt and disappointment, we've got it all. Think it's only about being in the mood for a good romp? Well, think again. Our candid discussion on male sexual performance might just change the way you view this topic. We shed light on how a lack of male sexual response can affect women, emphasizing that it's not always about both parties wanting to engage in sexual activity. It's about understanding the multitude of factors at play, and finding that elusive balance in caring for everyone's feelings. We also dive headfirst into the murky waters of disappointment and guilt in relationships. Ever been the collateral damage of someone else's issues? We certainly have, and we share these personal tales with you, highlighting the importance of taking ownership of our actions. We also talk (again) about football 🙄 H & B x…
Have you ever wondered how a global pandemic would affect your sex life? Join us, Hunter and Butcher, as we venture down the path of polyamory in the time of COVID-19, sharing our personal experiences and exploring the shifts in sexual dynamics. We dive deep into the ups and downs of managing relationship changes during a unique time in society. As we navigate these turbulent waters, you'll gain an understanding of how COVID has (potentially) shaped the non-monogamous community. We tackle the tough subjects about the rise in alternative relationships, the risks of suppressing desires, and how a global health crisis can trigger an increased sexual activity. By the end of this episode, we will have considered a new perspective about the evolution of relationships within the lifestyle community and how it has adapted to a new normal caused by the pandemic. H & B x…
Are you feeling drained, stretched thin, or like your energy is being constantly siphoned off in your relationships? Your rescue is here... Maybe 🤔 Listen in as we navigate the intricate dance of safeguarding personal energy, especially in polyamory. We discuss the significance of having allies in this community - those who exhibit empathy and balance and don't allow their kindness to turn them into pushovers. We bet you've heard about how the world divides into introverts and extroverts, but have you ever stopped to think about how these tendencies affect your energy pool? We draw on personal experiences, opening up about how we recognise when our energy reserves are in the red and what we do to replenish them. We expand on how to identify triggers and dodge our personal energy-draining vibes, ultimately maintaining a healthy energy level and mindset. Finally, we tackle the art of protecting and managing your energy. We share our thoughts on setting boundaries, spotting energy leeches, and taking the necessary steps to alter our circumstances. We discuss a completely non-existent flowchart to illustrate the thought process, we underscore the paramount importance of self-care and conserving our energy. Pressing play on this episode will arm you with valuable insights on how to handle your energy levels day in, day out, ensuring you're not just surviving, but (hopefully) thriving. Make it so! H & B x…
This week we review the Killing Kittens Birthday Ball. Happy 18th KK! Our journey begins with the anticipation leading up to the event, and culminates with the night's unforgettable experiences. We share our stories, from pre-party chats to navigating the charged atmosphere of the party. We caught up with old friends and had unexpected (and exciting) encounters with new ones. We danced, we played and we managed to relocate our underwear (never taking that for granted)! Join us once again for the flagship podcast of polyamory, CNM and, in particular this week, sex parties. H&B x…
Ever been on a date and the person is nothing like their online persona? We have all been there and this episode navigates the intricacies of our digital selves versus our real-life selves. We also delve into how to spot and deal with a problematic online persona. Sometimes, it becomes necessary to don a facade that isn't entirely true to us and there are some advantages and we explore where the potential pitfalls that arise when your online persona is a far cry from your real life. Enjoy! H & B x…
Ever walked into a party and felt out of place or unprepared? Well, we're here to lend a hand! We're going to share some of our hard-earned insights on how to choose the right crowd for sex parties, how to read people's cues, and why knowing what you want (and know yourself) is key to making the most of your event. We'll also reveal some practical tips like the importance of a good night's sleep, staying hydrated, and keeping protection handy. And remember, if you're not enjoying the event, it's best not to push yourself. Now, we understand that attending parties, especially sex parties, can be complex and intimidating. So think of this as your guide to navigating the atmosphere, the attendees, and even your own mindset. So, buckle up for a thrilling, enlightening, and frank conversation about the world of sex parties. Trust us, you won't want to miss this.…
