Working with couples (with Marie Vakakis)

Mental Work

Bron and Marie chat about working well with couples on common issues like sexual desire discrepancies, communication, and conflict. Marie shares her approach to using the Gottman method for assessment and intervention, stressing the need for balancing conflict resolution with positive interactions. They also chat about 👉🏽 handling countertransference 👉🏻 Challenges of retention in couples therapy 👉 The value of therapists being aware of their own limitations 👉🏿 Avoiding triangulation.

Guest: Marie Vakakis, Accredited Mental Health Social Worker (MHSW), and Family & Couples Therapist at The Therapy Hub

LINKS

• Bron is hosting our first online hangout on 16th July at 5:30pm AEST! Join the Patreon to chat about episodes and connect with other listeners here.
• When should you refer an individual to couples therapy? Blog post by Marie.
• This Complex Life - Marie's podcast where she delves into the messiness of wellbeing and relationships.
• Books: Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel, Eight Dates by John and Julie Gottman
• Interested in couples therapy training? Gottman Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy are common evidence-based approaches!

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Producer: Michael English

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1. Working with couples (with Marie Vakakis) (00:00:00)

2. Introduction (00:00:05)

3. A case study couple (00:02:52)

4. Avoid the triangulation trap (00:32:33)

5. Sexual desire discrepency (00:38:23)

6. Final advice (00:43:29)