Nurturing Healthy Masculinity: A Conversation with Ruth Whippman

The Masculine Wilderness Podcast

In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Tom Perez from Epic Project has a deep conversation with author and journalist Ruth Whippman. They dive into her new book, BOYMOM, which talks about the struggles boys face in a world of "toxic masculinity."

Ruth opens up about raising three boys, the impact of the Me Too movement, and the big cultural changes needed to raise emotionally healthy boys. Tom and Ruth also touch on the political divide around masculinity and why empathy and understanding are key in these discussions. They even explore Ruth’s interviews with young boys, talking about how social pressures shape both younger and older men. The episode wraps up with some great insights on how we can create a culture where men can fully embrace who they are.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast

00:25 Meet Ruth Whitman: Author of Boy Mom

01:45 The Impact of the Me Too Movement

05:34 Exploring Patriarchy and Masculinity

07:21 Raising Boys: Challenges and Reflections

24:26 Feedback and Cultural Reactions

27:45 Navigating Political Triggers

28:33 Personal Reflections on Parenting Sons

29:12 The Impact of Having Sons on Political Views

29:50 Deciding to Have a Third Boy

31:25 Exploring the Political Divide on Masculinity

33:00 Fears and Realities of Raising Boys

33:41 Engaging with the Incel Community

36:39 The Emotional Struggles of Men and Boys

40:19 Personal Stories of Masculine Expectations

46:26 Encouragement for Men to Change

52:08 Hopes for the Future Generation

53:15 Conclusion and Resources

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