Episode 294: ‘First Nude, Last Nude’ (Dirty Lola)

Bawdy Storytelling

Have you ever cried because you hate the body you’re in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola’s online Dom. Soon her submissive assignments begin to battle the negative self-talk imprinted on her by magazines, bullies, social media and family. What a difference a year - and being showered with love - can make to your self-esteem! And a recent PNW transplant asks: We know that Bawdy can get you laid…but can Bawdy help you love your new city and make the right friends? #BodyImage #LonelinessEpidemic

Song: ‘Chunky’ (Bruno Mars)

About the Storyteller:

Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.

In addition to her educational projects, Lola has brought her unique brand of sex-positive sex education to brands such as Shag in Williamsburg BK, Spectrum Boutique, B-Vibe, Le Wand, Blush, Freya, Womanizer, and Spencers Gifts.

Dirty Lola’s Sex-Ed-A-Go-Go is happening on Saturday, June 22nd in Brooklyn NY. Tickets at

https://www.stellartickets.com/o/brooklyn-art-haus--2/events/dirty-lola-at-bah/

Body Image | Fat l Kink l Submission l Sir l Brat l Nipples l Dominance l JR Ewing l Nudes l Chubby l Divorced l Brooklyn l Southern Drawl l Daily Task l Confidence l Pics l Phone l Twitter l Titty Tuesday l Naked l Crying l Trust l OOTD l Hasbro l Texting l Husband l Confidence l Affection l Slut l Own Worst Enemy l Whipped l Kink Device l Daddy l Businessman l Monogamous l Shame l Kindness l Self Love l

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Bawdy Storytelling is in Portland, Oregon this week

At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends.

Tickets are available for Friday, June 21st, and they’re selling fast.

Ticket Links:

Bawdy Storytelling, the Curated Mainstage show, at 7:30 PM:https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated

Performers include:

• Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

• Sex Geek & Relationship Coach Reid Mihalko

• Dance Naked & Plan V's Eleanor O'Brien

• Everywhere is Queer's Charlie Sprinkman

• Black Man of Trans Experience & VanLifer, Rocky Lane

• Music by Mark Growden

• Play Bang-O to make New Friends - & Win Prizes

• Win Prizes from Le Wand & B-Vibe

• Win Prizes from Uberlube & Lovely Planet

• Sexy Cocktails & Food available

• Join us for the Best First Date EVER
• Bawdy can help you find your People!

Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Come to BawdySlam Portland (our 10:30 PM story slam) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes!

Tickets for BawdySlam at 10:30 PM: BawdySlam

https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamPDX

Get up and Tell YOUR story! (Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option)

In Review:

• Friday, June 21st, 2024 (A 7:30 & a 10:30 Bawdy show)
• At Curious Comedy Theater5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland, OR 97211

The Shameless Sex Podcast’s Unleashed Tour is coming to Portland

Sunday, June 16th at 7:30 PM Special Guests include Dirty Lola, Dixie De La Tour and Shameless Sex’ Amy Baldwin & April Lambert

Tickets at

https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/92352410/shameless-sex-podcast-portland-hawthorne-theatre

Important Question:

I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. It’s been over 7 years now… Is this thing on?

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Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll be announcing the date - and share the ticket link…Stay Tuned!

AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?

• How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)

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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:

Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney

Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!

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