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In this episode of we dive deep into the "martyr mode," a coping style often discussed in schema therapy. We explore what it means to have a martyr complex or mode, how it shows up in relationships, and the emotional dynamics that fuel this behaviour.
Key topics covered include:
- The defining traits of the martyr mode and how it may stem from deeper emotional wounds, unmet needs and emotional deprivation.
- The guilt-inducing and manipulative aspects of martyr behaviour, and its impact on relationships with children, partners, and others.
- How this mode can flip between seeking validation, playing the victim, and striving for indispensability.
- Insights into the covert ways martyrs seek emotional control and validation, often leaving others feeling resentful or guilty.
- Practical advice for recognizing and addressing martyr tendencies in yourself or dealing with someone exhibiting this behavior.
Whether you're navigating a relationship with someone in this mode or noticing these patterns within yourself, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies for creating healthier dynamics.
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Hi, Do you have a question for us? Ask away!
In this episode of we dive deep into the "martyr mode," a coping style often discussed in schema therapy. We explore what it means to have a martyr complex or mode, how it shows up in relationships, and the emotional dynamics that fuel this behaviour.
Key topics covered include:
- The defining traits of the martyr mode and how it may stem from deeper emotional wounds, unmet needs and emotional deprivation.
- The guilt-inducing and manipulative aspects of martyr behaviour, and its impact on relationships with children, partners, and others.
- How this mode can flip between seeking validation, playing the victim, and striving for indispensability.
- Insights into the covert ways martyrs seek emotional control and validation, often leaving others feeling resentful or guilty.
- Practical advice for recognizing and addressing martyr tendencies in yourself or dealing with someone exhibiting this behavior.
Whether you're navigating a relationship with someone in this mode or noticing these patterns within yourself, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies for creating healthier dynamics.
If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to FOLLOW the show and share it with others who might benefit from this discussion.
The Schema Circle VAULT - New Year Special ends midnight 24th Jan 2025
Can you help support our continued production. If you're a regular listener who loves our show, please consider supporting us with a small contribution each month. We are a home-grown podcast made with love, without help from a fancy production company or sponsors. Become a regular supporter of the show and get a big thank-you shout out on an upcoming episode. Help us keep going! xx
CONNECT WITH US
Good Mood Hub
goodmood.com.au
Instagram
Facebook
email: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.au
Email us for information about private therapy or coaching with Dr Gemma or Dr Justine.
The Red Flag Project
theredflagproject.com
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email: hello@theredflagproject.com
https://linktr.ee/theredflagproject
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Most of us have gotten at least a little emotional at some point recently. It’s natural. But why do we have emotions and how much should we pay attention to them on any given day? Can we learn to skillfully choose which emotions to listen to and which ones to just let move on by? In More Than A Feeling, the latest podcast from Ten Percent Happier, host Saleem Reshamwala goes on a real life quest to find the answers to these questions. He’ll experiment with neuroscientists, dive into stories ...
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It was the deadliest string of shark attacks the world has ever seen. In 2011, sharks in Réunion, a beautiful island, way out in the Indian Ocean started biting people way more than ever before and with lunatic violence. The epidemic forced local surfers, politicians, and business owners into a proxy war with ocean lovers and conservationists worldwide, where long simmering tensions boiled over. Réunion: Shark Attacks in Paradise is the story of what happened on this beautiful island, and t ...
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