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352. The Subtle Ways Self-Abandonment Sneaks Up on Us

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Every time we betray our true self in order to please someone else, we abandon a small part of us. Every time we say “yes” when we really mean “no,” or ignore our own needs, or cling to an unhealthy relationship for fear of hurting their feelings, we give up another small part of our authentic self.

Slowly, those small parts add up to a gaping hole that can irreparably damage our relationships with others and ourselves. So today, we’re talking about noticing the signs of self-abandonment and how to confidently balance the healthy compromises (required for relationships to work) while showing up in the world as nothing but your most authentic, genuine self.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

  • How to effectively compromise, without self-betrayal
  • How people pleasing leads to self-abandonment
  • The importance of setting boundaries
  • Conscious incompetence
  • Building self worth and appreciating yourself
  • The dangerous cycle of people pleasing and self-abandonment
  • The attractiveness of integrity and authenticity

Do you struggle with staying true to yourself? Let me know how this episode inspires you to make changes in your life. DM me on Instagram @emilygoughcoach

CONNECT WITH EMILY

Book a private coaching call with Emily to work together.

Get your FREE 15-page foundational guide “Where Do We Begin” here

Men’s Group Coaching – next 8-week program starts Jan 25th, 2023 (join the list)

Women’s Group Program “Becoming You” – Next program starts Feb 7th, 2023 (join the list)

Instagram: @emilygoughcoach

Email: info@emilygoughcoaching.com

Website: Emily Gough Coaching

Podcast: Room to Grow Podcast

REFERENCES

Episode 340 | The Hidden Costs Of Losing Yourself In Relationships

Episode 277 | Are You Waiting Around To Be Chosen? (Standards, Boundaries & Expectations)

Episode 336 | Less About Red Flags In Relationships, More About Compassion & Self-Forgiveness For Wanting To Be Loved

Episode 267 | You’re Not Needy, You’re A Human With Needs

Episode 220 | Recognizing What Self-Betrayal Looks Like

Episode 302 | Self Love & Loneliness: Learning To Like Yourself

Episode 306 | Changing How We Define Emotional Strength & Recognizing Emotions As Data

Episode 270 | Cultivating A Deep Sense Of Self Worth

Podcast Producer: Adam Liefl

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Innhold levert av Emily Gough. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av Emily Gough eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.

Every time we betray our true self in order to please someone else, we abandon a small part of us. Every time we say “yes” when we really mean “no,” or ignore our own needs, or cling to an unhealthy relationship for fear of hurting their feelings, we give up another small part of our authentic self.

Slowly, those small parts add up to a gaping hole that can irreparably damage our relationships with others and ourselves. So today, we’re talking about noticing the signs of self-abandonment and how to confidently balance the healthy compromises (required for relationships to work) while showing up in the world as nothing but your most authentic, genuine self.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

  • How to effectively compromise, without self-betrayal
  • How people pleasing leads to self-abandonment
  • The importance of setting boundaries
  • Conscious incompetence
  • Building self worth and appreciating yourself
  • The dangerous cycle of people pleasing and self-abandonment
  • The attractiveness of integrity and authenticity

Do you struggle with staying true to yourself? Let me know how this episode inspires you to make changes in your life. DM me on Instagram @emilygoughcoach

CONNECT WITH EMILY

Book a private coaching call with Emily to work together.

Get your FREE 15-page foundational guide “Where Do We Begin” here

Men’s Group Coaching – next 8-week program starts Jan 25th, 2023 (join the list)

Women’s Group Program “Becoming You” – Next program starts Feb 7th, 2023 (join the list)

Instagram: @emilygoughcoach

Email: info@emilygoughcoaching.com

Website: Emily Gough Coaching

Podcast: Room to Grow Podcast

REFERENCES

Episode 340 | The Hidden Costs Of Losing Yourself In Relationships

Episode 277 | Are You Waiting Around To Be Chosen? (Standards, Boundaries & Expectations)

Episode 336 | Less About Red Flags In Relationships, More About Compassion & Self-Forgiveness For Wanting To Be Loved

Episode 267 | You’re Not Needy, You’re A Human With Needs

Episode 220 | Recognizing What Self-Betrayal Looks Like

Episode 302 | Self Love & Loneliness: Learning To Like Yourself

Episode 306 | Changing How We Define Emotional Strength & Recognizing Emotions As Data

Episode 270 | Cultivating A Deep Sense Of Self Worth

Podcast Producer: Adam Liefl

  continue reading

402 episoder

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