EP165 The Break Glass In Case of Mindset Meltdown Episode

Fearlessly Fertile Podcast with Rosanne Austin

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Listen to this rather unique episode when it feels like no one gets you and you just want some Rosanne Austin, Fearlessly Fertile Method goodness. Save this one for when you have a “moment.” Mama loves you.

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Transcript:
Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you’ve got to have the mindset for it. It’s time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I’m your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43. Despite years of fertility treatment failure, I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, badassery, and loads of hell Yes.

For your fertility journey. It’s time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let’s do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 165. The Break Glass in case of mindset Meltdown. Episode. Hey, loves. What a fucking delight it is to be here with you today. Woo, and I’m so excited because before we get started, I wanted to let you know super quick that my team and I are going to be launching a brand new program that will be starting June 1st called Fearlessly Fertile Daily.

This is the first new program I have launched in three years, and it is absolutely inspired By the insane successes my ladies have achieved and my desire to give you an entirely new resource for becoming fearless on this journey. This will be your chance to have me buzzing in your ear daily. That’s why I named it Fearlessly Fertile Daily.

Because I hear from women all the time, Roseanne, I wish I had this goodness every single day. I wish I had you buzzing in my ear. Every single day. And now loves, this is your chance. This is a live daily program where we will be together for 30 days straight for live bite sized 15 minute lessons. It will be like 30 days of daily loving kicks to the pants that will keep you moving forward, thinking like a woman who succeeds and thriving on this journey.

Each day’s lesson will be recorded and you will have access to it via our fearlessly fertile daily site, so you won’t miss a thing. As part of the fearlessly fertile daily program, we will also be doing two live 90 minute coaching and Q and a sessions so you can really get what I will be teaching you deep into your bones woman and make it practical for your life.

And even better in this group program, you will have the chance to be on a new fearless track with women from around the world. My fearlessly fertile community is amazeballs and what you’re going to gain from our 30 days together is going to be tremendous. Think about it. We’re almost halfway through the year loves.

Believe it or not, we are almost there. And if you aren’t where you want to be on this journey, what you do now can make all the difference in the world. What do you want to say to yourself on December 31st? You still have half a year to get to that place. You know, do you want to know that you did everything you could?

Do you want to look back on this time with regret? Let’s be real. You made yourself a promise at the beginning of this year, and now is the time to get back on track and supercharge that shit. You can do this, and I will be there to help you for 30 days straight. And just so you know, this program ends on my miracle boy, Asher’s birthday.

It is about celebrating and lining up with the very real fertility miracles that happen every day. And they can happen for you as well. So if you want to be part of this goodness, be on the lookout for your invitation, fearlessly fertile daily, baby. Just imagine starting every day for a month, fearlessly.

Imagine what you could do. Imagine how much more confident you would be about your decisions and how you can stay out of the shit pit. Keep your eye out for Fearlessly Fertile Daily Loves, there ain’t anything like it, and we start June 1st. You won’t want to miss this. I wanted to do something very different and kind of interesting with you this week.

It has been on my heart to do an episode for you that will help you create a space for when shit I don’t mean a sniveling, snowflake y safe space, but an energetic space for a strong, big hearted, make it happen woman to go when she just wants to put down her sword and shield for a second and be seen and heard.

Indeed, this is not exactly the same thing as us having a conversation, being coached by me, or having a live human interaction. But being a lovingly type A, control freaky, make it happen woman who doesn’t exactly wear her toughest emotions on her sleeve. I know how hard it is to share those things and sometimes we just want to let it out without setting off all the alarms.

I also realized through my own journey that in the end, it was less important that other people were there for me than it was for me to be there for me. That can be a difficult thing for people to wrap their head around, but there is certainly truth in the idea. Think about it. You can have a gang of people all around you, but still feel deeply alone.

Especially if the people around you are not really in tune with what’s going on with you. Others tend to get super wrapped up in their own stories and agendas, so you may not even have their full attention, even if they are there for you. This is not a criticism, it’s just some awareness. There’s also something that hits us at our core on this journey that few can relate to.

It’s intensely personal, which is why I tell women all the time who are in relationships that even if your partner is there, they are having their own experience. You each will deal with these things as a couple, but perhaps most importantly, as individuals. This is why doing the work on this journey for yourself, starting with you, is so important.

I have no issue with couples work. In fact, I have big plans for that area. But it starts with you. You, mama. If you don’t know where to begin with all of that, make sure you get your ass into one of my programs. Either Fearlessly Fertile Daily starting in June, or fucking do both. Be in my eight week program while you’re doing daily.

Talk about getting your shit to the moon, right? But I digress. Sometimes, being there for yourself and exercising the shit going on for you in your own way, in your own space, is exactly what’s called for. And that’s my intention and inspiration for this time we’re sharing today. I see what we’re doing here, in this episode, as a dialogue.

