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Data-powered Innovation Jam
Knock, knock, Neo. Think Agents are a thing of the future? Look again at the iconic movie, The Matrix—they've been hiding in plain sight. In the first episode of 2025, hosts Ron Tolido, Weiwei Feng, and Robert Engels venture down the digital rabbit hole of Virtual Twins with Morgan Zimmerman, CEO of NETVIBES at Dassault Systèmes. It’s a fascinating world where physical science meets data science, a world of both red and blue pills. Virtual Twins take the concept of Digital Twins to the next level, transforming static representations of products, devices, and systems into living, breathing "Dream Theaters" of simulations, predictions, and what-if scenarios. Fueled by AI and immersive technology, they don’t just capture life—they reimagine it. But what happens when Virtual Twins evolve to encompass entire organizations and industries? Imagine bending not just spoons, but entire realities. The Matrix has you—are you ready to see how deep the twin-powered innovation goes? You're in The Matrix ! Tune into our latest Data-powered Innovation Jam podcast episode now! Timestamps: 00:35 – Ron and Robert dive into the iconic world of The Matrix , drawing parallels to digital innovation. 04:55 – Morgan shares insights into Dassault Systèmes' legacy and the evolution of Virtual Twins. 10:00 – Exploring the connection between ontologies and their applications in the real world. 20:03 – How Digital Twins, Virtual Twins, and the Metaverse are transforming real-world use cases. 36:15 – Redefining interaction with the digital world in ways that feel natural yet futuristic. Connect with our guest Morgan Zimmermann and our hosts Ron Tolido , Robert Engels , and Weiwei Feng on LinkedIn.…
The Messed Up Counsellor
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Innhold levert av Ian Wallace. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av Ian Wallace eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
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61 episoder
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Innhold levert av Ian Wallace. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av Ian Wallace eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
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×1 Episode 60: Focussing on the things we can’t do or be. 21:29
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21:29I’ve found that people look at the things which go wrong don’t often think of the things that go right. If 20% of our world is in turmoil or in a negative spiral, why can’t we consider the 80% which is going well.
How do we manage with all the pressures we bear? How can we make time for ourselves and instal some restrictions that might help?
1 Episode 58: Are we or can we ever be in control? 19:07
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19:07This week I explore this interesting question in the counselling room. Is it a mirage or fantasy to be, or feel like, we are in control?
In this episode I discuss my experiences growing up, and how I learnt to express myself. Was I the black sheep or the instigator of exploration? Sometimes someone has to shake things up.
1 Episode 56: New year the promises we keep, or not. 21:36
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21:36Happy new year! In this episode I discuss how to keep your resolutions on track by staying motivated.
Family gatherings can be problematic. Effective communication can often help. In this episode I explore why problems arise, and what you can do to make things easier.
We use this word a lot in our language, and I wonder if it’s a word which helps or hinders us. We strive for it, but do we ever achieve it? Can we ever achieve it? Does it create satisfaction or increase anxiety and depression?
1 Episode 53: Anxiety with Alistair Gladstone 52:55
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52:55Alistair from Wingmen shares his experiences as an anxious person. We discuss how anxiety impacts his personal and professional life, and we learn what the group, Wingmen, is all about. https://www.wingmen.org.uk
In this episode I talk to Ella from Open Country about how being disabled can affects people's lives. We discuss how getting out and about can help build confidence and encourage disabled people not to hide from the world. www.opencountry.org.uk
Does anxiety ever make you freeze? What’s it all about and how do we cope with it? Does it keep us safe or create distance? What can others do to help?
1 Episode 50: Why do we do that, and what do we do about it? 2:17
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2:17Why do we do that, and what do we do about it? In this episode I talk about my newly released audio book.
How can sex and intimacy can be used to affect the balance of power in a relationship. Withdrawal of it can sub-consciously be a way to display our power in a relationship.
On this episode I discuss how feelings of loss can sometimes lead to other painful feelings and emotions arising.
1 Episode 47: The horrors of online stalking 29:34
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29:34In this episode I explore the anxiety, fear and worry that can stem from not knowing who is watching us, or saying things about us which we can’t control or stop.
Today I explore the feelings of being invisible; getting pushed by in queues and not getting served at the bar. Sound familiar? Why is this and what can you do to change it?
