|Ep. 13| A Journey into the Queer Realm: Identities, Norms, Fashion, Fetishes and More Feat. Kiana

The Talkatives Podcast

Can you navigate the labyrinth of labels, norms, and identities within the queer community? Will you find your way around the underground world of kinks and fetishes? We promise, by the end of this episode, you'll have a better understanding of the complexities of sexual orientation, preferences and prejudices, as well as the exciting, yet often misunderstood, world of fetishes. We share invaluable insights, and we also shed light on the norms that society has established for straight versus gay behaviors.
Have you ever wondered why fashion, sexuality, and identity are so interwoven in the queer community? From the stigma of 'dressing up like a tomboy, to the fashion fluidity of 'stems', to the practicality of breathable undergarments, we discuss it all. Kiana and I also share our birthday weekend experiences in Houston which, spoiler alert, involved multiple showers! We then dive headfirst into the straight and LGBTQ+ hookup cultures, questioning who could be the worst and why this trend has become the norm.
Finally, we scrutinize the dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community - the harshness, the respect (or lack thereof) in ending relationships, and the need for open communication. We challenge the notion of preferences turning into prejudices, and the struggles of dating outside one's culture. We also stress the importance of finding someone who complements you, rather than just catering to you. Join us, as we explore, learn, and question the norms of our society.