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ENCORE: 41. Dating with an Abandonment Schema Part 1

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Special Announcements:

  • New Group Coaching Program: "Date Differently": A 6-week online group coaching program designed to help women build self-trust, set boundaries, and date with confidence. Starts November 6th. SIGN UP BEFORE 26TH OCT AND SAVE!
  • Signature Course – The Red Flag Project: This newly updated course covers schemas, red flags, and how to recognize unavailable partners. It’s recommended to take the course before joining the coaching program to get the most out of the sessions. Access it here. Special limited time discount code: HERBESTLIFE

How to Connect for relationship & dating content:

Summary: In this episode, Gemma and Justine explore how the Abandonment Schema impacts dating and relationships. They discuss the core beliefs tied to this schema, such as the fear of being left or replaced, and how it can cause anxiety and insecurity even in the early stages of dating. They dive into how the schema is often triggered by ambiguity in communication, delayed responses, or inconsistent behavior from partners, and how these triggers can lead to overthinking and self-doubt.

They also share practical tips for dating more mindfully with an Abandonment Schema, including identifying red flags early, managing emotional triggers, and setting healthy boundaries to avoid staying in unfulfilling relationships for too long.

Key Takeaways:

  • The Abandonment Schema can make dating feel unstable and trigger fears of rejection or being left behind, even when it's not warranted.
  • It’s essential to recognize early signs of emotional unavailability and avoid getting stuck in relationships that reinforce old patterns.
  • Learn to manage trig

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Hi, Do you have a question for us? Ask away!

Special Announcements:

  • New Group Coaching Program: "Date Differently": A 6-week online group coaching program designed to help women build self-trust, set boundaries, and date with confidence. Starts November 6th. SIGN UP BEFORE 26TH OCT AND SAVE!
  • Signature Course – The Red Flag Project: This newly updated course covers schemas, red flags, and how to recognize unavailable partners. It’s recommended to take the course before joining the coaching program to get the most out of the sessions. Access it here. Special limited time discount code: HERBESTLIFE

How to Connect for relationship & dating content:

Summary: In this episode, Gemma and Justine explore how the Abandonment Schema impacts dating and relationships. They discuss the core beliefs tied to this schema, such as the fear of being left or replaced, and how it can cause anxiety and insecurity even in the early stages of dating. They dive into how the schema is often triggered by ambiguity in communication, delayed responses, or inconsistent behavior from partners, and how these triggers can lead to overthinking and self-doubt.

They also share practical tips for dating more mindfully with an Abandonment Schema, including identifying red flags early, managing emotional triggers, and setting healthy boundaries to avoid staying in unfulfilling relationships for too long.

Key Takeaways:

  • The Abandonment Schema can make dating feel unstable and trigger fears of rejection or being left behind, even when it's not warranted.
  • It’s essential to recognize early signs of emotional unavailability and avoid getting stuck in relationships that reinforce old patterns.
  • Learn to manage trig

Support the show

The Schema Circle VAULT - New Year Special ends midnight 24th Jan 2025

Can you help support our continued production. If you're a regular listener who loves our show, please consider supporting us with a small contribution each month. We are a home-grown podcast made with love, without help from a fancy production company or sponsors. Become a regular supporter of the show and get a big thank-you shout out on an upcoming episode. Help us keep going! xx
CONNECT WITH US
Good Mood Hub

goodmood.com.au
Instagram
Facebook
email: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.au
Email us for information about private therapy or coaching with Dr Gemma or Dr Justine.

The Red Flag Project
theredflagproject.com
Instagram
Facebook
email: hello@theredflagproject.com
https://linktr.ee/theredflagproject
For women seeking to heal their schemas, br...

  continue reading

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