1 Episode 45: Growing through the pain of teenage years 30:44
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30:44I can still remember the pain I went through in my teenage years. 50 years later I explore the affect it had on me.
1 Episode 44: Parenting and reliving our past 27:06
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27:06Is how we parent our children influenced by our own parents, and how they raised us? Once we become parents, how can we learn from our past to do the best by our children?
There is much humour to be found in observing human interactions. In this episode I talk about how watching humans never ceases to amaze and fascinate me.
1 Episode 42: Motivation and challenging boundaries. 21:58
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21:58How can we find the motivation to transcend boundaries? In this episode I explore what could be preventing us from making the changes needed to achieve our aims.
Some things you find easy might be hard for others, and vice versa. In this episode I explore the confusing subject of how we see the world.
1 Episode 40: Warning signs of toxic relationships. 18:03
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18:03What’s fixable, and what’s not? This can be a controversial and thought-provoking conservation, and one we should all be having.
Great, but what does that actually mean? Identifying the problem is one thing, reflecting on how that problem makes you feel might be more meaningful communication.
Is anger a normal emotion or a negative emotion? In this episode I explore how to identify the emotion in anger, so that you can take control of your actions.
I am often asked this by my clients, so in this episode of the podcast I look at what is needed to make it work and last.
1 Episode 36: Painting pictures and losing the content. 20:41
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20:41When you communicate and share your feelings, do ever feel like you are not listened too? In this episode of the podcast, I look at effective ways of getting your point across so that you can feel like you are heard.
1 Episode 35: Consequences: Is it me, or you, or us? 19:26
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19:26Relationships often breakdown because people want different things, and don’t communicate their desires effectively. This can often lead to a loss of connection.
1 Episode 34: Systems: Growing the losses and the gains 20:37
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20:37In this podcast I look at the systems we live and work in and how they inform our choices. Where are our conflict areas and how can we adapt and grow in a positive and connected way? How does this affect the roles we play in others’ lives and our drive to be a part of something.
1 Episode 33: Mature ageing; its positives and negatives. 24:53
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24:53In this episode I discuss how you can become the you that you have always wanted to be and how age can encourage you to simply say it as it is. You can be a glorious person and you can give back to others and the world.
In this episode I explore my journey into podcasting. I discuss how I got started, how I have developed and grown the podcast, and I share some of the highs and lows of being in the spotlight.
1 Episode 31: Becoming a Counsellor Therapi 37:15
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37:15As a supervisor I meet a lot of new counsellors, and part of my role is to guide them through their training and placements. In this episode I share some of the things they talk about and discuss how becoming a counsellor or therapist can be a life changing experience.
I discuss how I live with Dyslexia and what it does to my world, how it shaped me growing up, and what impact it has on my life both negatively and positively.
We take a look at the trials of growing up and what adults can do to help that transition. Take a journey into your past and explore how young people they aren’t too dissimilar to you at their age.
1 Episode 28: Sensate focusing & getting it on. 31:16
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31:16In this episode I explore how best to intimately connect and how to make love instead of having sex. What’s the difference? How can you make that intimate relationship strong and lasting.
1 Episode 27: The things young people tell me. 36:34
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36:34In this episode we take a journey into their world and discuss how they see it working for them. Who is creating the problems that they face? How can we help them to communicate, understand, and be heard?
In this episode I discuss how to turn confusion and inability to choose into real change and progression.
Why do we always fall back into unhelpful dynamics in families? Why do we spend so much time and energy trying to change other people? In this episode I explore how to help people accept things they can’t change, and how to find peace with it.
1 Episode 24: Supporting children- Identity & Sexuality 22:13
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22:13There is a lot of talk about identity and gender these days. Many parents what to be supportive and sympathetic but find there is a lot of new information to navigate, and previous generations might have dealt with these issues in a less inclusive way.
Why is it important and how do we do it? What does it look like in the modern age? Are your hobbies just passing time, or are they helping you relax and refuel your energy and resilience?
What is trauma and how do you recognise it? How does it affect you? How does it affect your human interactions?
1 Episode 21: How do we create space for personal growth? 14:42
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14:42People are getting busier. How do we make room to enhance our lives or relationships when we are busy just trying to survive?