The polyamory journey often comes with a reality check - just when you think you've got it all figured out, you realise you have much more to learn. The Poly Pocket Podcast takes a candid look at our own rollercoaster ride - from hilarious escapades involving Lady V and a cake, to humbling encounters with polyamory experts that reminded us to remain humble and open-minded. Venture with us as we dissect the multifaceted dynamics of polyamory and swinging - you'll be surprised to learn that sex isn't always the default in polyamory. We share our trials and triumphs, the importance of validation from our partners, and the need to lean on those closest to us during life's unpredictable moments. We'll also be delving into the importance of communication in our various relationships - a vital aspect that keeps everything together. Get ready for some introspection as we share our personal growth and realisations over our first year of exploring polyamory. We discuss the importance of self-awareness, listening to our gut instincts, and not solely depending on them. We also dive into an exciting discussion about 'The Chimp Paradox'. This book has been an indispensable tool, helping us gain control over our minds and emotions while navigating life's ups and downs. As a bonus, we peak your curiosity with an intriguing hint about an upcoming discussion on 'colour fetish'. Buckle up, whether you're a polyamory newbie or a seasoned pro, this episode promises an enlightening ride.…
We often say we are not experts... so instead, we spoke to one! We've brought in the expertise of Elizabeth Cunningham, a seasoned life and love coach with over 13 years of experience in the field of polyamory. This episode is a fantastic exploration of shifting from monogamy to polyamory, managing the complex dynamics, and setting expectations in non-monogamous relationships. Our conversation with Elizabeth was nothing short of enlightening. She shared invaluable advice on navigating the messiness often associated with polyamorous relationships; managing egos, understanding the uniqueness of different bonds, and advocating love and respect even in the most challenging moments. This episode is not just about learning - it's about unlearning too. It's about letting go of preconceived notions, stepping out of comfort zones, and embracing the beauty of complexity in love. Elizabeth also shared insights on the art of communication within polyamorous relationships. From handling difficult conversations, fostering trust and connection, to understanding and setting boundaries - it's all about nurturing healthy communication habits. And what's more, we also discussed the concept of 'falling' in a relationship, and how to recover and grow from these falls. Tune in to our episode with Elizabeth Cunningham and prepare to expand your perspective on polyamory and relationships. Don't just listen. Immerse, understand, and transform.…
Just when you think you've got a handle on human behaviour, life throws you a curveball. How do we distinguish fantasy from reality? How can you tell if someone has crossed the invisible line, blurring truth with elaborate fabrications and lies? This week on the Poly Pocket podcast, we're trying to strip down some of the complexities of human psychology, starting with a hearty debate about what separates a fantasist from a liar. We're bringing our personal stories to the table as we're not psychologists, but we're also no strangers to the art of self-deception and spinning tales. Join us as we dissect the potential mechanisms behind constructing fantasies, and how one fails to recognise a well-crafted lie masked as a harmless daydream and then diving headfirst into the what happens when fantasies become destructive? What's the fallout when the lines between reality and fantasy blur to such an extent that it becomes a manipulative escape from uncomfortable truths? Come get lost with us in the enigma of human behavior, on this week's episode of Poly Pocket. NOTE: There is some troubling content at the 10 minute mark regarding homicide and mental illness caused by a fantasy. If this is likely to upset you, we'd suggest skipping the 10 to 13 minute section. H&B x 💚…
Did you ever find it challenging to share your relationship orientation with your date, even though it's stated clearly on your profile? Are you grappling with how to navigate your polyamory lifestyle while wearing a wedding ring? Well, you're not alone! We're dedicating this episode to explore these predicaments and share our personal experiences, hoping to shed some light on this complex world of polyamorous relationships. We're also sharing our family adventures, as well as a 'hilarious' chicken joke marathon that will have you questioning your life choices! H & B x…
What if there was a world beyond the traditional definitions of love and relationships? A world where you could be you, and that was not only accepted but celebrated? This episode explores the intricacies of polyamory - a lifestyle choice that is often misunderstood and misrepresented. We share personal stories and discuss the challenges we face in maintaining relationships with partners, children, and businesses - a balancing act that is both demanding and rewarding. Making the leap to live a non-traditional life requires not just the courage to break social norms but also visible examples of successful alternative lifestyles to emulate. Our episode touches on the necessity of creating opportunities and incentives that go beyond quotas and numbers. We discuss the power of vulnerability and allyship in living a life outside the status quo, and the importance of being seen and represented, particularly for minorities in industries like tech, where they are still grossly underrepresented. Enjoy x…
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