EP75 Why Do They Get to Move On? The Injustice of Divorce

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💔 Why does it feel like they’re living their best life while you’re just trying to survive?

Divorce can feel like the ultimate injustice… especially if you’ve been betrayed. While your ex seems to move on with ease (and maybe even a smug grin), you’re left picking up the emotional, financial, and social pieces of a life you thought would last forever.

In this episode, we’re diving into the gut-punching unfairness of it all, from the gut-level rage of "It’s not fair!" to the emotional exhaustion of waiting for karma to show up. But here’s the hard truth: staying stuck in that injustice only hurts you, not them.

What you’ll hear in this episode:
✔️ Why divorce feels like someone threw out the rulebook…. and why that hurts so much
✔️ How the inner child’s sense of fairness amplifies the pain of betrayal (and how to soothe it)
✔️ Why waiting for karma is like watching a kettle boil without plugging it in
✔️ The concept of radical acceptance…. and how it’s NOT about approving their behaviour
✔️ How to stop obsessing over them and start focusing on your glow-up

Key Takeaways:

• Their moving on doesn’t mean they’re winning… it just means they’re distracted.
• Waiting for karma doesn’t heal your wounds; your own growth does.
• Just because they abandoned your values doesn’t mean you have to abandon them too.

This episode is perfect for you if:

✔ You’re stuck in the unfairness of betrayal and wondering why they seem to have it so easy
✔ You find yourself obsessing over karma or wishing for their downfall
✔ You’re ready to take back your power and start living for YOU

Can’t wait to see YOU moving on, unapologetic AF 🔥

Loads of Love

Sarah x

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1. Where's the F*cking Karma? (00:00:00)

2. It's Just NOT FAIR (00:04:17)

3. Why Karma Doesn't Work As We Want (00:07:19)

4. Our Inner Child is Screaming It's Not Fair (00:10:33)

5. Holding Onto Our Values (00:13:55)

6. Breaking Free from the Mental Prison (00:17:15)

7. Karma's REAL work (00:21:28)

8. Know Your Worth (00:24:47)