Being Your Own Best Lover with Rinsha Ballani

Commitment Phobe

How do we give ourselves what we hope others give us? What does it look like to fill up our own cup? This is an important question to ask ourselves, because if we can't give the love we want to ourselves we won't be able to see it or receive it from others.

My guest Rinsha Ballani has for years, worked on putting herself first in her life and being her own greatest lover.

Rinsha grew up conditioned to think that someone and something OUT THERE was going to make her feel loved. She did not believe she could trust herself.

She based her relationship desires on what magazines and the movies told her. Through her work and journey in life she started saying no to the life she'd built around making others happy and started looking at what SHE wanted and needed to stop being miserable. Tune in to find inspiration in Rinsha's radical transformation in her relationship to herself and in her creation of a life where we only does what she wants to do.

We tallk about: -How discovering your desires may take asking yourself what you want over and over again. -Rinsha's turning point of leaving her old life behind and driving herself across the country. -What it means to have your own inner "trust bank." -Why Rinsha buys lingerie for herself. -Why we won't ACTUALLY want people to pour love into us sometimes. Contact Rinsha at @rinshaballani on Instagram to find out about her 1-1 coaching and her free Facebook Community for big birls called "Live Big" where big girls can receive love support and connection.