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94. Girl, Please: Say No to People-Pleasing
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The fine line between genuine kindness and people-pleasing can pose a challenge, as the latter may lead to sacrificing one's own needs, compromising authenticity, and fostering unhealthy dependencies in relationships. But gay men, in particular, tend to be influenced by societal expectations and the desire to counter stereotypes, resulting in a higher likelihood to engage in excessive people-pleasing behaviors as they navigate social dynamics and seek acceptance.
In this episode, we’re diving into the nuanced correlation between the childhood fear of rejection from growing up gay and the emergence of people-pleasing behaviors in adulthood among gay men while discussing strategies to cultivate self-compassion, set clear boundaries, and prioritize individual needs for a more authentic and personal empowered life as gay men.
Related Episodes:
- Listen to Episode 13. Perfectly Imperfect: Conquer Your Perfectionism
- Listen to Episode 34. GBF: Gay Best Friend
- Listen to Episode 85. Boundaries: How to Understand and Set Them
Additional Resources:
- People Pleaser (Merriam-Webster)
- What Is People-Pleasing?
- People-Pleasing
- People Pleaser: What It Means and How to Stop
- How to Stop People-Pleasing
- What is a People Pleaser?
- How to Stop People-Pleasing (and Still Be Nice)
- How Does Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn Show Up for Gay Men?
- Gay People Have Been Taught to Be People-Pleasing Push-Overs
Kapitler
1. Snarky Opener (00:00:00)
2. Episode Introduction (00:00:32)
3. People Pleasing (00:01:23)
4. Tarot (00:02:05)
5. What is People Pleasing? (00:03:03)
6. What Causes People Pleasing? (00:04:14)
7. Common Traits of People Pleasing (00:06:16)
8. Over-Apologizing (00:07:20)
9. Conflict Avoidance (00:08:17)
10. Effects on Mental Health (00:09:08)
11. Fawning (00:10:08)
12. Stop People Pleasing (00:12:10)
13. Episode Closing (00:15:03)
14. Connect with A Jaded Gay (00:16:48)
15. Outtake (00:18:52)
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Innhold levert av A Jaded Gay. Alt podcastinnhold, inkludert episoder, grafikk og podcastbeskrivelser, lastes opp og leveres direkte av A Jaded Gay eller deres podcastplattformpartner. Hvis du tror at noen bruker det opphavsrettsbeskyttede verket ditt uten din tillatelse, kan du følge prosessen skissert her https://no.player.fm/legal.
The fine line between genuine kindness and people-pleasing can pose a challenge, as the latter may lead to sacrificing one's own needs, compromising authenticity, and fostering unhealthy dependencies in relationships. But gay men, in particular, tend to be influenced by societal expectations and the desire to counter stereotypes, resulting in a higher likelihood to engage in excessive people-pleasing behaviors as they navigate social dynamics and seek acceptance.
In this episode, we’re diving into the nuanced correlation between the childhood fear of rejection from growing up gay and the emergence of people-pleasing behaviors in adulthood among gay men while discussing strategies to cultivate self-compassion, set clear boundaries, and prioritize individual needs for a more authentic and personal empowered life as gay men.
Related Episodes:
- Listen to Episode 13. Perfectly Imperfect: Conquer Your Perfectionism
- Listen to Episode 34. GBF: Gay Best Friend
- Listen to Episode 85. Boundaries: How to Understand and Set Them
Additional Resources:
- People Pleaser (Merriam-Webster)
- What Is People-Pleasing?
- People-Pleasing
- People Pleaser: What It Means and How to Stop
- How to Stop People-Pleasing
- What is a People Pleaser?
- How to Stop People-Pleasing (and Still Be Nice)
- How Does Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn Show Up for Gay Men?
- Gay People Have Been Taught to Be People-Pleasing Push-Overs
Kapitler
1. Snarky Opener (00:00:00)
2. Episode Introduction (00:00:32)
3. People Pleasing (00:01:23)
4. Tarot (00:02:05)
5. What is People Pleasing? (00:03:03)
6. What Causes People Pleasing? (00:04:14)
7. Common Traits of People Pleasing (00:06:16)
8. Over-Apologizing (00:07:20)
9. Conflict Avoidance (00:08:17)
10. Effects on Mental Health (00:09:08)
11. Fawning (00:10:08)
12. Stop People Pleasing (00:12:10)
13. Episode Closing (00:15:03)
14. Connect with A Jaded Gay (00:16:48)
15. Outtake (00:18:52)
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Most of us have gotten at least a little emotional at some point recently. It’s natural. But why do we have emotions and how much should we pay attention to them on any given day? Can we learn to skillfully choose which emotions to listen to and which ones to just let move on by? In More Than A Feeling, the latest podcast from Ten Percent Happier, host Saleem Reshamwala goes on a real life quest to find the answers to these questions. He’ll experiment with neuroscientists, dive into stories ...
…
continue reading
We are a Filipino-Chinese couple living in the heart of Manila. We have been together for 20 years and decided to make this podcast to share our life experiences. Our podcast has no format and may discuss random things like relationships, recommended food in Binondo or about our philosophy in life. If you like our podcast, don’t forget to click the subscribe/follow button and give us a 5 star rating ^.^ Please visit our FB page @kwentuhansessionsph and ig page @kwentuhansessions. You can als ...
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“LA Made” is a series exploring stories of bold Californian innovators and how they forever changed the lives of millions all over the world. Each season will unpack the untold and surprising stories behind some of the most exciting innovations that continue to influence our lives today. Season 2, “LA Made: The Barbie Tapes,” tells the backstory of the world’s most popular doll, Barbie. Barbie is a cultural icon but what do you really know about her? Hear Barbie's origin story from the peopl ...
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Imperfect Paradise is an award-winning weekly narrative podcast showcasing California stories with universal significance, hosted by Antonia Cereijido. Each deeply reported story is driven by characters who illuminate aspects of American identity and underscore California's reputation as a home for dreamers and schemers, its heartbreaking inequality, its varied and diverse communities, its unique combination of dense cities and wild places. New episodes premiere Wednesdays, with broadcasts o ...
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Join two of the stars from Real Housewives of Potomac, Gizelle Bryant and Robyn Dixon, as they team up for their new podcast Reasonably Shady. The show features conversations about being fearless women as they recount stories from their exciting lives. Topics include dating, relationships, marriage, entrepreneurs, motherhood, style, glam, current events and more! Join Gizelle and Robyn for Reasonably Shady!
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It was the deadliest string of shark attacks the world has ever seen. In 2011, sharks in Réunion, a beautiful island, way out in the Indian Ocean started biting people way more than ever before and with lunatic violence. The epidemic forced local surfers, politicians, and business owners into a proxy war with ocean lovers and conservationists worldwide, where long simmering tensions boiled over. Réunion: Shark Attacks in Paradise is the story of what happened on this beautiful island, and t ...
…
continue reading
Since 2014 this longstanding podcast favourite has been creating hard-hitting cinematic stories about love, bodies and all of the things between humans that we don’t know how to name. Creator Kaitlin Prest works with her friends, idols and all kinds of loved ones to bring you into an expansive sonic universe that challenges what we think we know about relationships.
…
continue reading
Meditative Story combines extraordinary human stories with meditation prompts embedded into the storylines — all surrounded by breathtaking music. Think of it as an alternative way into a mindfulness practice, through vivid stories and cinematic music and production values. Meditative Story is an original series produced by WaitWhat and supported by our members. Our community tells us that they listen to the same episodes over and over again, and according to data provided by Apple Podcasts, ...
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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
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