Sometimes people don’t even realise that they are in an abusive and controlling relationship. I explore what to look out for, and how you might detach yourself from an abusive relationship safely.
1 Episode 19: Sexual relationships and intimacy 25:06
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25:06In this podcast I talk about physical sex and intimacy, what the difference is, and how you might introduce both back into a relationship.
In this podcast I look at the many different types of abuse and the effects that it can have on the victims of abuse. I explore how abuse can affect our relationships, and what signs and triggers to look out for.
In this episode I talk to Steve, an addiction specialist. Addiction is an aspect of human nature that can be truly destructive to relationships and family connections. We explore the signs and signals of someone being affected by addiction and discuss how we might support them to get to a better place.…
What causes affairs and how do we repair or come to terms with the emotional fallout we experience when a breakdown of trust occurs?
1 Episode 15: Grief and loss, change and moving on. 22:03
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22:03I look at the process of change and loss which is a core issue for most human beings. I explore ways to understand the process and what might be helpful to move through it to get to the other side.
1 Episode 14: Creating more committed and connected relationships. 25:50
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25:50In this episode I explore the way relationships breakdown, how to build new ones, and repair old ones. I share my knowledge garnered working with couples to help you move through conflict to harmony; giving you the tools to enable more connected and quality relationships.
1 Episode 13: Feeling not good enough (Imposter Syndrome) 20:46
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20:46Many people will recognise the feeling of “not good enough”. In this episode we explore these complex feelings and discuss ways to help control and defeat them.
What makes us different? Is it ok to be different? Exploring our differences and celebrating them so that we can be differently abled and not feel inadequate.
1 Episode 11: Relationships and communication. 32:01
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32:01Possibly the most important and eventful aspects of our lives: building quality connected relationships. I explore the importance of good quality relationships and how to help restore them when they go wrong or face difficulties.
1 Episode 10: Insecurity: It’s all about me. 31:04
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31:04What is insecurity? Where does it come from? Is it normal? How does it affect us?
An exploration of my first book: The journey, the mistakes and lessons I learnt in the process.
1 Episode 8: Care or Control? (Which is it) 25:27
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25:27We all overstep this process at times in our lives, and do things which we think will be helpful, only to find the person we are helping feels controlled. The only way to understand if you have gone from help to control is to ask the other person how they feel, and if they wanted you to do that for them.…
1 Episode 7: Guilt and the dynamics of Shame 21:26
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21:26We have all experienced feelings of guilt as part of our up bringing. It is usually used to help to manipulate and control us. That is not to say that this is done to us by people who want to hurt us, rather it is an easy process for people to use when they need to look after and manage us.
1 Episode 6: Insecurity and Bullying. In discussion with another therapist Sue. 27:48
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27:48You know the feeling of being targeted, bullied, isolated, and put down by someone? Why do people do that to others? Well, what I share may shock you. Using my personal experience and professional awareness, I hope I can give you a different view of this and a new way of reacting to it.
1 Episode 5: Helping children through divorce and separation 41:28
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41:28This is becoming more of an issue every year, with some children experiencing multiple separations. In this episode I share some ways to help all parties respect and value each other.
1 The Messed Up Counsellor Ep 4: What and why? 21:15
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21:15We can't always avoid the things that bother us. However, we can often deal with why something is bothering us, and this might be a more realistic and practical resolution to the issue at hand.
What’s this thing called feelings in relationships? In this podcast I explore communicating feelings. I often see people whose emotional vocabulary is so limited (or non existent) that they struggle to communicate how they feel in a meangingful way.
1 The Messed Up Counsellor Ep2: Partners (Can they be everything for me) 18:59
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18:59In episode 2, I talk about partners. Can emotional and intimate partners be everything that we need them to be? Can we be enough for them too? How do we define a good partner? Is it realistic for one person to tick all our boxes?
In this short introduction, I explain what you can expect from my new podcast series: The Messed Up Counsellor.
1 The Messed Up Counsellor Ep1: Are they really friends? 23:53
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23:53In the debut episode of my new podcast series, I talk about friendships: Who are really your friends, and who are acquaintances? I share some thoughts about what a friendship looks like, how friends treat each other and how friendships differ from relastionships with colleagues or acquaintances. Is it ok to share different aspects of yourself with different groups?…
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