I will ask questions. Of you as if we’re having a conversation and you will respond out loud in the quiet spaces. Yes, this is pretty fucking different for a podcast, but hey, if you haven’t figured it out, my ladies and I, we do different shit. That’s why we’re successful and become outliers in the best possible way.

So I will ask questions. You will answer in the spaces. Success leaves clues, mama. So pick up what I’m putting down. And as I said before, any fool can see that this doesn’t take the place of human interaction, professional mental health support or coaching. Instead, I see this as a sacred personal ritual that you can do on your own, when you just want to see you.

And your truth, hence the name the break glass in case of mindset meltdown. Okay, just answer the questions. You don’t need to tell a 75 page story explaining yourself. It could be, it could be. Lizanne, I’m scared shitless, I’m never gonna have babies, end up alone, be eaten by wild dogs, and my remains will be found by my annoying next door neighbor that I fucking hate.

That’s just an example. But notice that it’s precise and fucking concise. It, you’re, you’re airing your grievances, you’re, you’re sharing like what the shit is on your mind. Either way, you do you. Let this be your dear Roseanne moment. Remember, you speak your responses out loud, like we’re having a conversation.

There’s something incredibly powerful in hearing your own truth spoken. I would argue vehemently that the most important audience for our truth is us as individuals. Find a place where you can just be on your own and play this episode. I encourage you to listen to the flow at least twice before you settle in and do it.

For some of you, this shit’s gonna roll right off your tongue because you’re starving for something like this. For others, especially if you aren’t well practiced in stating precisely and concisely what’s going on for you, it may take practice. But that’s all good. Just know where you stand and chances are this shit will get better over time.

Either way, if you find yourself craving shit like this, like I said before, get your booty in one of my programs, or both. You may want to have a journal out, take notes on what comes up for you, or to capture any clarity that makes its way through at the end. Here’s an interesting twist. You can also use this dialogue to share your wins.

If you feel like it, imagine that. Strangely enough, sometimes it’s harder to find people to share our wins with than our losses. Misery loves company. So use this exercise for that if you wish. Are you ready? So let’s begin. Hey doll, it is so good to be here with you. I’m just here to sit with you and hold space for whatever you’ve got to share.

This? Is a judgment free zone, mama. Don’t worry, I’ve heard some shit in my career. I’m not judging you, so you don’t judge you, k? So tell me, what’s the truth you want to speak today? I hear you. What else do you want to say about that?

I so see you, doll. Tell me, where do you feel this in your body? Where do you feel this feeling that you’re describing and this situation that you’re sharing? Where do you feel it in your body? Is there anyone else that needs to know about this? And if so, tell me who. What’s one thing you can do for you today to help bring you some peace?

Just anything love, just pick one thing. Okay, awesome. Will you do it? Great. Is there anything else that needs to be said about this? You

I’m so honored that you shared that with me, love. It’s an honor to energetically be in this space with you. I know what this journey’s like. Look, I have no clue what it’s like to stand in your shoes, nor would I ever presume to know what your life is like, but I do know the power of having a strong woman witness your truth without judgment.

I pray that you felt some of that. in this time that we have together. Just know that wherever you are in the world, I am sending you love, light, and a very knowing smile. When you are done with this dialogue, I strongly encourage you to jot down some notes. Maybe there are other actions you want to take or conversations that need to be had.

If you realize during this dialogue that it’s time to ask for help, then do so, doll. There’s no shame in your game, mama. If you feel like it, Do this exercise a couple times in a row, and notice what shows up. And text the link to this podcast episode to someone you think could benefit from it. Screenshot this episode and put it in your Facebook or Insta story tagging me.

Share the shit out of this. And while you’re at it, take a moment and give us a 5 star review. It will make you feel so good to show your gratitude for this free content my team and I serve you with every week. Don’t forget that you speaking and hearing your own truth is one of the most important things you will ever do for your success on this journey.

This is your dream. This longing is in your heart. Therefore, you are fucking responsible for seeing it through. I don’t care how many degrees you have, what you think you know. Or what your small minded saboteurs will try to sling. This desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you.

Be the woman who clears the blocks between herself and her baby. What’s waiting on the other side of that is incredible. My Fearlessly Fertile Method program is for women who intend to get pregnant in the next 12 months and say, Hell yes! To covering their bases, mind and body. So you don’t have to look back on this time in your life with regret.

I work with women who are committed to success. To apply for your interview for this program, go to my website, www.FromMaybeToBaby.com and apply for an interview there. My methodology is to help women around the world make their mom dreams come true. Their results speak for themselves. If you don’t have a mindset for success on this journey, baby, you gotta gape and hole in your strategy.

Let’s fix that shit and set you up. For success. Till next time, change your mindset, change your results. Love this episode of the Fearlessly Fertile podcast? Subscribe now and leave an awesome review. Remember, the desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was meant for you. When it comes to your dreams, keep saying hell yes.