Ep 21 - Freedom from Porn - Escaping the Triangle

The Next Stage Podcast by Sherpa 5280

The Next Stage Episode 21 Show Notes Wednesday, October 16, 2024.

In this episode, The Next Stage podcast for men continues an exploration about how an addiction to pornography is grounded in complex family dynamics. Today, host Rob Stout leads in an exercise called escaping the triangle, where a triangle represents the ideal relationship that each person has with his or her mother and father. God’s design is not for us to “triangle” with just one parent and not the other, or triangle one parent against the other, but instead to live in healthy relationship within the triangle. When those boundaries and roles are not appropriately respected, however, the emotional and spiritual price can be significant and even lead to dark coping methods like turning to addictive behaviors like pornography, among others.

Episode 21 is part of a series dedicated to breaking free from the addiction of pornography. For more information about today’s show or to book personal time with host Rob Stout, visit www.Sherpa5280.com, or email [e-mail].

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About Rob Stout

Rob Stout holds a bachelor’s degree from Bowling Green State University and a master’s degree from Denver Seminary where he specialized in leadership and organizational transformation. He is a Certified Life Coach from Life Coach Institute. Rob has served for over 30 years in leadership, teaching, and coaching roles in numerous business and non-profit organizations with a focus on helping men navigate some of life's most hazardous and strategically critical areas. Rob and Nicole have been married since 1994 and live in Erie, Colorado. They have three grown daughters.

About Getting Even: Countering Life’s Hard Knocks, by Rob Stout.

Getting Even: Countering Life’s Hard Knocks by Rob Stout is available in hard cover, paperback, and Kindle. https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Even-Countering-Lifes-Knocks/dp/1489728740/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1703170871&sr=1-1

What do you do when life punches you in the gut? Some men medicate with alcohol, sex, gaming, food, blame, and the rest. Getting Even meets a man in the middle of life’s hard knocks and embarks on a journey to fight back, reflect, recalibrate, and move forward. Getting Even helps identify the critically important lessons to plan a way forward. Author Rob Stout has experienced his own hard knocks and transparently shares his journey of recovery and method for moving forward.