The Hidden Impact of Verbal Abuse - A conversation with Jessica Bondy from Words Matter

Nip in the Bud® Podcast - The children's mental health health charity

In this episode of the Nip in the Bud podcast, Jessica Bondy shares her journey from a successful career in communications to founding a charity aimed at ending childhood verbal abuse by adults. She discusses the profound impact of verbal abuse on children's mental health, the importance of raising awareness, and practical steps adults can take to foster positive communication. Jessica emphasizes that words matter and can shape a child's self-esteem and future, urging listeners to build children up rather than knock them down.
This episode covers verbal abuse, childhood, mental health, effective communication as parents and educationalists, brain development awareness, coaching, legacy, self-esteem, empowerment, and education.
The main takeaways from this episode are:
Verbal abuse affects two in five children, often going unnoticed.
The long-term effects of verbal abuse can include anxiety, depression, and self-harm.
Adults often inflict verbal abuse unintentionally, highlighting the need for awareness and education.
Positive reinforcement can significantly impact a child's self-esteem and development.
It's never too late to apologise and repair relationships after verbal abuse.
Raising awareness about verbal abuse is crucial for societal change.
Children's brains are highly susceptible to the effects of verbal abuse during critical development stages.
Building authentic relationships with children can help mitigate the effects of verbal abuse.
The charity aims to provide resources and training to help adults communicate positively with children.
Listen to the end for tips and advice on how we can all build children up to be the best versions of themselves.

Words Matter
https://wordsmatter.org/
NSPCC
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
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1. The Hidden Impact of Verbal Abuse - A conversation with Jessica Bondy from Words Matter (00:00:00)

2. Jessica Bondi's Journey and Mission (00:03:02)

3. Understanding the Impact of Verbal Abuse (00:05:48)

4. Defining Verbal Abuse and Its Forms (00:09:00)

5. The Psychological Effects on Children (00:11:54)

6. The impact of verbal abuse on the developing brain (00:14:00)

7. Raising Awareness and Education (00:18:13)

8. Practical Tips for Adults (00:21:00)

9. Recognising Signs of Verbal Abuse (00:23:50)

10. Resources and Support for Affected Children (00:27:00)

11. Final Thoughts and Call to Action (00:29:50)